Need ideas!

Guy I have been seeing is coming over tonight. Usually we just watch movies, but I'd like some other activities to suggest. Like, we only watch movies. I still am ridiculously nervous and awkward around him lol, so keep that in mind, just sitting around talking is probably out of the Q. I wanna talk to him and learn more about him but we need distractions to break the ice. And we won't be leaving the house. Anyone have any suggestions for me?

Sounds corny, but a board game, like Scrabble? Loosen up with a drink and have some fun. My ex and I used to do it all the time. Remember, just be yourself! The harder you TRY the more awkward you feel and he can feel it.. 🙂

Posted by DazedScorp
that was @ dreamer

to each his own but I have had lots of fun w/ Scrabble. Then we would up the stakes and play for money and then invite other ppl over for tournaments. That shit was fun.

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Posted by DazedScorp
that was @ dreamer

to each his own but I have had lots of fun w/ Scrabble. Then we would up the stakes and play for money and then invite other ppl over for tournaments. That shit was fun.

Either smart-ass words or making them up = fun times (for me at least🙂)

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Exactly! 🙂

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Posted by DazedScorp
that was @ dreamer

to each his own but I have had lots of fun w/ Scrabble. Then we would up the stakes and play for money and then invite other ppl over for tournaments. That shit was fun.

Up the stakes? Someones getting nakey.

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Well thats another way to go. Why didnt I think of that? LOL

Hey y'all sorry I was in the shower 😉 lmao.

I thought scrabble too, but we play each other in words with friends so that might be too many word games haha. I do have monopoly though.. Hmmph.

He's a Scorpio and I'm a Pisces.

Exo, that questions game sounds pretty awesome, I'll have to look into it for next time since I won't be leaving the house tonight. And we can't go out tonight either because my son will be sleeping. When I don't have my son we do go out and drink together and what not.

Really the only thing that comes to mind is cards lol. I wish there was more to do! Just not sure what wouldn't be corny as dazed said haha.. Or what he'd even like to do with me. I'd be happy coloring in a coloring book lmao obv no guy wants to do that.. I do often sit around with girlfriends and color tho while we gossip and catch up, ha.

Exo, I like that game! I know a similar one, I think I'll make a thread about it tomorrow. Maybe I'll just be a weirdo and play those games with him. Idk how I got so self conscious in the last few yrs but being my silly self is probably my best bet in having a good time with him =p

Ohh dazed yea! That also reminds me of a fun topic. Similar to zombie attacks. Asking what'd you do if everyone on earth all of a sudden dissapeared, that moment, as you are sitting where you sit. I had an hour conversation with a big group of friends on that and it resulted in the the only boy in existence would be my unborn son inside me.. So reproduction was quite the funny topic in the convo lol.

Ill go with zombies tho. I can't even imagine where I'll slip that in but ill figure it out :p

Hoestly, we DO get dirty every time were together. Lmao. Ugh.

So the connection in that matter is none to worry about.

It's the talking that is hard. Hahaha.

I dont have any video games. I wish I did! That'd be fantastic.

APP, that is so scary. I am a frequent intense eye contact kind of person I think it freaks people out tho!

Dazed, I am considering that may be all there is to do. O Lordy.

Posted by elihope69
do you have a wii? a good game of bowlin would be fun. umm, how about go out to mini golf or something.

Would love to if we could leave the house.

I think the conclusion is, sex him first, and then play really abstract psychological Q&A games and creep him out. :p

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Posted by LouLore
I dont have any video games. I wish I did! That'd be fantastic.

APP, that is so scary. I am a frequent intense eye contact kind of person I think it freaks people out tho!

Dazed, I am considering that may be all there is to do. O Lordy.

Intense eye contact does not freak me out...it makes me hard.

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Well then....

Thank you all for your guidance 😉 !

Hidden posts, always such a bummer.

Ohh.

I already had a drink... Hahah. Idk why this guy makes me so nervous! I guess it could be endearing but it's also a bit pathetic lol.

Maybe I'll pour another.

Posted by DazedScorp
*sigh*

At least one of my Scorp bros is going to get laid tonight.

Fin.











Im going to try and get cute and stuff, brush my teeth, you know. I'll let you guys kno if anything interesting happens tomorrow.. Lol.

Posted by LouLore
Guy I have been seeing is coming over tonight. Usually we just watch movies, but I'd like some other activities to suggest. Like, we only watch movies. I still am ridiculously nervous and awkward around him lol, so keep that in mind, just sitting around talking is probably out of the Q. I wanna talk to him and learn more about him but we need distractions to break the ice. And we won't be leaving the house. Anyone have any suggestions for me?

Are the two of you casually dating? Because if so & all he does is come over, maybe he doesn't want to go on an "offical" date. Ask him about it & see what he says. There are so many other things you guys can do...Go to a museum, take a helicopter ride, go to the beach(before the summer is over)have an outing in a park with the two of you with lunch, horse back riding...come on, there's a lot of things to do, you just gotta see if he's on the same page.

*official

Posted by LouLore
I think the conclusion is, sex him first, and then play really abstract psychological Q&A games and creep him out. :p

Scorp + Pisces = yeah, like that's not gonna happen anyway🙂

Real & carbon, those are good suggestions, but we couldn't leave the house since my baby was snoozing in his room. So I was looking for at home activities. which are surprisingly hard to come up with when you're planning for a casual getting-to-know-you-still kinda deal. Dating as a single parent really changes the game!

Pretty much what I said in conclusion is what happened. In reverse order. Humph.

Well when I was hanging with new scorp recently he drew me haha

Watch football with him on Saturdays, Sundays, Sunday Night, Monday night and some Thursday nights.

Posted by wgamador2
Watch football with him on Saturdays, Sundays, Sunday Night, Monday night and some Thursday nights.

He apparently hates football :p

I on the other hand don't mind watching a game or two.