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Pillow talk After Sex...
Yep, lets talk later. After sex is for cuddling and sleeping.
That's of course assuming it's sex at night. If it's that glorious morning sex... sure we can talk. Afterwards we can lay for a minute or three to catch our breath, then throw on some clothes and start the day. "What would you like for breakfast?"
i read somewhere that men fall asleep after sex...because...something about a hormone being released that induces sleepiness. so it shouldn't be taken personally
Posted by wineaux
um, i just keep having more sex until one of us collapses. however, i'm a gem and need it every once in awhile. are you asking because you don't like to or your partner wants you to?
No we actually like to watch movies, eat, & talk after sex...He seldom rolls over & goes right to sleep...He's a gem too. 😛
^^^Lmao...@ cookies for him. I'm thinking your cookies & actual cookies! Killing 2 birds with one stone 😛
Posted by nimbue
i read somewhere that men fall asleep after sex...because...something about a hormone being released that induces sleepiness. so it shouldn't be taken personally
Girls do this too.
If you have enough energy to keep talking then you didn't give it "all" during the performance.
Do over.
Posted by ReallyNiceAriesPerson
Posted by nimbue
i read somewhere that men fall asleep after sex...because...something about a hormone being released that induces sleepiness. so it shouldn't be taken personallyGirls do this too.
If you have enough energy to keep talking then you didn't give it "all" during the performance.
Do over.click to expand
I beg to differ. Shit it's been times when we have flipped my apt upside down...& we still chill & talk afterwards.
what do you guys do, snort red bull?? now that's stamina...
Just give me an arm please, and snuggle up to me. Morpheus is present and it's time for sweet sleep.
Posted by ReallyNiceAriesPerson
Posted by nimbue
i read somewhere that men fall asleep after sex...because...something about a hormone being released that induces sleepiness. so it shouldn't be taken personallyGirls do this too.
If you have enough energy to keep talking then you didn't give it "all" during the performance.
Do over.I beg to differ. Shit it's been times when we have flipped my apt upside down...& we still chill & talk afterwards.
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Profuse apologies for using my sense of humor (bear with me - it's mercury retrograde) it was a litte Aries joke...
What is pillow talk for an Aries?
"Are you ready - let's go again"
Posted by nimbue
what do you guys do, snort red bull?? now that's stamina...
Uh...no. Lol. We're just REALLY into each other & believe it or not that helps a hell of a lot. I could sex him completely dry & want more...I'm a virgo! 😉
Posted by ReallyNiceAriesPerson
Posted by ReallyNiceAriesPerson
Posted by nimbue
i read somewhere that men fall asleep after sex...because...something about a hormone being released that induces sleepiness. so it shouldn't be taken personallyGirls do this too.
If you have enough energy to keep talking then you didn't give it "all" during the performance.
Do over.I beg to differ. Shit it's been times when we have flipped my apt upside down...& we still chill & talk afterwards.
Profuse apologies for using my sense of humor (bear with me - it's mercury retrograde) it was a litte Aries joke...
What is pillow talk for an Aries?
"Are you ready - let's go again"click to expand
LOL...Word
Posted by ellybd
Scorp + Scorp = Stamina. Personally attest to that.
Yeah...People say distance makes the heart grow fonder! *cough* (for somebody else) Just kidding, but real talk, when you've been longing for/missing each other & finally be together...It's pretty explosive & passionate.
Posted by ellybd
Scorp + Scorp = Stamina. Personally attest to that.When he came back after being on the other side of the world, being gone nearly three weeks? My those are some pleasant memories. 😄 😄 😄
^^^This is what I was really quoting...it posted wrong.
Posted by ReallyNiceAriesPerson
Posted by nimbue
i read somewhere that men fall asleep after sex...because...something about a hormone being released that induces sleepiness. so it shouldn't be taken personallyGirls do this too.
If you have enough energy to keep talking then you didn't give it "all" during the performance.
Do over.click to expand
agreed.
It depends on the situation, imho.
Cuddle and sleep for me but my Cappy is ready to take on the world. LOL
O.K. IF YOU TALK TO ONE THEN THE OTHER ONE WANTS TO TALK TO
BEFORE YOU KNOW IT I'M OUT OF THERE I LET THEM ARGUE.
Posted by venusianbull
Just give me an arm please, and snuggle up to me. Morpheus is present and it's time for sweet sleep.
This is so very bull like lol. But I love it too haha.
Unless I'm being spoken to, I'm pretty comfortable just cuddling and dozing off (unless there is more sex involved); if something comes to mind, I'll say it, but I only carry conversations if we're both talking about something.
Posted by RealTalk
Hmmmm...Is is rude for you partner to always roll over & go to sleep? Or is it more considerate for him/her to engage in conversation?
It depends on the time, place & type of sex.
If you're making love late at night, it wouldn't hurt to engage in a lil small talk afterwards. But then again, if your partner is very tired, there's no need to be upset
If it's a quickie or if the both of you are just trying to slide sex in before going to other prior engagements, pillow talk isn't necessary
I think pillow talk is necessary some of the time but not all of the time
If your partner always rolls over, never speaks a word to you & falls asleep, that's either an indication that you put it on em! OR...that there's a disconnect somewhere in the communication department
Some people like having full blown convos after sex & that is just unnecessary unless the topic relates to the sex or is very important
You are indeed a true Aries, aren't you ReallyNiceAriesPerson.....
Posted by 69virgo
Talk before... during..and if there's a snack after,then we talk..😛 other then that..zzzzzzzzz's ...why are you asking darling..you want somebody too talk to after the boots get knocked..😛
I never have a problem in that area babe...
It depends on who its with
Posted by Sagittarius89
It depends on who its with
word.
Posted by Sagittarius89
It depends on who its withword.
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+1
i always talk after sex. if someone rolled over and went to sleep i would kick them out of my bed lol. i like to have a cigarette after sex and listen to the guy tell me how amazing i was :p haha but seriously i like to talk about the sex we just had and talk about what we're going to try next/what turned them on the most/how amazing i was lol.
Posted by RealTalk
Hmmmm...Is is rude for you partner to always roll over & go to sleep? Or is it more considerate for him/her to engage in conversation?I find it rude if he does talk. It's like stfu please it's bad enough you're still here
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LMAO! Lena you are funny! 😄
Send me to oblivion. We dont have to say shit to each other after that. 🙂
Posted by dofacc
You are indeed a true Aries, aren't you ReallyNiceAriesPerson.....
Nah, I just made the name up to screw with everyone's heads.
Aries. Jump the fence - the grass is greener and the sex is better over on our side😉
Posted by starlover
Yes it is rude to roll over and fall asleepIt is far more polite to have sex AGAIN
lol
and again
😄
starlover makes an excellent point
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Hmmmm...Is is rude for you partner to always roll over & go to sleep? Or is it more considerate for him/her to engage in conversation?