I Need Some Hope People!

Okay, so lately I've been thinking alot and noticing how SELFISH the people I've slept with have been.

I can't remember the last time I slept with someone who " tried to HELP me have an orgasm " as pose to " Letting me ride it out or do what I need to do to get one "

If you know what I am saying?

I'm starting to lose faith that there aren't men out there that are willing to take more time in helping pleasuring a woman. It makes me sad😢

Maybe it's the age group? Or maybe me? I don't know though. Does anyone know what I am talking about?

*TMI, NSFW, ECT*

It took a long time for me to find someone who actually enjoyed and chose to go down on me rather than have me do all the work. I didn't realize until eh... several months ago... how glorious it was.

Well, I also had trouble speaking up about what I wanted, but needless to say, I've had my hand of selfish guys too lol.

most guys I have been with will not have actual sex with me until they know I have already had atleast one orgasm, maybe I've just found the unselfish ones I dont know?! or maybe its because I dont do one night stands so they get to learn my body?

However I did used to keep findig men who seem to think they know what I want them to do and refuse to except that I couldnt be enjoying it haha they had good intentions but its just as annoying!

Posted by ellessque
find a mars in taurus 😛

works nicely with a mars in scorp.

I remember you told me to find a mars in scorp a while back (since I'm a mars in taurus) lol

Perhaps the guys don't turn you on all that much?

Thanks for your replies everyone.

I'm glad you see I am not alone in this.

Posted by oldskoolflavor
poor lil sag 😢

I love simpsons 😄

Posted by exoskeleton
this is why i date older men. they won't stop until you come. 🙂

I believe you

Hi its vince with Slap Chop! You're gonna be in a great mood all day cause you're gonna be slappin your troubles with the Slap Chop. Now look here's a potato. One slap you got big chunks for stews, two slaps home fries in a second. And now look at this when you add a mushroom you more you do it the finer it gets you don't have to switch any blades.

Sag89...Your nervous, dancing milk box is very cute...btw is he nervous or dancing...either way I like it. It's annoying, cute and yet mesmerizing.

You know what I think? I'll bet some of them don't know how to do it (younger ones) so they just let it go...and don't bother. Or they try and nothing happens so maybe they give up??

Girl. I've definitely felt your pain. My last boyfriend told me I was frigid lol, because I naver came with him or any other man. Well, fast forward a few years and I met the Scorp I see now. The first time he invited to be alone with him, I hesitated because I wasn't ready for intercourse. He promised me he would keep his clothes on, and all he wanted to do was please me. Guuuurrrllll! For about 2 hours he played with me and teased me every way possible. Then he went down on me and BOOYAH!! Lmao! Hmph. Frigid my ass! Haha

Posted by Sagittarius89
Okay, so lately I've been thinking alot and noticing how SELFISH the people I've slept with have been.

I'm starting to lose faith that there aren't men out there that are willing to take more time in helping pleasuring a woman. It makes me sad😢

hA hA don't worry about it just B patient you're
a Sag U were born with hope
🙂

Posted by Sagittarius89
Okay, so lately I've been thinking alot and noticing how SELFISH the people I've slept with have been.

I can't remember the last time I slept with someone who " tried to HELP me have an orgasm " as pose to " Letting me ride it out or do what I need to do to get one "

If you know what I am saying?

I'm starting to lose faith that there aren't men out there that are willing to take more time in helping pleasuring a woman. It makes me sad😢

Maybe it's the age group? Or maybe me? I don't know though. Does anyone know what I am talking about?

be patient, have faith, there are awesome guys out there.
When you find one do not let him go. And treat him right, of course.

Haha thanks guys. You are sweet. I will try and have hope!

Yum! had one, wish I still did - he was the best, always will be - virgo sun just added to the caring and attention, syncing just happens with these men, and they are real men. *reminiscing too* sigh.

Posted by ellessque
they are ALL about the touch AND the timing.

he took the time to figure it out....we would be in sync every.single.time without skipping a beat.

it was effin magical and mind blowing.

*reminiscing*

s in Taurus man i was talking about btw

Not sure that the "older" tag automatically gives a guy pleasing kudos. Was recently with 38 y.o. gorgeous, fit body etc., but he ended up telling me to look after myself when he was done? Mars in Aquarius, how does that work 😢

Posted by celticlioness
Yum! had one, wish I still did - he was the best, always will be - virgo sun just added to the caring and attention, syncing just happens with these men, and they are real men. *reminiscing too* sigh.

Posted by ellessque
they are ALL about the touch AND the timing.

he took the time to figure it out....we would be in sync every.single.time without skipping a beat.

it was effin magical and mind blowing.

*reminiscing*

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Posted by oldskoolflavor
you should marry that gentleman

Lol. I'm trying to maintain my composure. It's a year later and I'm like, "OMG don't let me get sprung. Please please don't let me get sprung! Noooooo!". Lmao! I'm fighting it!

Posted by elihope69
sounds like a bunch of boys. and when you find one that really cares about you thats one way of knowing... hell want to please you. good luck. and until then dont give it up as much be stingy with that thing!

^^^^^^^^^ +1 I went without sex 3 1/2 years until I met this Scorp. He was well worth the wait.

Posted by elihope69
sounds like a bunch of boys. and when you find one that really cares about you thats one way of knowing... hell want to please you. good luck. and until then dont give it up as much be stingy with that thing!

Haha I enjoy sleeping around at this point in my life. I learn things. Like most people are selfish haha. But they make me that much better in bed 😛

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Posted by Sagittarius89
Okay, so lately I've been thinking alot and noticing how SELFISH the people I've slept with have been.

I can't remember the last time I slept with someone who " tried to HELP me have an orgasm " as pose to " Letting me ride it out or do what I need to do to get one "

If you know what I am saying?

I'm starting to lose faith that there aren't men out there that are willing to take more time in helping pleasuring a woman. It makes me sad😢

Maybe it's the age group? Or maybe me? I don't know though. Does anyone know what I am talking about?

Hey girl....don't lose faith, because those guys (considerate lovers) DO exist!

What age(s) are you dating? Reading your post reminds me why I love dating guys 27/28+.

Sex seems to become more of a shared experience rather than a selfish one when guys hit that age....

Before that age.....meh. It's hit or miss. Have you tried talking about this subject with your guy? Maybe a nice convo about it would do the trick...?

But anyways.... it's all good, Sag89.

Don't worry. Good sex will cum to you (heehee)...

🙂

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LOL! I sleep with people that rage from 20-22. So young yes. I am 21.

I really haven't had older yet. I'd like to try it.

Posted by Gemini78

Posted by Sagittarius89
Okay, so lately I've been thinking alot and noticing how SELFISH the people I've slept with have been.

I'm starting to lose faith that there aren't men out there that are willing to take more time in helping pleasuring a woman. It makes me sad😢

hA hA don't worry about it just B patient you're
a Sag U were born with hope
🙂

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Haha right!