Another sexy thread: Who likes it more?

This topic was created in the Relationships forum by AiryBri on Wednesday, July 27, 2011 and has 16 replies.

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15 YearsAries

My bf and I have talked about this a lot. How I get so into him playing with me and it's really intense, but for him no matter what it pretty much just feels good with a great climax to finish it off. I'm not just talking about sex but foreplay and masturbation too, who do you think likes it more? (Men may want it more often, but that doesn't mean they get more enjoyment!)

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Don't believe the blue balls hype. Yeh yeh, like their bawbag will self implode if they don't ejaculate their mighty fluids into some willing receptacle. ( Whatev and what nots )..it gets reabsorbed into the body like anything else. Not to mention there is the fappability factor. "Catch and release into the wild". Anyhoo, that aside..if you are within the confines ( or freedom if you will ) of what is comfortable for you and another person...if it feels good..do it. I assure you it's mutual. Loads of happy feel-good nerve endings for one and all.

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What I've wondered, and sincerely. Is that the vagina ( as we well know ) is a self-lubricating thing. An inside out penis cannot do this. Granted they sell such things to facilitate, but how does orgasm work. How can they possibly have one? Wouldn't that detract from the entire "I'm a woman now!" vibe?

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I think BOTH people oughta enjoy it the SAME especially if they're both sexually & emotionally engaged in the relationship as a whole. And if both people are actually good at pleasuring the other person

I can't imagine someone turning away something that actually feels good!

I like pleasuring my husband; hell, simply pleasuring him gives me pleasure, even if it's just emotional or psychological that comes from me physically pleasuring him. And I damn sure like him pleasuring me. I can't speak for him but I'm assuming he'd say the same =)

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Posted by everevolvingepithet
That's a good point.
Does the inside out tail get wet when aroused ?
Maybe they quim a little bit ?

Unsure, I do know that the surgery itself is pretty horrific. Someone is deadly in earnest to even undergo such a thing. It does bring up questions though *biting lower lip* ..and not a transgendered person anywhere to ask that I'm aware of.

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True. Sex on the regular is important for many reasons. It also reduces or eliminates headache, so that excuse can shove off.

HOWEVER LADIES, it does not cure any ailment, reduce the size of your bottom or provide the answers to world peace. LOL Despite what the fellows say.

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I think it is pretty much a false question.

Is it more pleasurable to stroke, or be stroked? I don't think I can split a hair that fine.

Sometimes it was better for her than me, other times it was better for me than her.

Sometimes she felt more driven than I, sometimes I was the driven one.

It changed every time. This made for a much more interesting love life, of course. And I do believe that would be my point. When it is interesting, you can't predict who it well be "better" for. You have to live it to find that answer, and the answer is different every time.