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Opinion dating someone with an almost identical personality to your own
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Something to be talked about extensively I think. If either or both want that. What their fears are. What their wants are. What makes them feel safe. How do they view relationships, are they able to reconcile or reform those ideas if they're not conducive to what you WANT to have
So you do feel that the men cheating is more than just a booty call with you? Or wanting confidence from a younger woman (i'm guessing) than their wife or girlfriend? Is that what I'm supposed to take from this?
Posted by Solo
Something to be talked about extensively I think. If either or both want that. What their fears are. What their wants are. What makes them feel safe. How do they view relationships, are they able to reconcile or reform those ideas if they're not conducive to what you WANT to have
Never mind, this type of conversation is a little too serious for me š¬
Posted by WhorpioPosted by Solo
Something to be talked about extensively I think. If either or both want that. What their fears are. What their wants are. What makes them feel safe. How do they view relationships, are they able to reconcile or reform those ideas if they're not conducive to what you WANT to have
Never mind, this type of conversation is a little too serious for me š¬click to expand
Why? You claimed you want to try with this one. So try. I imagine there's something strong there if it makes you wanna try?
Ooooof, can't imagine dating someone too similar....š¬š¬š¬
On the "almost identical personality to your own" part of it, yeah, I think so, if you like/love yourself? LOL
Two Fearful Avoidant personalities?
Fuck. No.
Fuck. No.
I'm not sure it's possible because you'd piss each other off so much. Like magnets.
i feel like people usually end up with people who are similar to them in many ways.
enduring, profound connections rarely seem to happen between two people who have little in common.
opposites attract short-term. from what iāve seen. the fascination and novelty will wear off eventually.
i think the general rule is,
if you find yourself repulsed by someone who is just like you (someone who possesses the same characteristics as you) , that also kinda means youāre subconsciously repulsed with yourself too.
on the other hand, if you feel happy when you meet someone like yourself, that means you have positive self-regard (you like yourself as a person) and thatās a great thing.
enduring, profound connections rarely seem to happen between two people who have little in common.
opposites attract short-term. from what iāve seen. the fascination and novelty will wear off eventually.
i think the general rule is,
if you find yourself repulsed by someone who is just like you (someone who possesses the same characteristics as you) , that also kinda means youāre subconsciously repulsed with yourself too.
on the other hand, if you feel happy when you meet someone like yourself, that means you have positive self-regard (you like yourself as a person) and thatās a great thing.
with that being said, i generally feel that people who are looking for peace and happiness donāt wanna play sherlock holmes and spend a lifetime trying to āfigure someone outā who is vastly different from them in terms of values, thought processes, behaviors etc
cuzā¦wellā¦itās tiring.
i mean itās cool if you have the energy and time for that sorta stuff butā¦
i personally think itās safer to find someone who is similar to you in all the important ways.
but if youāre like TOO similar, youāre gonna be bumping heads a lot too. so i would look for someone who is similar but not too similar.
it really just depends on what youāre looking for tho. you already said youāre not ready to go deep so it doesnāt really matter. date whoever you want.
cuzā¦wellā¦itās tiring.
i mean itās cool if you have the energy and time for that sorta stuff butā¦
i personally think itās safer to find someone who is similar to you in all the important ways.
but if youāre like TOO similar, youāre gonna be bumping heads a lot too. so i would look for someone who is similar but not too similar.
it really just depends on what youāre looking for tho. you already said youāre not ready to go deep so it doesnāt really matter. date whoever you want.
Does he get scared by you as well? Maybe fear is exciting, dangerous even. But it feels like playing with fire.
Too much mirroring baby
I say just give it a try. And see where it leads. Of course Its not at all surprising to me Gemini sun and Gemini moon men can have trust issues.
Are you still going to be sleeping with lots of other men during the course of your relationship? Iām asking because for most(?) men that could inevitably cause insecurity/trust issues?
Posted by WarAngel79
Two Fearful Avoidant personalities?
Fuck. No.
lol thatās this Gemini and I. 2 FAās but Iām trying to become more secure.
Posted by MyStarsShine
Are you still going to be sleeping with lots of other men during the course of your relationship? Iām asking because for most(?) men that could inevitably cause insecurity/trust issues?
i didnāt even remember who this user was until you brought this up.
i remember now
she was that girl who was trying to go after some married dude just for shits and giggles (and did similar things often) and when confronted by members here, she gave some lame ass sob story about her being autistic and having daddy issues or whatever as if that was supposed to excuse her behavior or something.
yup
nothinā to see hereā¦
Posted by serenidadPosted by MyStarsShine
Are you still going to be sleeping with lots of other men during the course of your relationship? Iām asking because for most(?) men that could inevitably cause insecurity/trust issues?
i didnāt even remember who this user was until you brought this up.
i remember now
she was that girl who was trying to go after some married dude just for shits and giggles (and did similar things often) and when confronted by members here, she gave some lame ass sob story about her being autistic and having daddy issues or whatever as if that was supposed to excuse her behavior or something.
yup
nothinā to see hereā¦click to expand
Yes this is her
I think at the very least there has to be karma for this type of behaviour?
Do unto others ā¦ā¦ā¦.
Posted by serenidadPosted by MyStarsShine
Are you still going to be sleeping with lots of other men during the course of your relationship? Iām asking because for most(?) men that could inevitably cause insecurity/trust issues?
i didnāt even remember who this user was until you brought this up.
i remember now
she was that girl who was trying to go after some married dude just for shits and giggles (and did similar things often) and when confronted by members here, she gave some lame ass sob story about her being autistic and having daddy issues or whatever as if that was supposed to excuse her behavior or something.
yup
nothinā to see hereā¦click to expand
The one who blamed her autism was an Aquarius or something. Canāt remember the username but definitely not me. I also DO NOT have daddy issues, and have long maintained that my dad IS one of my best friends.
Yes I am involved with married men as part of my job, not for sport but I do consider my job a sport.
Thanks @MyStarsShine for perpetuating untrue rumors. Sad to see not much has changed with you š
Posted by WhorpioPosted by WarAngel79
Two Fearful Avoidant personalities?
Fuck. No.
lol thatās this Gemini and I. 2 FAās but Iām trying to become more secure.click to expand
I'm not saying it's impossible but you definitely have an uphill climb.
Posted by WhorpioPosted by serenidadPosted by MyStarsShinei didnāt even remember who this user was until you brought this up.
Are you still going to be sleeping with lots of other men during the course of your relationship? Iām asking because for most(?) men that could inevitably cause insecurity/trust issues?
i remember now
she was that girl who was trying to go after some married dude just for shits and giggles (and did similar things often) and when confronted by members here, she gave some lame ass sob story about her being autistic and having daddy issues or whatever as if that was supposed to excuse her behavior or something.
yup
nothinā to see hereā¦
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The one who blamed her autism was an Aquarius or something. Canāt remember the username but definitely not me. I also DO NOT have daddy issues, and have long maintained that my dad IS one of my best friends.
Yes I am involved with married men as part of my job, not for sport but I do consider my job a sport.
Thanks @MyStarsShine for perpetuating untrue rumors. Sad to see not much has changed with youclick to expand
Sorry I was mistaken there, I think it was mum issues you have and not dad my agreeing with Serinidad was misplaced ā¦.
Similiar yes when it comes to moon sign compatibility but definitely not sun sign. I can't see myself with a Libra.
Posted by Timone
Similiar yes when it comes to moon sign compatibility but definitely not sun sign. I can't see myself with a Libra.
I think in rships, moon sign compatibility is one of the most important. If youāre not in synch emotionally thatāll be very challenging.
Squares and oppositions imo arenāt great in understanding each other and compatibility.
Posted by MyStarsShine
I think in rships, moon sign compatibility is one of the most important. If youāre not in synch emotionally thatāll be very challenging.
Squares and oppositions imo arenāt great in understanding each other and compatibility.
interesting about opposing moons. My two bestest friends in the whole wide world are Gemini moons (opp my sag moon). Gemini moon is more my speed emotionally/mentally. Iād say it is my favorite placement in others these days.
Posted by Textosmoon
I feel I wouldnt have anything to offer that they didn't already have. I would also feel that I wouldn't learn anything new.
They say everyone can teach you something. But teaching yourself things?? I already have myself.
Although at least we would have a lot of common ground...
I dont know... i guess there are many versions of my personality really arent there?
This pairing has helped me learn more about myself for sure. I kind of struggle to introspect objectively, so having someone similar to me forces me to push outside the lense I typically introspect through.
Posted by RollergirlOrc
Does he get scared by you as well? Maybe fear is exciting, dangerous even. But it feels like playing with fire.
I donāt knaur if the fear is mutual. Some indicators point to yes, but heās taking me on a trip this week and I definitely think Iām panicking more than he is.
Posted by WarAngel79Posted by WhorpioPosted by WarAngel79lol thatās this Gemini and I. 2 FAās but Iām trying to become more secure.
Two Fearful Avoidant personalities?
Fuck. No.
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I'm not saying it's impossible but you definitely have an uphill climb.click to expand
I sense that, especially within. Relationships are mortifying man
Posted by WhorpioPosted by WarAngel79I sense that, especially within. Relationships are mortifying manPosted by WhorpioI'm not saying it's impossible but you definitely have an uphill climb.Posted by WarAngel79lol thatās this Gemini and I. 2 FAās but Iām trying to become more secure.
Two Fearful Avoidant personalities?
Fuck. No.
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You're young still. But you have to turn a new leaf. Something tells me most growth is going to occur away from whoever it is your currently with. And then you have to pray that the other person is going to do their own work too. You will not be able to fix him. Just like he is unable to fix you.
If you use shortcuts, you will lose.
Posted by WhorpioPosted by MyStarsShineinteresting about opposing moons. My two bestest friends in the whole wide world are Gemini moons (opp my sag moon). Gemini moon is more my speed emotionally/mentally. Iād say it is my favorite placement in others these days.
I think in rships, moon sign compatibility is one of the most important. If youāre not in synch emotionally thatāll be very challenging.
Squares and oppositions imo arenāt great in understanding each other and compatibility.click to expand
I think with friendships Gem and Sag moon would be fun as of all the oppositions these two seem to be the most similar
In intimate relationships it may be more tricky, but not as much as the square?
Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by serenidadPosted by MyStarsShinei didnāt even remember who this user was until you brought this up.
Are you still going to be sleeping with lots of other men during the course of your relationship? Iām asking because for most(?) men that could inevitably cause insecurity/trust issues?
i remember now
she was that girl who was trying to go after some married dude just for shits and giggles (and did similar things often) and when confronted by members here, she gave some lame ass sob story about her being autistic and having daddy issues or whatever as if that was supposed to excuse her behavior or something.
yup
nothinā to see hereā¦
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Yes this is her
I think at the very least there has to be karma for this type of behaviour?
Do unto others ā¦ā¦ā¦.click to expand
your memory is correct. this is her. donāt let her gaslight you lol. https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/venus/what-s-the-waiting-period-time-line-with-a-capricorn-venus--15289633/
Posted by Bumboklaat
Geminis always win against the Scorpios. Every single time. They never learn lol.
Win in what way?
Posted by ScreechingWeasel
It's weird, having some similarities is good. But after a certain point, more similarities make it so that you resent and clash with their differences more than you would if they were a person that's just very different from you
Have yet to see significant differences but I will say sometimes I get irritated with the very parts of him I dislike about myself. And theyāre not even negative things; I think theyāre just things I have a poor self concept of internally.
Posted by Bumboklaat
Geminis always win against the Scorpios. Every single time. They never learn lol.
Perhaps they do. The only serious relationship Iāve been in was with a Gemini. I fell out of love as fast as I fell into it, and ended up cheating pretty bad half the relationship. He still wanted to make it work despite that: despite me telling him I wasnāt attracted to him, he thought we could figure something out.
We still live together (signed a 2 year lease before breaking up). We talk from time to time; he will completely shit on my sex work and the men Iām involved with.
I think we both lost.
Posted by serenidadPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by serenidadYes this is herPosted by MyStarsShinei didnāt even remember who this user was until you brought this up.
Are you still going to be sleeping with lots of other men during the course of your relationship? Iām asking because for most(?) men that could inevitably cause insecurity/trust issues?
i remember now
she was that girl who was trying to go after some married dude just for shits and giggles (and did similar things often) and when confronted by members here, she gave some lame ass sob story about her being autistic and having daddy issues or whatever as if that was supposed to excuse her behavior or something.
yup
nothinā to see hereā¦
click to expand
I think at the very least there has to be karma for this type of behaviour?
Do unto others ā¦ā¦ā¦.
click to expand
your memory is correct. this is her. donāt let her gaslight you lol. https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/venus/what-s-the-waiting-period-time-line-with-a-capricorn-venus--15289633/click to expand
Whereās the shits & giggles? Whereās the sob story about being autistic and having daddy issues?
I was horny, that man was hot š¤·āāļø My intent with him wasnāt homewrecking, just hot sex. My intent is never to homewreck.
Posted by WhorpioPosted by serenidadPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by serenidadYes this is herPosted by MyStarsShinei didnāt even remember who this user was until you brought this up.
Are you still going to be sleeping with lots of other men during the course of your relationship? Iām asking because for most(?) men that could inevitably cause insecurity/trust issues?
i remember now
she was that girl who was trying to go after some married dude just for shits and giggles (and did similar things often) and when confronted by members here, she gave some lame ass sob story about her being autistic and having daddy issues or whatever as if that was supposed to excuse her behavior or something.
yup
nothinā to see hereā¦
click to expand
I think at the very least there has to be karma for this type of behaviour?
Do unto others ā¦ā¦ā¦.
click to expand
your memory is correct. this is her. donāt let her gaslight you lol. https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/venus/what-s-the-waiting-period-time-line-with-a-capricorn-venus--15289633/
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Whereās the shits & giggles? Whereās the sob story about being autistic and having daddy issues?
I was horny, that man was hot š¤·āāļø My intent with him wasnāt homewrecking, just hot sex. My intent is never to homewreck.click to expand
lol sure. whatever you say lol
if anyone cares enough to go read the old thread, they can read it and come up with their own thoughts and opinions. š
https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/venus/what-s-the-waiting-period-time-line-with-a-capricorn-venus--15289633/
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āI have depression, ADHD, PTSD, possibly aspergers, and limited emotional resources.ā
you volunteered this info out of nowhere to me. nobody asked.
page 6
āI have depression, ADHD, PTSD, possibly aspergers, and limited emotional resources.ā
you volunteered this info out of nowhere to me. nobody asked.
Iām a Scorpio sun/Leo moon and I found my mirror once in a Libra sun/Libra moon. It was so weird. Lol
Posted by Whorpio
For or against?
Could two whorpios be with eachother long term? Or would the attachment/trust issues prevent either party from getting too close?
How did a Scorpio Sun/sag moon find their mirror in a Gemini sun/gemini moon?
How does one take down the barriers around their heart, after years of seeing men cheat on their spouses? Am I just not ready to love? I want to try with this one, but the fear is strong, regardless of the object.
Didnāt date but met and became friends with someone whose placements are somewhat identical to mine.
We get along better than most people would for not having known each other initially. Worked really well together, had the same compassion for people and almost had the same thoughts when it came to problem-resolution to certain situations.
I think your opposite moons may attract you, if you are the scorpio sun with sag moon and they are gem moon. Often see them get along really well. The one is boundless in thought, the other is highly analytical to each detail, so I can imagine endless communication and a lot to talk about.
As for attachment/trust issues, I think you have to look at Chiron as well as the Houses and where the planets are.
Posted by serenidad
https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/venus/what-s-the-waiting-period-time-line-with-a-capricorn-venus--15289633/
page 6
āI have depression, ADHD, PTSD, possibly aspergers, and limited emotional resources.ā
you volunteered this info out of nowhere to me. nobody asked.
Posted by serenidadPosted by MyStarsShine
Are you still going to be sleeping with lots of other men during the course of your relationship? Iām asking because for most(?) men that could inevitably cause insecurity/trust issues?
i didnāt even remember who this user was until you brought this up.
i remember now
she was that girl who was trying to go after some married dude just for shits and giggles (and did similar things often) and when confronted by members here, she gave some lame ass sob story about her being autistic and having daddy issues or whatever as if that was supposed to excuse her behavior or something.
yup
nothinā to see hereā¦click to expand
To be fair, itās not really like youāre making it out to be. I read the thread and she never blamed her behavior on those things. Never once did she blame dad issues, thatās made up. And she admitted she has some mental issues but not in excuse of her behavior. So while you might not agree with her behavior, letās keep it real.
Posted by AbbyNormalPosted by serenidadPosted by MyStarsShinei didnāt even remember who this user was until you brought this up.
Are you still going to be sleeping with lots of other men during the course of your relationship? Iām asking because for most(?) men that could inevitably cause insecurity/trust issues?
i remember now
she was that girl who was trying to go after some married dude just for shits and giggles (and did similar things often) and when confronted by members here, she gave some lame ass sob story about her being autistic and having daddy issues or whatever as if that was supposed to excuse her behavior or something.
yup
nothinā to see hereā¦
click to expand
To be fair, itās not really like youāre making it out to be. I read the thread and she never blamed her behavior on those things. Never once did she blame dad issues, thatās made up. And she admitted she has some mental issues but not in excuse of her behavior. So while you might not agree with her behavior, letās keep it real.click to expand
if you read her thread and didnāt feel a thing, i dont think you and i are on the same page morally. i wasnāt the only person who found her behavior questionable, as you saw in that thread.
if she is proud of what sheās doing and sees nothing wrong with it, why even bring up any mental illness? why is there a need to tell me those things?
other than to try to induce/garner sympathy.
was i supposed to feel something?
why would i feel sympathy for someone who doesnāt feel sympathy for anyone ? (she made it pretty clear in the thread that she doesnāt feel any sympathy for the wives or the children of those men)
no offense but i save my sympathies for ppl who actually deserve them.
maybe it was mommy issues instead of daddy issues like mystarsshine clarified (that was on some different thread, not the one in the link)
youāre technically talking to a dude who didnāt even remember her so iām obviously not gonna get every small detail right. š
sheās apparently also a serial cheater who is worried about men cheating on her from the looks of it? yeah thatās laughable.š maybe she canāt trust men because she knows what humans are really capable of. (cheaters are always accusing other people of being cheaters. they think everybody out here cheats because they themselves cheat. this sorta paranoia is nothing new.)
she seems to like using sex as a weapon a lot but if she became paralyzed from head to
toe tomorrow and couldnāt use her body anymore, i wonder who she would impress.
not many people (if any) would be my guess.
her mind only seems to impress people who are similar to her (people with equally questionable morals). and probably some lonely degenerate dudes who are starved for female attention. š
i only cared about mystarsshine getting gaslighted. i donāt really care about what happens to opās future. she can continue doing wtf she wants at this point for all i care.
Posted by serenidadPosted by AbbyNormalPosted by serenidadTo be fair, itās not really like youāre making it out to be. I read the thread and she never blamed her behavior on those things. Never once did she blame dad issues, thatās made up. And she admitted she has some mental issues but not in excuse of her behavior. So while you might not agree with her behavior, letās keep it real.Posted by MyStarsShinei didnāt even remember who this user was until you brought this up.
Are you still going to be sleeping with lots of other men during the course of your relationship? Iām asking because for most(?) men that could inevitably cause insecurity/trust issues?
i remember now
she was that girl who was trying to go after some married dude just for shits and giggles (and did similar things often) and when confronted by members here, she gave some lame ass sob story about her being autistic and having daddy issues or whatever as if that was supposed to excuse her behavior or something.
yup
nothinā to see hereā¦
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if you read her thread and didnāt feel a thing, i dont think you and i are on the same page morally. i wasnāt the only person who found her behavior questionable, as you saw in that thread.
if she is proud of what sheās doing and sees nothing wrong with it, why even bring up any mental illness? why is there a need to tell me those things?
other than to try to induce/garner sympathy.
was i supposed to feel something?
why would i feel sympathy for someone who doesnāt feel sympathy for anyone ? (she made it pretty clear in the thread that she doesnāt feel any sympathy for the wives or the children of those men)
no offense but i save my sympathies for ppl who actually deserve them.
maybe it was mommy issues instead of daddy issues like mystarsshine clarified (that was on some different thread, not the one in the link)
youāre technically talking to a dude who didnāt even remember her so iām obviously not gonna get every small detail right. š
sheās apparently also a serial cheater who is worried about men cheating on her from the looks of it? yeah thatās laughable.š maybe she canāt trust men because she knows what humans are really capable of. (cheaters are always accusing other people of being cheaters. they think everybody out here cheats because they themselves cheat. this sorta paranoia is nothing new.)
she seems to like using sex as a weapon a lot but if she became paralyzed from head to
toe tomorrow and couldnāt use her body anymore, i wonder who she would impress.
not many people (if any) would be my guess.
her mind only seems to impress people who are similar to her (people with equally questionable morals). and probably some lonely degenerate dudes who are starved for female attention. š
i only cared about mystarsshine getting gaslighted. i donāt really care about what happens to opās future. she can continue doing wtf she wants at this point for all i care.
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That wasnāt what you said though. You didnāt challenge the reader to feel outraged morally. You said she blamed her behavior on said things, but the truth of the matter is she didnāt and never has that Iāve ever read. You can be upset, but Iām just trying to keep the facts straight.
Posted by AbbyNormalPosted by serenidadPosted by AbbyNormalif you read her thread and didnāt feel a thing, i dont think you and i are on the same page morally. i wasnāt the only person who found her behavior questionable, as you saw in that thread.Posted by serenidadTo be fair, itās not really like youāre making it out to be. I read the thread and she never blamed her behavior on those things. Never once did she blame dad issues, thatās made up. And she admitted she has some mental issues but not in excuse of her behavior. So while you might not agree with her behavior, letās keep it real.Posted by MyStarsShinei didnāt even remember who this user was until you brought this up.
Are you still going to be sleeping with lots of other men during the course of your relationship? Iām asking because for most(?) men that could inevitably cause insecurity/trust issues?
i remember now
she was that girl who was trying to go after some married dude just for shits and giggles (and did similar things often) and when confronted by members here, she gave some lame ass sob story about her being autistic and having daddy issues or whatever as if that was supposed to excuse her behavior or something.
yup
nothinā to see hereā¦
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if she is proud of what sheās doing and sees nothing wrong with it, why even bring up any mental illness? why is there a need to tell me those things?
other than to try to induce/garner sympathy.
was i supposed to feel something?
why would i feel sympathy for someone who doesnāt feel sympathy for anyone ? (she made it pretty clear in the thread that she doesnāt feel any sympathy for the wives or the children of those men)
no offense but i save my sympathies for ppl who actually deserve them.
maybe it was mommy issues instead of daddy issues like mystarsshine clarified (that was on some different thread, not the one in the link)
youāre technically talking to a dude who didnāt even remember her so iām obviously not gonna get every small detail right. š
sheās apparently also a serial cheater who is worried about men cheating on her from the looks of it? yeah thatās laughable.š maybe she canāt trust men because she knows what humans are really capable of. (cheaters are always accusing other people of being cheaters. they think everybody out here cheats because they themselves cheat. this sorta paranoia is nothing new.)
she seems to like using sex as a weapon a lot but if she became paralyzed from head to
toe tomorrow and couldnāt use her body anymore, i wonder who she would impress.
not many people (if any) would be my guess.
her mind only seems to impress people who are similar to her (people with equally questionable morals). and probably some lonely degenerate dudes who are starved for female attention. š
i only cared about mystarsshine getting gaslighted. i donāt really care about what happens to opās future. she can continue doing wtf she wants at this point for all i care.
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That wasnāt what you said though. You didnāt challenge the reader to feel outraged morally. You said she blamed her behavior on said things, but the truth of the matter is she didnāt and never has that Iāve ever read. You can be upset, but Iām just trying to keep the facts straight.click to expand
so you think people say and do things for no reason? that she brought up her mental illness for no reason?
thereās usually a reason/a motive behind what people say and do. she brought it up when she was being called out (when she was being told that she was immoral). but you still think she just did it for no reason?
really? lol š
ok lol š
also, i donāt care about op enough to be upset as iāve already clarified up there that her future is of no interest to me.
the only thing i didnāt like is her gaslighting a member who remembered her character accurately.
iām already well aware that op doesnāt possess any basic human emotions or decency. i donāt expect normal human empathy from her. iām not delusional about that. people like this do not feel anything other than self-importance. š
Posted by serenidadPosted by AbbyNormalPosted by serenidadThat wasnāt what you said though. You didnāt challenge the reader to feel outraged morally. You said she blamed her behavior on said things, but the truth of the matter is she didnāt and never has that Iāve ever read. You can be upset, but Iām just trying to keep the facts straight.Posted by AbbyNormalif you read her thread and didnāt feel a thing, i dont think you and i are on the same page morally. i wasnāt the only person who found her behavior questionable, as you saw in that thread.Posted by serenidadTo be fair, itās not really like youāre making it out to be. I read the thread and she never blamed her behavior on those things. Never once did she blame dad issues, thatās made up. And she admitted she has some mental issues but not in excuse of her behavior. So while you might not agree with her behavior, letās keep it real.Posted by MyStarsShinei didnāt even remember who this user was until you brought this up.
Are you still going to be sleeping with lots of other men during the course of your relationship? Iām asking because for most(?) men that could inevitably cause insecurity/trust issues?
i remember now
she was that girl who was trying to go after some married dude just for shits and giggles (and did similar things often) and when confronted by members here, she gave some lame ass sob story about her being autistic and having daddy issues or whatever as if that was supposed to excuse her behavior or something.
yup
nothinā to see hereā¦
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if she is proud of what sheās doing and sees nothing wrong with it, why even bring up any mental illness? why is there a need to tell me those things?
other than to try to induce/garner sympathy.
was i supposed to feel something?
why would i feel sympathy for someone who doesnāt feel sympathy for anyone ? (she made it pretty clear in the thread that she doesnāt feel any sympathy for the wives or the children of those men)
no offense but i save my sympathies for ppl who actually deserve them.
maybe it was mommy issues instead of daddy issues like mystarsshine clarified (that was on some different thread, not the one in the link)
youāre technically talking to a dude who didnāt even remember her so iām obviously not gonna get every small detail right. š
sheās apparently also a serial cheater who is worried about men cheating on her from the looks of it? yeah thatās laughable.š maybe she canāt trust men because she knows what humans are really capable of. (cheaters are always accusing other people of being cheaters. they think everybody out here cheats because they themselves cheat. this sorta paranoia is nothing new.)
she seems to like using sex as a weapon a lot but if she became paralyzed from head to
toe tomorrow and couldnāt use her body anymore, i wonder who she would impress.
not many people (if any) would be my guess.
her mind only seems to impress people who are similar to her (people with equally questionable morals). and probably some lonely degenerate dudes who are starved for female attention. š
i only cared about mystarsshine getting gaslighted. i donāt really care about what happens to opās future. she can continue doing wtf she wants at this point for all i care.
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so you think people say and do things for no reason? that she brought up her mental illness for no reason?
thereās usually a reason/a motive behind what people say and do. she brought it up when she was being called out (when she was being told that she was immoral). but you still think she just did it for no reason?
really? lol š
ok lol š
also, i donāt care about op enough to be upset as iāve already clarified up there that her future is of no interest to me.
the only thing i didnāt like is her gaslighting a member who remembered her character accurately.
iām already well aware that op doesnāt possess any basic human emotions or decency. i donāt expect normal human empathy from her. iām not delusional about that. people like this do not feel anything other than self-importance. š
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Hey, I get being upset. Iām not debating her morals. Im just saying that your previous statement was incorrect. While I may not agree with some peoples behavior, Iām not going to go around making up shit around it. Everything else is superfluous.
Posted by AbbyNormalPosted by serenidadPosted by AbbyNormalso you think people say and do things for no reason? that she brought up her mental illness for no reason?Posted by serenidadThat wasnāt what you said though. You didnāt challenge the reader to feel outraged morally. You said she blamed her behavior on said things, but the truth of the matter is she didnāt and never has that Iāve ever read. You can be upset, but Iām just trying to keep the facts straight.Posted by AbbyNormalif you read her thread and didnāt feel a thing, i dont think you and i are on the same page morally. i wasnāt the only person who found her behavior questionable, as you saw in that thread.Posted by serenidadTo be fair, itās not really like youāre making it out to be. I read the thread and she never blamed her behavior on those things. Never once did she blame dad issues, thatās made up. And she admitted she has some mental issues but not in excuse of her behavior. So while you might not agree with her behavior, letās keep it real.Posted by MyStarsShinei didnāt even remember who this user was until you brought this up.
Are you still going to be sleeping with lots of other men during the course of your relationship? Iām asking because for most(?) men that could inevitably cause insecurity/trust issues?
i remember now
she was that girl who was trying to go after some married dude just for shits and giggles (and did similar things often) and when confronted by members here, she gave some lame ass sob story about her being autistic and having daddy issues or whatever as if that was supposed to excuse her behavior or something.
yup
nothinā to see hereā¦
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if she is proud of what sheās doing and sees nothing wrong with it, why even bring up any mental illness? why is there a need to tell me those things?
other than to try to induce/garner sympathy.
was i supposed to feel something?
why would i feel sympathy for someone who doesnāt feel sympathy for anyone ? (she made it pretty clear in the thread that she doesnāt feel any sympathy for the wives or the children of those men)
no offense but i save my sympathies for ppl who actually deserve them.
maybe it was mommy issues instead of daddy issues like mystarsshine clarified (that was on some different thread, not the one in the link)
youāre technically talking to a dude who didnāt even remember her so iām obviously not gonna get every small detail right. š
sheās apparently also a serial cheater who is worried about men cheating on her from the looks of it? yeah thatās laughable.š maybe she canāt trust men because she knows what humans are really capable of. (cheaters are always accusing other people of being cheaters. they think everybody out here cheats because they themselves cheat. this sorta paranoia is nothing new.)
she seems to like using sex as a weapon a lot but if she became paralyzed from head to
toe tomorrow and couldnāt use her body anymore, i wonder who she would impress.
not many people (if any) would be my guess.
her mind only seems to impress people who are similar to her (people with equally questionable morals). and probably some lonely degenerate dudes who are starved for female attention. š
i only cared about mystarsshine getting gaslighted. i donāt really care about what happens to opās future. she can continue doing wtf she wants at this point for all i care.
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thereās usually a reason/a motive behind what people say and do. she brought it up when she was being called out (when she was being told that she was immoral). but you still think she just did it for no reason?
really? lol š
ok lol š
also, i donāt care about op enough to be upset as iāve already clarified up there that her future is of no interest to me.
the only thing i didnāt like is her gaslighting a member who remembered her character accurately.
iām already well aware that op doesnāt possess any basic human emotions or decency. i donāt expect normal human empathy from her. iām not delusional about that. people like this do not feel anything other than self-importance. š
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Hey, I get being upset. Iām not debating her morals. Im just saying that your previous statement was incorrect. While I may not agree with some peoples behavior, Iām not going to go around making up shit around it. Everything else is superfluous.click to expand
weāve already clarified the daddy issue thing. that was the only fact i got wrong.
like i said, youāre technically talking to some dude who didnāt remember her so iām not gonna get every little detail right.
however ,
the rest were correct.
it is a āfactā that she goes after married dudes for fun. for her own pleasure. for her own entertainment. for her own fun.
sheās not serious about any of it so she is doing it for āfunā.
it is also a āfactā that she brought up her mental illness out of nowhere as an excuse or āexplanationā for why she is the way she is.
in response to me calling her immoral and a narc.
and it is also a āfactā that she feels nothing. no guilt. no remorse. no empathy for wives or children.
and Abby honestly, pls donāt act like you werenāt giving her a nod of approval for her degenerate behavior in the old thread.
āIām truly fascinated by you and the freedom of life you choose, you donāt weigh yourself down with whatās āgoodā or ābadā yet you have a rather pure way of looking at things.ā
itās fine if she is your cup of tea. i donāt mind. but pls donāt act like you suddenly are neutral or not sure towards her behavior. itās confusing.
someone not knowing good or bad is not something you should be fascinated at.
Can't make a hoe a housewife.
Can't make a hoe a housewife.
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so you think people say and do things for no reason? that she brought up her mental illness for no reason?
thereās usually a reason/a motive behind what people say and do. she brought it up when she was being called out (when she was being told that she was immoral). but you still think she just did it for no reason?
really? lol š
ok lol š
also, i donāt care about op enough to be upset as iāve already clarified up there that her future is of no interest to me.
the only thing i didnāt like is her gaslighting a member who remembered her character accurately.
iām already well aware that op doesnāt possess any basic human emotions or decency. i donāt expect normal human empathy from her. iām not delusional about that. people like this do not feel anything other than self-importance. š
Your stance is bullshit, but I understand this is an emotional topic for some so it is difficult to be objective.
I mentioned ADHD, PTSD and Aspergerās because I do not think ANY human behavior is a black or white issue. Humans are complex, our behavior canāt be simplified to āyou do this, you are a bad personā. Do you also consider drug addicts bad people when their actions clearly impact their loved ones? Do you consider suicidal individuals to be ābadā when they pull the trigger despite all the people whoāve begged them not to?
Your reaction/opinion to my behavior is driven by waves flowing under your surface, waves you may or may not be conscious of.
Likewise, my behavior is driven by waves flowing under my surface, some of which Iām conscious of, some Iām sure Iām not conscious of.
As someone who does have a tendency to cheat, I wholeheartedly donāt believe there is responsibility on the third party for MY actions; I would never blame my affair partners for our affairs- I assume complete responsibility. Yes, I do feel guilty for cheating on my own partners. No, I do not feel guilty when married/taken men SEEK me out for an affair.
In the thread you linked, I stopped pursuing that man when he told me he wasnāt interested. I am not the person who will actively poke/prod someone who tells me ānoā. If they circle back around with a āyesā, that is fair for me to engage, in my own opinion. I donāt feel bad about that, as that is their choice and I guarantee if I say ānoā they will just try with someone else regardless.
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You need a universal sign moon to punish you and put you in your place. The compassion of a Gemini moon is making you spiral further into destructive behaviors. Youāre sabotaging yourself with your choice in partner.
Define āpunish you and put you in your placeā.
I hooked up with a Gemini sun / Taurus moon this weekend and he wants to turn me into a submissive housewife š He left hickeys on me so no one else can have me.
When other men are like this, I disappear instantly (Whorpio cannot stand the idea of being oppressed or losing an ounce of freedom), but this one makes me orgasm the best Iāve ever had. Is this what I need?
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Natural hair color.
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Too bad me and gemitati's hair color ain't in the link.
Gemitati= yellow hair
Me= gray hair
Okay.. I promise I was out minding my own business. Couple friends asked if I was going to the bar Saturday.. I show up around midnight right. I decided to wear overalls and I think this caught cancer moon's attention.
Her chart:
Gemini Sun
Cancer moon
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The eclipse got the better of me I hope we can be friends moving forward Find things in common like
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Maybe you should be apologizing to me. You the one eclipsed me
Ps: I still want that colorful rainbow coat. I just can't find it yet.
I donāt know if itās just me but I notice a difference between those two
In general they are part of the Gemini season, but what I do noticed based off my experiences is that imo the May Geminis tend to be nicer, laidback and easy to get along with. May
Post what you think each zodiac's sense of style or personality would be like when it comes to automobiles.
This will be fun :D
Aries: Corvette
Taurus: Mercedes-Benz
Gemini: Honda
Cancer: Lexus
Leo: Ferrari
Virgo: Tesla or a pimped pick up truck
Libra
As some of you know, gemini is my favorite Sun sign on men.
Things recently ended with my gem Sun/cancer moon LTR, but the universe has put another one on my plate:
Sun Gemini 4Ā°13'
Moon Gemini 1Ā°35'
Mercury Taurus 17Ā°03'
Venus A
Are you a dog or a cat person?
I've always had both but think if I had to make a choice on one or the other I would choose cats. I love a doggie companion but have to make special arrangements for them when I venture out of town. Cats only require you t
In real life. All the ones that's in my circle me included are either on the big side or huge side.
I'm just wondering what's the deal with thatš¤
Dump it all here
And if you a Gemini yourself, what qualities do you like and dislike about being it?
Dump everything here
This is my daughter's chart. There is a lot of talk about Libra being the worst sign LOL she has a lot of air. Any luck for her? She's 18. I, of course, think she's great :)
Sun - Libra
Moon- Gemini
Mercury- Libra
Venus- Virgo
Mars- Libra
Jupiter- Libra
With our season just around the curb, wach'yall plan on doing on your birthdays? Anything special? Traveling? Nothing? Are any of your hubbies and mami's getting anything for yalls birthday? Aw shucks just spill the beans.
Oh I just need to know if we have any bosses here that employ any Geminis. If not do you work with one or so? I really need to know the former though. And how are they at the workplace where you work?
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Gemitati for dxp mascot 2023.
Currently responsible for 90% of posts on dxp, sheās keeping the lights on.
Ayyyy tho we walk through the fires of life, Gemitati keeps the light on through the darkness. Peace be with you šš¼.
I have never dealt with one before, my experience is mostly with earth sign men. I keep hearing how aqua moon men will ghost you and hurt you.
The aqua moon man I'm dealing with has gemini sun+taurus mercury+ virgo mars+ gemini venus. So far he has been
What would make you turn a cold shoulder all of a sudden?
.. Going from talkative to giving one word answers
.. Becoming snappy when you don't get what you were expecting
.. Acting like you're a total stranger
I know.. it's too generic, but just wonderi
A bit of background about my chart. I'm a Gemini with lots of earth. Virgo moon. Libra MC. Gemini Mercury in 6th House. I'm also the eldest daughter.
Anyway, growing up my parents have always regarded me as lucky, smart and capable. Apparently, because I
I get it you could be curious, but why always doing that? Is it only out of curiosity? or caring? or ... sizing up soneone?
So basically, Iāve been really curious about my birth chart but Iām not really sure what sources to trust ! I just want to learn more (:
Sun: Cancer
Moon: Libra
Mercury: Cancer (R) ā idk what the R means lol
Venus: Cancer
Mars : Cancer
Jupiter: Gemi
So I was at the pool today and my girlfriend has been mostly out of town this past week. I haven't touched my thing for days or had any sex so I was as aroused as ever. Then along comes a neighbor of mines (Gemini) that is good friends with me but also ha
June geminis and June cancers. Way yall at...
Could two whorpios be with eachother long term? Or would the attachment/trust issues prevent either party from getting too close?
How did a Scorpio Sun/sag moon find their mirror in a Gemini sun/gemini moon?
How does one take down the barriers around their heart, after years of seeing men cheat on their spouses? Am I just not ready to love? I want to try with this one, but the fear is strong, regardless of the object.