krysrenee7
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Pace in relationships (by the sign)
Sagg: Fast-paced. When they like you, they go all in. They know deep down that their impulsiveness might come back to haunt them but Saggs are so free-spirited that they don't mind being vulnerable if it means there's a slight chance that they'll benefit from it in the long-run. When they 1st start dating, they won't hesistate to spend all their time with you and/or make you feel that you're "in" with them rather quickly. They tend to open up/give up the goods sexually though before they agree to give you a piece of their heat though. Getting them to grow emotional feelings for you is quite the challenge, but most people would never know that b/c Saggs are good at giving off the impression that they were already "tuned in" up front even though they really werent =P
Capricorn: Slow pace. They go about everything in dating methodically & by the book. They have their emotions & sex drive caged up in a fire-proof box! They like for the other person to prove to them why they are worthy of being in their (Caps) life. Caps aren't into the aspect of making someone think they are "plugged/tuned in" if they really aren't. They have no shame in making it very clear that they're not giving up any benefits/energy (emotional, sexual, physical, etc.) UNTIL the other person has past enough of their "tests." BUT once Caps are in, they're in!
Gemini: Fast paced.
Virgo: Slow paced. They think too damn hard/much.
Leo: Medium. They're good for flirting alot and/or giving off the impression that they're more "tuned in" to you than they really are, but they do this so that the other person won't feel as vulnerable opening up to them (after all, most of us don't mind opening up if we already feel that the other person already has!) They'll give up the physical/sexual benefits though 1st before signing their heart away to you.
Capricorn: Slow pace. They go about everything in dating methodically & by the book. They have their emotions & sex drive caged up in a fire-proof box! They like for the other person to prove to them why they are worthy of being in their (Caps) life. Caps aren't into the aspect of making someone think they are "plugged/tuned in" if they really aren't. They have no shame in making it very clear that they're not giving up any benefits/energy (emotional, sexual, physical, etc.) UNTIL the other person has past enough of their "tests." BUT once Caps are in, they're in!
Gemini: Fast paced.
Virgo: Slow paced. They think too damn hard/much.
Leo: Medium. They're good for flirting alot and/or giving off the impression that they're more "tuned in" to you than they really are, but they do this so that the other person won't feel as vulnerable opening up to them (after all, most of us don't mind opening up if we already feel that the other person already has!) They'll give up the physical/sexual benefits though 1st before signing their heart away to you.
Aries: Fast paced. They want to know everything about you, they want to talk about feelings/intentions on both ends. They are very blunt & want to verbally hear the other person spell out exactly what their intentions are. They're done for a little physical/sexual action before actually having feelings for someone else though. Even if they're not feeling you emotionally, they may give off the impression that they are feeling you simply b/c they ask so many questions and/or appear to be concerned with "where things are going." And most of us are trained to believe that someone would only inquire about such things only if it actually mattered.
Pisces: Medium. They're very picky. When they actually do like someone, they go all in. They may have problems expressing their feelings, BUT not b/c they don't want to, but moreso that they don't know how. They fear being vulnerable just like most of us but then again there is something intriging/exciting about being vulnerable for someone in a dating situation. They can't wait to sign themselves away emotionally, physically and/or sexually to someone else. The challenge/problem though is in finding the RIGHT people to sign their hearts away to. Pisces are open books waiting to be touched, read, skimmed through, or whatever! They love being "kept" & for this reason, they're open to expressing/exposing themselves to the other person
Pisces: Medium. They're very picky. When they actually do like someone, they go all in. They may have problems expressing their feelings, BUT not b/c they don't want to, but moreso that they don't know how. They fear being vulnerable just like most of us but then again there is something intriging/exciting about being vulnerable for someone in a dating situation. They can't wait to sign themselves away emotionally, physically and/or sexually to someone else. The challenge/problem though is in finding the RIGHT people to sign their hearts away to. Pisces are open books waiting to be touched, read, skimmed through, or whatever! They love being "kept" & for this reason, they're open to expressing/exposing themselves to the other person
I agree with the aqua, sag, and scorp descriptions. Don't remember about my experiences with the others.
Scorps will definitely open up sexually before emotionally. However, personally speaking...I have to at least like you to have sex with you, but that doesn't mean I want a relationship with you. I also don't show affection until the emotional aspect has caught up. I say affection and emotion run hand in hand....when one comes, you'll get the other as well.
Saggs move too damn fast...almost to the point of being overly aggressive and clingy.
Aquas move too damn slow. How the hell do you expect to find the answers to all your doubts about a relationship/person if you keep yourself distant from them?
Scorps will definitely open up sexually before emotionally. However, personally speaking...I have to at least like you to have sex with you, but that doesn't mean I want a relationship with you. I also don't show affection until the emotional aspect has caught up. I say affection and emotion run hand in hand....when one comes, you'll get the other as well.
Saggs move too damn fast...almost to the point of being overly aggressive and clingy.
Aquas move too damn slow. How the hell do you expect to find the answers to all your doubts about a relationship/person if you keep yourself distant from them?
Why was the gemini description so short— I was expecting a large paragraph like the rest of the signs were given!
Yeeeeaah, yeah. We do go to fast. The sagis I mean. I try to slow it down, but I get so excited when I meet someone who really clicks with me that I want to know everything about them, be with them, show them off, hold them, kiss them o.o Is that so wrong? I just wanna be loved DX
Taurus...ready! Set! Go!....at speed of snail.
UNLESS, that flip is made. That time of watching ceases, and it's straight up hell bent pedal to the metal.
UNLESS, that flip is made. That time of watching ceases, and it's straight up hell bent pedal to the metal.
Posted by nats
Why was the gemini description so short— I was expecting a large paragraph like the rest of the signs were given!
Ugh! Just in case you didn't know, I have a grudge against all Gems lol They always get short descriptions! =P
Posted by venusianbull
Taurus...ready! Set! Go!....at speed of snail.
UNLESS, that flip is made. That time of watching ceases, and it's straight up hell bent pedal to the metal.
Oh man I forgot about Taurus! You're right! They go at the speed of lightening! And especially if they're only dating 1 person at a time. They'll really be into the other person & already start investing energy/time/benefits that the other person perhaps didn't earn yet. Taurus' are easier to date when they're dating multiple people; when they have other distractions, they're not hanging onto 1 person's nuts so hard! Sheeesh!
saggis: shit, why wait?
"Taurus' are easier to date when they're dating multiple people; when they have other distractions, they're not hanging onto 1 person's nuts so hard! Sheeesh!"
This tickled me to no end because I can see that. I lock down on one, and that's it. Multiples? Nahh, can't see past the first. And I'm still giggling picturing the description. 🙂
This tickled me to no end because I can see that. I lock down on one, and that's it. Multiples? Nahh, can't see past the first. And I'm still giggling picturing the description. 🙂
Oh man... I can absolutely relate to the leo description. I get myself into trouble with that all the time. Well, ok, not trouble but I know I have given off the impression that i was into someone. Sure, I want people to open up to me but that doesn't mean i'm not "tuned in". I'm just not always, not even usually, tuned in on a romantic level. My overt friendliness and openness often translates as me being flirty. However, I realize that there are quite a few men who see mere conversation with a strange woman as her taking more than a platonic interest in them.
I go kinda slow because I am discerning about whom I allow super close to me. It's weird because I am totally open and vulnerable but that doesn't mean anything will be enduring. Also, it takes a lot of personality components for me to get turned on. There's no real quick route to it. I need to be friends first before being lovers.
As with the sag description... that can be said for fire signs in general imo. I've seen it. Especially Leos... jeez we can be overzealous about love interests.
I go kinda slow because I am discerning about whom I allow super close to me. It's weird because I am totally open and vulnerable but that doesn't mean anything will be enduring. Also, it takes a lot of personality components for me to get turned on. There's no real quick route to it. I need to be friends first before being lovers.
As with the sag description... that can be said for fire signs in general imo. I've seen it. Especially Leos... jeez we can be overzealous about love interests.
oh wow that sounds like my aries...
mine is pretty accurate also
mine is pretty accurate also
Posted by krysrenee7
They may conversate with you all day in general terms, but actually opening up about personal things and/or expressing emotions is a different story.
Posted by krysrenee7
Aries: Fast paced. They want to know everything about you, they want to talk about feelings/intentions on both ends. They are very blunt & want to verbally hear the other person spell out exactly what their intentions are. They're done for a little physical/sexual action before actually having feelings for someone else though. Even if they're not feeling you emotionally, they may give off the impression that they are feeling you simply b/c they ask so many questions and/or appear to be concerned with "where things are going." And most of us are trained to believe that someone would only inquire about such things only if it actually mattered.
Fast for others I guess. We basically differ from others by not playing games with the other person. You can be mysterious, you can make us wait to go further, you can be a sexual prude, but if you start putting up walls or giving the silent treatment to us for some reason we aren't aware of, oh and testing us without being smart or mysterious about it, is like the most frustrating thing. We can be single and by ourselves and do just fine without all that mess.
We love romance, we love the ins and outs of romance, but heck if we are going to appreciate being manipulated or put through some messy hassles just because you don't trust anybody. Ugh.
The cancer description is right on the mark with my current cancer bf. I was a little shocked when he was moving too fast for me (and I'm an Aries).
Posted by Pandybear
Lol! We got one whole sentence 😛! WHy Krysipoo, whyyy?!
""Virgo: Slow paced. They think too damn hard/much.""
That was funny!!! I think sometimes I flip back/forth from Leo/Virgo being born on the cusp. I confuse the hell out of myself too!
Posted by krysrenee7Posted by venusianbull
Taurus...ready! Set! Go!....at speed of snail.
UNLESS, that flip is made. That time of watching ceases, and it's straight up hell bent pedal to the metal.
Oh man I forgot about Taurus! You're right! They go at the speed of lightening! And especially if they're only dating 1 person at a time. They'll really be into the other person & already start investing energy/time/benefits that the other person perhaps didn't earn yet. Taurus' are easier to date when they're dating multiple people; when they have other distractions, they're not hanging onto 1 person's nuts so hard! Sheeesh!click to expand
uhm...no
dead WRONG!
VB had it right...if the speed of a snail is the speed of lightening then, fuck yea! otherwise, hunker down because by the time i'm ready, you'll be ready to call it quits 😛
Posted by krysrenee7
Sagg: Fast-paced. When they like you, they go all in. They know deep down that their impulsiveness might come back to haunt them but Saggs are so free-spirited that they don't mind being vulnerable if it means there's a slight chance that they'll benefit from it in the long-run. When they 1st start dating, they won't hesistate to spend all their time with you and/or make you feel that you're "in" with them rather quickly. They tend to open up/give up the goods sexually though before they agree to give you a piece of their heart though. Getting them to grow emotional feelings for you is quite the challenge, but most people would never know that b/c Saggs are good at giving off the impression that they were already "tuned in" up front even though they really werent =P
Yep
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Aquarius: Slow pace. They like thorougly getting to know the other person 1st before they agree to sign their heart away to someone. They may conversate with you all day in general terms, but actually opening up about personal things and/or expressing emotions is a different story. Sexually, Aquas may even save the best for last (i.e. they may not "give it up" until they were already ready to give in emotionally). They won't jump all in even if they're feeling the impulse to do so. Sometimes they even purposely go at a slow pace just to test the other person's patience.
Libra: Medium pace. They may fall for others a little too quickly, but it's not like they give their all emotionally up front either. They may expose their physical side (affection, sex, cuddling, etc.) to you before they actually grow feelings for you though.
Cancer: Fast pace. Although Cancers are very skeptical, suspicious, vulnerable & sensitive, they can fall for others quite quickly. In fact, 1 of their biggest flaws AND strengths is in giving someone their all too soon or before they're sure the other person deserves it yet. Their pace is pretty quick. They are very picky, BUT when they actually find someone whom is their "type" they jump all in & just take the "chance" that things will work out.
Scorpio: Medium. Scorpios are all or nothing in relationships/dating. If they are into you even just a little bit, they're already training their minds to guess what you'd be like in a relationship/marriage. They'll open up physically and/or sexually before they do emotionally.