People: do you have a racial preference?

Just wondering...

I dont really. But i don't go much for guys like oriental/asian/muslim/middle eastern... idk just doesnt faze me...

I'm African, Caribbean & White.

Posted by geminicandle

Posted by ThePiscesPrincess
Just wondering...

I dont really. But i don't go much for guys like oriental/asian/muslim/middle eastern... idk just doesnt faze me...

I'm African, Caribbean & White.

So, let me guess? You like white guys😉

I have dated accross EVERY race and nationality. I don't have a preference; he has to be my type though.

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exactly I have no preference as long as we get along.

Posted by geminicandle
Dark BBC?
Oh boy...Hannie? We gotta talk, seriously this time.
I am not gonna talk about it here, though. And no, you are not in trouble. I am just doing this for your own good.

K then... but just so you know i havent been in bed with anyone yet. i'm still pure.

k. 🙂

i know sorry i have an afflicted Leo moon, only shows the bad side...

Posted by SUT2pointoh
Ive fcked a good share of Puerto Rican and Dominican so I like the butterpecan mamis. Theyre cute when theyre like the 5'3-5'5" range they always start dropping stuff around me or get nervous >😄 Thats when I know I have em.

Black chicks too I like of course

I like Italian women, eastern european.






Dimplez makes me want to go try Asian though really bad tho

Lmaaooo... dude you're funny 🙂

Northern, Western & Central European males.

Posted by geminicandle
Well, now that I've read all this answers, I changed my mind. I like European men because in general they are more cultured than the rest. Also, speaking more than one language is a great plus. Nothing sexier than speaking to each other in all these different languages🙂

I speak french! 🙂

Not sure how much race matters to me; I think I am a little colorblind when it comes to that..My friends also say that I have "interesting taste" so I cant really describe very well.. Good looks are part of it (as with a lot of people), but Ive also found myself attracted to young women who look different from the ones all my friends think are pretty..Ive found girls of almost every skin color attractive, but they would need to have a certain "look" to them that sets them apart from the rest... Idk if that helps 😛

I also agree with the whole different culture/ideals thing...I think its really interesting.

Any Channing Tatum lookalikes will do for me! 😛

Posted by ThePiscesPrincess
Just wondering...

I dont really. But i don't go much for guys like oriental/asian/muslim/middle eastern... idk just doesnt faze me...

I'm African, Caribbean & White.

I go for the guys you dont go for, except I dont do Chinese dudes..east asians. I like west-Asians the most, Pakistanis, Indians & have dated a few of them. Was even married to a middle eastern. Muslim guys are "IT" for me.

No racial preference what so ever, but if it should ever progress pass the point of a fling, then by god our mutual core must at least share some similarities or else it would be but war, hearts and minds torn at ends. A needless and unnecessary situation to go through, otherwise, I frankly do not care of which race the man is, though he should respect everything about I, the entire package (culture, traditions etc.) and I would extend the very same to him in return.

Posted by BrooksSamsonite
filipino, indian, black, mixed.

p.s. where are the indian women hiding on dxp? i do hate competing with fat rich indian dudes tho! 😈 lebanese women r insanely beautiful but i only know 2 and 1 is online.

You and Lebanese women. Lol

Pack that dodgy Samsonite of yours with Brooks suit and head on over to Beirut, your eyes shall have a feast.

Posted by BrooksSamsonite
it's not safe as of late non? but yeah i come from the 3rd world too so what's to be afraid of right?

but you know what i might... maybe i should try to figure out how to live there.

You could always live in the Gulf region and visit Beirut, it is all within a close range, just a short Emirates/Etihad flight away 🙂

Posted by everevolvingepithet
Ok, here's one for the ones with preferences. What if they're a mega-mix and you usually turn your nose up at one side of the mix?

speaking of noses, I've noticed that different races dont smell the same way. Natural scent that is, minus deodorant. Dont know if its due to what people eat or what. I'm black & I'm immune to "black scent" (for lack of better words) unless I smell funky armpits or feet. Yet I'm very sensitive to the scents of other races & I've heard other black people say the same thing about "white scent" & other races. I used to go to a biracial school & in the morning you'd hear the black student complaining that the windows need to be open cause "it smells like white people in here". When I was pregnant I couldnt stand "arab scent". My ex had friends over, i was away at the time & when I came back I knew he brought people into the house cause it smelt disgustingly arabic lol..made me gag.

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Posted by geminicandle
Well, now that I've read all this answers, I changed my mind. I like European men because in general they are more cultured than the rest. Also, speaking more than one language is a great plus. Nothing sexier than speaking to each other in all these different languages🙂

I speak french! 🙂

Teach me!xo

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K babez 🙂 —

Teddy bears. Big, goofy, outdoorsy, flannel wearing Teddy bears. Favorite race ever.

I've only dated Caucasian guys outside of my race. Haven't really been interested in any other race. I've seen good-looking men in other races, but I was never attracted to them.

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Posted by CluelessCancer

Posted by Nicrobliz
I don't date black women but that's largely due to a clash of mentalities.

Apart from that, the other ethnic groups I don't date are those whose religion or culture doesn't 100% condone interracial relationships. Most of the time, it's just not worth the hassle to even venture down there.

I once had a brief fling with a Mongolian. That was quite interesting...

Is that your way of saying you can't handle a black woman. Maybe you need cultural competence classes, you know being blunt and to the point doesn't necessarily equate "aggressive or loud"

just saying.

I can handle black women pretty well, thank you very much (after all, I was raised by one). I can simply do without their self-righteous, narrow-minded, testosterone-riddled bullshit.

Life's too short for that crap.

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Threads like this never go well for this particular reason.

Just date what you want and stop looking for excuses for not wanting women of your same race.
Go for it, no one is holding you back.

Posted by tiziani

Posted by CluelessCancer

Posted by tiziani
It seemed like a tense match but I'm not really feeling the German dominance of European football this year. Last year's final was as good as it got for me. I was a King Drogba fan for years and the guy signed off his Chelsea career like only a King can.

I was really thinking he's a Leo, he's so magnificent, but he's a pisces, which is interesting. Yes King Drogba is dreadfully missed.

I like the German dominance it's different, and i like their style of place, fast paced, engaging, not slow like the spaniards.

True anything other than Spanish dominance is a refreshing change. I did not know Drogba was a Pisces. My respect for that sign increases by the day.

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Posted by CluelessCancer

Posted by Nicrobliz
I don't date black women but that's largely due to a clash of mentalities.

Apart from that, the other ethnic groups I don't date are those whose religion or culture doesn't 100% condone interracial relationships. Most of the time, it's just not worth the hassle to even venture down there.

I once had a brief fling with a Mongolian. That was quite interesting...

Is that your way of saying you can't handle a black woman. Maybe you need cultural competence classes, you know being blunt and to the point doesn't necessarily equate "aggressive or loud"

just saying.

I can handle black women pretty well, thank you very much (after all, I was raised by one). I can simply do without their self-righteous, narrow-minded, testosterone-riddled bullshit.

Life's too short for that crap.

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Hypocrite...you said narrow-minded above but what do you think that makes you that you said this about black women? Surely you don't think all are like that--no you couldn't. You should ensure that you say the ones you've encountered are like this. That makes more sense... What's interesting is that you think the above about your mother or whoever raised you...sad. And also I'm sure you didn't "handle" that person.

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Posted by Nicrobliz
I don't date black women but that's largely due to a clash of mentalities.

Apart from that, the other ethnic groups I don't date are those whose religion or culture doesn't 100% condone interracial relationships. Most of the time, it's just not worth the hassle to even venture down there.

I once had a brief fling with a Mongolian. That was quite interesting...

Is that your way of saying you can't handle a black woman. Maybe you need cultural competence classes, you know being blunt and to the point doesn't necessarily equate "aggressive or loud"

just saying.

I can handle black women pretty well, thank you very much (after all, I was raised by one). I can simply do without their self-righteous, narrow-minded, testosterone-riddled bullshit.

Life's too short for that crap.

Threads like this never go well for this particular reason.

Just date what you want and stop looking for excuses for not wanting women of your same race.
Go for it, no one is holding you back.

Oh no! Don't tell me he's one of those guys. Bleh.

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Is this dude forreal? Okay go on with the other girls who have spoiled-rich kid's syndrome.

Ive dated mostly black, latina and white. I guess those are my preferences. In that order haha. I would date an asian or a middle eastern girl tho, but there are not many where I live.

Sexy is sexy no matter the race.

I don't really have a preference.

Posted by BrooksSamsonite
jewish and muslim r religions. :p

Wow! You're smart! I was upset with the OP's ignorance

Posted by aquarius09

Posted by BrooksSamsonite
jewish and muslim r religions. :p

Wow! You're smart! I was upset with the OP's ignorance

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Yeha muslim is a religion though,
My Tau aunt says Jewish is both.

Posted by ThePiscesPrincess

Posted by aquarius09

Posted by BrooksSamsonite
jewish and muslim r religions. :p

Wow! You're smart! I was upset with the OP's ignorance

Yeha muslim is a religion though,
My Tau aunt says Jewish is both.

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That other dude tho who dissed black women... he's ignorant.

This thread is going in the standard direction.

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Posted by BrooksSamsonite
jewish and muslim r religions. :p

Wow! You're smart! I was upset with the OP's ignorance

shhh don't tell anyone! 😈

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I saw you mentioned Lebanese! That race is gorgeous, both men and women. Arabs, especially when they are that good looking, don't go out of their race. You will see the odd balls who are not cultured that will go out of their race. I'm half Arab. That was an insider. All the non-Muslim men are catching on because they know not to even attempt since sooner or later they will have to convert to Islam. But the insecurity persists that if a hot Leb or another Arab came around, I'll be snatched.

Posted by BrooksSamsonite

Posted by aquarius09

Posted by BrooksSamsonite
jewish and muslim r religions. :p

Wow! You're smart! I was upset with the OP's ignorance

shhh don't tell anyone! 😈

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I saw you mentioned Lebanese! That race is gorgeous, both men and women. Arabs, especially when they are that good looking, don't go out of their race. You will see the odd balls who are not cultured that will go out of their race. I'm half Arab. That was an insider. All the non-Muslim men are catching on because they know not to even attempt since sooner or later they will have to convert to Islam. But the insecurity persists that if a hot Leb or another Arab came around, I'll be snatched.

Posted by ThePiscesPrincess
Just wondering...

I dont really. But i don't go much for guys like oriental/asian/muslim/middle eastern... idk just doesnt faze me...

I'm African, Caribbean & White.

wtf is oriental?

I am white, and have on top of white women, I have also dated Asian, Latino and Black. Race doesn't make a difference to me.

However, redheads are my weak spot. I'm putty in a redhead's hands. lol

When I was in my 20's, there was a middle eastern girl about my age who worked at a gas station her father owned. I was interested, and went to the gas station several times, always striking up a chit chat with her. One day, I asked her out to dinner. She told me that she would love to, but if she dated an American man, her father would disown her.

Posted by ThePiscesPrincess
Just wondering...

I dont really. But i don't go much for guys like oriental/asian/muslim/middle eastern... idk just doesnt faze me...

I'm African, Caribbean & White.

I actually like Asian guys.

Who do you usually go for? And why?

Posted by Mr. Defense
I seem to have an innate attraction to Asian women. But since most Asian women refuse to date black guys, I don't really peruse them. I am not really sure what my preference is. I guess in an ideal world the woman I would marry would be Asian. But there are challenges with black/Asian couples that I may not have the patience to work through. I think for my benefit, I should date my own, since I have a higher probability of success with my own. But I'm probably far more compatible with Asian women since they admire logical guys and financial security which I think are the two of the biggest things I offer I'm a relationship. A lot of black and white women really don't like these two things and think it creates a boring relationship.


In short. I really don't know.

I say go for what you want.
I've seen Black men with Asian women.
Usually financially well off Black men.
But this is rare in any case, as many Asian women if they go outside their race it's with a White male.

There are Black women who appreciate a financially responsible and secure male. Believe me.

Posted by DMV

Posted by ThePiscesPrincess
Just wondering...

I dont really. But i don't go much for guys like oriental/asian/muslim/middle eastern... idk just doesnt faze me...

I'm African, Caribbean & White.

wtf is oriental?

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Indian and sri lankan, that kinda region

Posted by LunarMaiden

Posted by ThePiscesPrincess
Just wondering...

I dont really. But i don't go much for guys like oriental/asian/muslim/middle eastern... idk just doesnt faze me...

I'm African, Caribbean & White.

I actually like Asian guys.

Who do you usually go for? And why?

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Dark black guys

Posted by ThePiscesPrincess

Posted by DMV

Posted by ThePiscesPrincess
Just wondering...

I dont really. But i don't go much for guys like oriental/asian/muslim/middle eastern... idk just doesnt faze me...

I'm African, Caribbean & White.

wtf is oriental?

Indian and sri lankan, that kinda region

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You create a post when you are such an ignorant dumbass on this subject!!!! Then, you call Nicro ignorant which is not even the correct usage of the term in the context you used it as. What irks me is first you include Muslim in your OP as racial and now you say another ridiculously ignorant comment that orientals are Indians and Sri Lankans. So basically, you are one illiterate fuck who posted things in your OP that you know nothing of!! Oriental, in its first usage, refers to objects like food, rugs etc. of the Eastern World. In its second usage, it refers to Mongolonoid races like Chinese, Taiwanese, Korean, Thai. Sri Lankans and Indians fall in Asian,more specifically South Asian. I know this thanks to reading and even if I didn't, I live in a multi-cultural country where I learned this by stepping outside of my house and interacting with other races. Don't create a thread about things you are IGNORANT about.

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Posted by aquarius09

I saw you mentioned Lebanese! That race is gorgeous, both men and women. Arabs, especially when they are that good looking, don't go out of their race. You will see the odd balls who are not cultured that will go out of their race. I'm half Arab. That was an insider. All the non-Muslim men are catching on because they know not to even attempt since sooner or later they will have to convert to Islam. But the insecurity persists that if a hot Leb or another Arab came around, I'll be snatched.

I would LOVE to date a Lebanese woman but am aware of the issues you mentioned. But one lives in hope...

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There are Christian Lebs that you can go for given they aren't cultured, which is possible if they are like 5th generation in one of the Western countries. So be hopeful and you never know 😉

AFTER GIVING THIS A GREAT AMOUNT OF THOUGHT I HAVE DECIDED I DO HAVE A PREFERENCE.
I PERFER NOT TO BREED OUT OF MY SPECIES.

I don't have a race preference, but I have a height preference (my exact height or just a touch above), and there are races whose men are of an average height that is shorter than mine. I wouldn't rule out anyone based solely on height, but the original question was about preferences.

I have preferences for everything in my life ... and I find it very false that people forgo speaking of their own terms and conditions for the sake of sounding politically correct.

There's no way a person could say that color doesn't matter without sounding racist .... because the fact is, race does matter, and to ignore that it matters is saying you ignore the plights that people feel because of their race.


I'm unclear why people even say that ... it's an outrage.

Posted by Nicrobliz

There's a big difference between an excuse and an explanation. At least I have a rational reason based on sufficient first-hand personal experience, as opposed to those who have none but still limit their ethnic preferences.

Why would anyone call an explanation .. an excuse?

guilt of some kind?

No not really...because one, race is a myth...

I do have an aesthetic(? not sure if that's the proper word) preference I go for...
dark hair, dark eyes, darker complexion.

^that could be describing nearly any race...maybe excluding some northern European, but who knows!


I mostly just like the opposite of myself...white girl all the way, blonde hair, green eyes - I hardly tan, mostly just get a few new freckles when I try.

As a result, never really went for a light skinned blonde hair guy...too much like myself I guess.

I think I prefer that

Posted by xygeneration

Just bc colour doesnt matter to me, im racist and im ignoring how the othe person feels?

I should have worded it differently ... I was talking about the people who claim they notice a difference

* don't



don't notice a difference

Posted by brianafay


I mostly just like the opposite of myself...

I've been wondering if any Sagittarius influence really had anything to deal with this. I have 5th house in Sag and others who don't look so much like myself attract my eyes very often.

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Posted by brianafay


I mostly just like the opposite of myself...

I've been wondering if any Sagittarius influence really had anything to deal with this. I have 5th house in Sag and others who don't look so much like myself attract my eyes very often.

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made a typo...it was really bothering me 😛

but yeah, I've read it's Sag influence that attracts you to all things foreign...
In our case, people who are "foreign" to us - either because they are a bit mysterious, or just really different than what we are familiar with

Lol I found it amusing that the black women jumped on the black guy for having a preference for non black women. No other group got all in their feelings about anyone's racial preference. I can see why some men don't want to bother with black women. Friggin insecure!

& Mat Hummels is yummy.