This Is Why...

I think more young women need to stay single and sow their oats like a man based on reading this -

http://www.slate.com/blogs/xx_factor/2013/05/23/nytimes_on_lybrido_women_get_bored_with_monogamy_faster_than_men.html

I think women shouldn't be so worried about being judged. There's nothing wrong with having casual flings when you're young provided A) You're upfront with your intentions B) Practice Safe Sex and most importantly C) Be mature enough not to get attached to someone solely on the basis that they know how to make you cum to the high heavens.

I think that is a major problem with both younger men and women though to be fair. Just because someone clicks with you sexually doesn't mean it's love if there is no other commonality or connection.

To sum it up dont give a crap what people think. They are all cowardly hypocrites anyhow.

It takes two to tango. If someone's getting bored, somebody else ain't doin' it right!

And women who have casual flings, wonder why men don't respect them and treat them the way they do.

It's all over DXP! Hundreds of threads whining about that.

To zero:
Couldn't quote, too long.

I agree. As long as its entered into with the right attitude, nothing wrong with it. But someone is likely to develop feelings or end up feeling used. Thats when it gets messy. Plus, as much as times have changed, a lot of men don't want to take seriously a women who has had a multitude of partners and has given it away so freely to so many. Yes, its a double standard, but men only want to wife up the girls who set standards in that arena and are deemed respectable with clean reputations.

That's why you take it out of town!! Lol

For some reason, it's difficult to see someone who has polyamorous tendencies as someone serious and responsible. It's the same for anyone who doesn't follow the status quo.

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To zero:
Couldn't quote, too long.

I agree. As long as its entered into with the right attitude, nothing wrong with it. But someone is likely to develop feelings or end up feeling used. Thats when it gets messy. Plus, as much as times have changed, a lot of men don't want to take seriously a women who has had a multitude of partners and has given it away so freely to so many. Yes, its a double standard, but men only want to wife up the girls who set standards in that arena and are deemed respectable with clean reputations.

That's why you do your thang and lie like a motherfucker.

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Lol! True that!

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There's nothing wrong with having casual flings when you're young provided A) You're upfront with your intentions B) Practice Safe Sex and most importantly C) Be mature enough not to get attached to someone solely on the basis that they know how to make you cum to the high heavens..

There is something wrong with casual flings: you reach a certain age and you realise that precious time has passed and you have no kids. You then just have the drama of the biological clock ticking: difficult childbirth, difficulties with getting pregnant etc
Also not everyone will get 100% this type of modern thinking. And even if they do, people get jealous so they might start judging you to add more social value to themselves. Better if they don't know.
Browsing is fun and it should happen. It is not so much about the sex.. when you reach 27+ guys and still not be able to find someone that will love you you just feel a bit lonely..

why dont you just have a kid...

(facepalm)

No. Get a pet and/or some good friends!

she doesnt want a pet though..

wtf? Of course I do! I want either a maltese dog or a white longhaired chihuahua.
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I will soon buy one

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Go adopt. They need it more.

I like sowing my oats