Taurus Man. Is he cheating?

I posted this somewhere else as I'm new here, and have been advised to post as a thread instead of whats on my mind, to encourage more feedback.

Ok not sure if I can remember it all. I'm an Aquarius Sun with Taurus Moon and Venus in Pisces. Been in a relationship with a Taurus Sun Moon in Scorpio Venus in Taurus man for just over 2 years now. Everything was great for the first six months until I started to see the controlling side of him. Since then, he's tried to change how I look, tell me who I can talk to, and where I can and can't go. This has caused me to walk away more times. He's always come back. Even after I've ignored his calls, blocked his number etc. I have my place, he has his, and he's never shown any sign of committing to me. No talk of him moving in with me. Always has an excuse that he has rent arrears to pay first etc. He's let me pay for food for him, put him up, cook him meals. Have never had the same back from him in all of that time. If I stay at his I have to cook, expects me to clean for him. He's told me that he wants me at home where he knows where I am, while he goes and meets friends, sometimes not telling me and me finding out from someone else. So his moon is in Scorpio. He's very deep and he has a high sex drive. He commutes to work everyday and meets different people on his travels. I'm in a situation at the moment where I can't go far because I'm a carer for my 82 year old mum, she's only got me to look after her, so travelling far is out of the question for me right now. So his phone broke at thr weekend and I got him the same old brick phone (he doesn't do smart phone technology or social networking sites) which was a breath of fresh air when I met him, as FB ruined two of my previous relationships. It arrived today and I put his sum card in it. Going in his contacts (and I know I shouldn't have) but that's how much trust I don't have left for him these days, I find about a dozen womens numbers, that weren't there about a month ago. One name is quite provocative. He's not being his usual self with me lately. Noticed the small things. He's always led me to believe that he's a good man and that he doesn't cheat. But we all know how secretive Scorps are. To have your moon in it is very telling. Hr does act secretive and every week he has to go back to his place (to check on it so to speak) But in the back of my mind, it's as if he just wants some time on his own to clear his head. He's never really opened up about his feelings for me, though in the beginning he did. Always calls me his soulmate but he's the biggest flirt I've ever met. Me being with him has never stopped him. He refers to himself as an Alleycat, and we all know what they do at night. Everything seems to have dried up and the effort from him has got less and less lately. I just want my life back. Any advice right now would help. He's due in from work soon and i'm trying so hard to stay calm and collected, as if I'm in the dark still. He's kept me in the dark for a long time about things. Always say don't treat me like a mushroom, in the dark feeding me shit. I know all of this is in my horoscope right now, just have to deal with it I guess.