Virgo man dating Aquarius woman! Yikes! Help a guy out?

I wear my heart on my sleeve, am all about details, sometimes come off as judgmental to people who don't know me well (and even people who do), enjoy a lot of verbal and physical affirmation and reassurance and enjoy pairing off with someone into a stable, idealistic commitment. With all that being said, for some reason, I have happened upon an Aquarius woman who likes me (sometimes I'm unsure about this one, lol) for some reason that I have yet to figure out! When I look at the Aquarius personality it is evident that I continuously do things that are off putting for Aquarius. I'm also not like the typical Virgo in the sense that I am fast in a relationship. So this is another point of controversy.

Anyway, I'm really looking for pointers here because it seems like Aquarius develops attraction based on characteristics that are the opposite of what I am.

Here's a good example of a miscommunication that we have: I show interest in a conversation, activity or topic by delving into the details. My Aquarius lady seems to be directly off put by this. She'll respond kind of impatiently as if I'm not listening or something. Kind of like a, "who cares, that's not the point of the story". BUT, for me, if I just listen to the story and laugh and say "that's funny" or something like that then I feel like I'm being generic and might come off like I'm unengaged and don't care.

What kind of advice would you have for a sensitive, romantic, analytical Virgo as far as getting along and understanding an Aquarius?

Just an FYI, it says that I have 3 replies on this, but I can't see them. Maybe you guys could message me?

Posted by AnonymousAF
Just an FYI, it says that I have 3 replies on this, but I can't see them. Maybe you guys could message me?

the replies are come from new users. they can't be seen for a day or two.

So since I'm new I have to wait a few days to see them?

Posted by AnonymousAF
So since I'm new I have to wait a few days to see them?

no one can see them including me.

Posted by NineAvenue
Why do you as a virgo want a relationship where you have to be fake and pretend to like something and pretend to like it when you do not?

Stop wearing your heart on your sleeve all the time.

Lol, your comment was such a contradiction, "you should be in a relationship where you can be yourself, but hey, stop being yourself so much!"

But I think you're speaking some truth there in the first part... I guess I've always been hopeful to a fault, like maybe if I give things a chance they'll blossom. I've done so successfully in the past.

As far as the second part goes, they say that Virgo works very hard to find their true love and they will tell you if they like you and what they want. I'm very much like that. I don't play games.

I'm a Virgo woman and any relation with Aquarius men end up in shambles.We are complete opposites and we tend to butt heads in the long ru.The women are so chilled and probably could outtalk a Virgo woman in a social gathering,but I find that Aquarius men hide their insecurities and tend to make up their own issues in a relationship and they truly and honestly believe in them.We are much better off as friends.IMO ..they're very quirky though.Gots to love them,but I can't date them.Too much for this Virgo woman

Posted by CaramelizedCoffee
sounds like you have an earth or water moon and the aqua has a fire moon



what's your moons

I don't know her moons, but I have Moon in Leo, conjunct Mercury, semisquare Venus, opposite Saturn and square Pluto.

Posted by DiamondAce
You're listening to her talk and she tells you "who cares, that's not the point of the story"?

No, she doesn't actually say that she just gets very quickly impatient when I ask about details relating to the story.

Aquas don't like to be interrupted, once engaged in a topic. Because they tell everything it is needed to be said, clear enough to be understood in a fluid logic. Questions at the end, eventually 🙂

Well, both of those were kind of hurtful lol ^^

Anyway, I have Venus in Virgo, square Mars, conjunct Jupiter, sextile Pluto.