@Moonchild3
10 Years
Virgo Sun/Aqua Moon Man Emotions...
My dad has this combo, with a Capricorn mars, no less.
He was great with us kids, but not super mushy.
Didn't even cry after the death of his mother (no one has ever seen him cry).
It took brain damage from a heart attack for him to actually show emotions. Now they're almost uncontrollable.
Emotions are there, deeply repressed. You CAN feel them, but you won't see them and they won't show them.
Wow. Very interesting... thank you for your insight sultry 🙂)
So how did he deal with all of those repressed emotions?? There had to have been SOME kind of outlet...
He worked a lot and played soccer.
He also had a massive heart attack at 59. Nuf said? 🙂
But he was a very warm and happy guy. Just had no idea how to deal with emotions. What's weurd is that he was awesome with us as kids. He was the one who kissed booboos and held you tull you were done crying.
It's just that with adult emotions he was lost on how to react.
Posted by sultrykitty
My dad has this combo, with a Capricorn mars, no less.He was great with us kids, but not super mushy.
Didn't even cry after the death of his mother (no one has ever seen him cry).
It took brain damage from a heart attack for him to actually show emotions. Now they're almost uncontrollable.
Emotions are there, deeply repressed. You CAN feel them, but you won't see them and they won't show them.
DAMN im sorry i lol'ed at the having a heart attack to express his emotions
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It was long enough ago that I'm not insultrd at all.🙂
Posted by SensitiveBlues
what's your moms sign sultry?
Gem sun, either Libra or Scorpio moon (not dure of birth time).
Posted by SensitiveBlues
what's your moms sign sultry?Gem sun, either Libra or Scorpio moon (not dure of birth time).
that's the problem. GEMS know nothing of emotions or getting them expressed.
no offense.
my brother is a scorpio AQUA moon he's cool as a fan
but man do i nag his azz to death until i figure out whats up with him, if not nag, i just tell him upfront you're feeling like this, you're feeling like that, until he has to answer me.
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Well it was her moon that couldn't deal. She was an emotional mess for DECADES. Dad was like a deer in headlights
Veeery interesting...
The virguy I'm dealing with right now also has mars in cap... and he also works a lot, goes to school AND plays soccer. Kinda very interesting! I'm a cancer sun, venus & mars...taurus moon ...and am just trying to make sense of this dude. It's like I KNOW there are feelings there...but me trying to understand them is like a shot in the dark.
I can definitely understand why such a life changing event could bring all of those pent up emotions to the surface. Nuf said 😉
Posted by sultrykitty
But he was a very warm and happy guy. Just had no idea how to deal with emotions. What's weurd is that he was awesome with us as kids. He was the one who kissed booboos and held you tull you were done crying.It's just that with adult emotions he was lost on how to react.
Maybe you never had any idea he drove down the road to his favorite spot and let it all out and dealt with it?
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No, I think it was work, soccer, and sex. I guess they had a lot of it. He wasn't a drinker, and was a real family man. It's possible that he may have had an affair or two but my mom was absolutely positve up, down, and sideways that he never did. His favorite spot was at home with the wife and kids, even if he did have a lot of outside interests.
Posted by Moonchild3
Veeery interesting...The virguy I'm dealing with right now also has mars in cap... and he also works a lot, goes to school AND plays soccer. Kinda very interesting! I'm a cancer sun, venus & mars...taurus moon ...and am just trying to make sense of this dude. It's like I KNOW there are feelings there...but me trying to understand them is like a shot in the dark.
The rational genius, the charming gentleman, the sweet rebel, and the determined perfectionist.
You'll always feel that there are parts of him that he keeps private, that you'll never know. But the ones that REALLY count in the long run, will be rock solid.
Seriously, I don't think he had any enemies.
Wow..just wow @ the ignorance and judgment in this topic. From family members nevertheless.
No, let's run with the assumption that Virgos don't feel. We say it over and over again ...because it's best for everyone involved. Then we get emo responses from posters like "You shouldn't carry the burden all to yourself, emote a bit, validate me". When all is said and done..they don't really want to see it/experience it. Very few get it and for those people...they will see it.
Posted by Damnata
Wow..just wow @ the ignorance and judgment in this topic. From family members nevertheless.No, let's run with the assumption that Virgos don't feel. We say it over and over again ...because it's best for everyone involved. Then we get emo responses from posters like "You shouldn't carry the burden all to yourself, emote a bit, validate me". When all is said and done..they don't really want to see it/experience it. Very few get it and for those people...they will see it.
JFC. Beat it bitch. Don't tell me I don't know my own Dad, for the last 46 years.
Posted by Damnata
Wow..just wow @ the ignorance and judgment in this topic. From family members nevertheless.No, let's run with the assumption that Virgos don't feel. We say it over and over again ...because it's best for everyone involved. Then we get emo responses from posters like "You shouldn't carry the burden all to yourself, emote a bit, validate me". When all is said and done..they don't really want to see it/experience it. Very few get it and for those people...they will see it.
JFC. Beat it bitch.
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You're a douchebag for that comment on your father. 'Nuff said 🙂
Posted by Damnata
Wow..just wow @ the ignorance and judgment in this topic. From family members nevertheless.No, let's run with the assumption that Virgos don't feel. We say it over and over again ...because it's best for everyone involved. Then we get emo responses from posters like "You shouldn't carry the burden all to yourself, emote a bit, validate me". When all is said and done..they don't really want to see it/experience it. Very few get it and for those people...they will see it.
JFC. Beat it bitch.
You're a douchebag for that comment on your father. 'Nuff said 🙂
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Did it ever occur to you that you may have misinterpreted what that meant? It meant that he did NOT emote in any great way until something happened to change him--drastically. No more, no less.
He and I were extremely close and I loved him dearly. The dad I knew and loved died that day. Take yourjudgement over people and situations you know nothing about somewhere else.
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Do they.... I mean.....................................do they even FEEL?!?
Yeah they THINK and ANALYZE and rationalize and blah....but I wanna know if they're capable of actually accepting feelings and are able to express them in a decent manner.
OR do they just squash it down with a bunch of "rational & logical" thought processes to the point where being emotive isn't even an option until it's time to explode......—?