Please advise. I'm a Pisces female who recently had a break-up from a year long relationship with a Virgo male. I truly love him. I thought he felt the same. We had disagreements, but no real arguments. We both have children from previous marriages. I was there for him through his divorce and other tough family issues. Five months or so ago, I felt something was off and asked him about it. He denied anything and said We were fine. He became more distant. I asked him again about two months ago if he wanted to be with me or break up. Again he said we were fine. In mid September I found out he was texting another girl. Yes, a girl, 20 yrs younger than me and only 5 years older than his children. He tried to deny it until I stated her name. Then he only had to say, "I just don't feel the same. I'm not happy. I'm done." This was on text as he refused to speak to me. Two weeks later I called him asking for a real explanation and some closure. He only stated that we wanted different things, but wouldn't elaborate. He said I was a good person and would find someone, that I did nothing wrong. Then after some prodding, he said that he did love me for most of the relationship, but "just lost feelings" like a light switch. WTF?! Finally, he said that he had held a grudge against me because some guy (that he knows is a liar and con artist) told him that we had slept together--before my Virgo and Mine' s relationship even began. WTF?! This was a total lie and he knows it. Also I was up front about this guy before we started dating. Anyway my questions are: Why would he carry on a year long relationship if he thought I had lied to him? This other guy was prior to us and I wasn't intimate with him, so that wouldn't even matter. Why wouldn't he break up with me when I asked him to if he didn't want to be with me instead of cheating on me or "just texting" other girls as he claims? I still love him, but don't think I would have a relationship with him again. I just want some insight? I am Sun: Pisces; Ascendent: Sagitarrius; Moon: Virgo; Venus: Aquarius; Mars: Aries; Mercury: Aquarius. He is Sun: Virgo; Ascendent: Scorpio; Moon: Libra; Venus: Leo; Mars: Cancer; Mercury: Virgo.
