I am a scorpio male. Very true to my sign. I met a virgo female a month ago. We started talking. All was so amazing. I travel a lot for work so a lot of phone calls. Most lasting 10 plus hours. We started seeing eachother every other day. Started sexual activities about a week and a half ago and all seems well. No doubt we are very compatable in bed as well. Lucky for both of us that didn't last ten hours :-) just a couple. So; I return to traveling. Been gone a week now and she has started to back off. Until three nights ago we remained constintly in touch. Mostly text with about two calls a day. Her schedule went nuts so I just let her call me. Although I did initiate texts often. Then she had told me shed call in a bit late one night. I said ok and waited up. She was in our home city of las vegas and I was working in mississippi. So obvious time diference. Anyway. After three hours I finally was too tired to wait and asked thru text if id get that call? She said no. Ill call tomorrow. I respond " ok? Should I be wooried?" She said no. Calm done. Then another text said why are you worrying then another saying to calm down. Yet I hadn't said anymore. Then next day she said shekd like "no expectations" and "slow" I had a long wait to become her 'boyfriend' yet we agreed we aren't 'doing' anyone else. So I agree so she dosent flee. I have fallen HARD for this one. I'm 34 and she's 37 and I think she's 'it' we want the same things. Similar backgrounds and childhood. Like the same things. She really is amazing! my concern is I have never heard of reducing the communication to almost nothing in an attempt to grow closer? Also. She did say that her heart is "closed" and didn't want to hurt me. She said this weeks ago and when we are together I feel the emotion or 'love' from her. In the touch. The kiss. The care she takes with me. All her actions show she is into me. And she did give me a laundry list of things she really likes about me last week. I'm just worried that I lost her two days ago with my dumb question text? Now she confuses me. She said well talk. I don't know when but we will talk. Then calls me and it was all good. Then last night I get the good night text which surprised me. Today almost nothing! A couple texts of little importance. No call. So advice people. I'm a direct,confident scorpio. Full of passion and fearless in this relationship. At least in making it happen. So, what do you think? Is this a slow drift away or should I chill?
