What to do when you miss someone so much—?

Obviously you would reach out...

But I'm talking about people who is either:

1) Distance apart (miles away)
2) You are emotionally distanced (ex. fought and fall apart, or broke up)
3) You miss someone who you don't talk to because he or she did something to you.
4) A person who is dead (literally)

I'm asking because obviously for me 1) is very easy just phone or email... and plan a visit or something...

2 and 3 are battles or will and hard feelings, which im very interested into know what would people do.

and 4 is the toughest one since no matter what you do, is impossible.... I know some people is going to throw shit at this post... I'm ok, I don't care... all I'm interested into know how people do...

I've miss my best friend some days more than others, and some days is overwhelming, is like something happen in my life and she would've been the person who I would run to tell her all about it. I stop reaching out because she stop answering to my attempts to fix our friendship after a fallout last year, so finally got the hint that she doesn't care anymore, I don't want to focus on that old situation.... my thing is when those days when I miss her, is overwhelming... that I wished I can tell her or call her or go and pay her a visit, but I know if I do that is not going to have the result that I've in my mind... some days in order to put an end of this nonsense missing a person who probably doesn't event dedicate me a though at this point, I wonder why is been so long and I still miss her if it seems like she is not lacking of me... otherwise she should've reached out a little bit after all this long.

Anyone wants to share anything on this regards... I'm not looking for validation I just simply want to talk about this... I'm sure lot of people admitted or not have been where I am...

Posted by Vixen2
Loss and seperation is so painful. I'm dealing with #4 and have been for 8 months. Every second of the day...my mind knows no rest from it. Every glorious, happy memory had turned gut wrenchingly painful.

All I can do is try to stay busy...I read alot, come on here and chit chat, work, obessively clean, watch mindless TV shows so I don't have to think, garden, yoga, read...but nothing really helps at all. I just try to do my best. That's all I can do. I hope you heart finds comfort no matter what kind of loss or seperation you feel.

Yeah that is exactly how I feel, although my case sure there is hope that maybe someday she change her mind and we cross our paths again, But and I can understand when you miss someone who had died... is excruciating, there is no fix, and will takes as long as it takes... is like learning to live with the pain as part of your life...