Stupid drunk texts

This topic was created in the Relationships forum by Ohdear on Sunday, October 25, 2015 and has 10 replies.

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@Ohdear
11 Years

So cross with myself!! Hooked up with a guy a couple of weeks ago, to be honest he didn't live up to his promises in the bedroom and I did tell him I was disappointed as we had been flirting for weeks beforehand. He wasn't outwardly bothered and said I wouldn't dare delete his number because he could tell how much I liked him. Anyway next day I text just saying I hadn't felt so disappointed since the day I found out Santa wasn't real. That was 3 weeks ago, last night I made that awful mistake of drunk texting saying I'm sorry if my words were a bit harsh and thought of him today when I saw his football team had lost (his passion in life) and sent some jeering comment about it. He's not replied. I feel such an idiot right now!!! Were my comments too nasty? or do you think he's just thinking I'm a nutcase?

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@CapricornLaurie
14 YearsCapricorn

i secretly love her loll
At least he knows how she really feels about his junk Lmao

I'd be mad too lol he wasted weeks of her time flirting that he was a machine in the bedroom and didnt deliver.

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Posted by Ohdear
So cross with myself!! Hooked up with a guy a couple of weeks ago, to be honest he didn't live up to his promises in the bedroom and I did tell him I was disappointed as we had been flirting for weeks beforehand. He wasn't outwardly bothered and said I wouldn't dare delete his number because he could tell how much I liked him. Anyway next day I text just saying I hadn't felt so disappointed since the day I found out Santa wasn't real. That was 3 weeks ago, last night I made that awful mistake of drunk texting saying I'm sorry if my words were a bit harsh and thought of him today when I saw his football team had lost (his passion in life) and sent some jeering comment about it. He's not replied. I feel such an idiot right now!!! Were my comments too nasty? or do you think he's just thinking I'm a nutcase?

Honestly?

Don't waste another minute worrying (agonizing) about this... (you could

have done so much worse).

Because it absolutely does not matter-- apologize to yourself for being

silly, and then go do something nice for yourself... like a LATTE!

I think I need a LATTE Today.

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😄

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@Ohdear
11 Years

Posted by RainDancer
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Lol

You compared the sex to finding out Santa wasn't real?

LMFAO

Don't let it plague ya dear. Bygones. But that cracked me up. What a way to describe it, I approve of your metaphor.

And then to add a cheery on, you throw his team losing in the mix too... Hahaha.

You mean well. You probably have some sorting of sorts to do but this too will pass

Thanks for your words of support the problem is I've just gone through a break up my head is all over the place at the moment ! I hope it passes quickly

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@Ohdear
11 Years

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Honestly?

Don't waste another minute worrying (agonizing) about this... (you could

have done so much worse).

Because it absolutely does not matter-- apologize to yourself for being

silly, and then go do something nice for yourself... like a LATTE!

I think I need a LATTE Today.

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Thankyou for your words of support it's helped sharing it on here and I've definitely learnt a lesson

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@Montgomery
13 Years10,000+ Posts

Posted by dontgetmewrong
OP - lol, you silly girl. Think of it as a fluke and keep it moving. Go get a latte and have some laughs with close gf's.

Still, she frets.

*sigh*

We'll just Latte without her....

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* I think I might actually have to run get one... lol, these are looking good. 🙂

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@balblair
10 Years

Love it!!!!lmaoooo

You did nothing wrong! 🙂 my type of lady

Lmaoooooo @ santaaaaaa

Posted by Ohdear
So cross with myself!! Hooked up with a guy a couple of weeks ago, to be honest he didn't live up to his promises in the bedroom and I did tell him I was disappointed as we had been flirting for weeks beforehand. He wasn't outwardly bothered and said I wouldn't dare delete his number because he could tell how much I liked him. Anyway next day I text just saying I hadn't felt so disappointed since the day I found out Santa wasn't real. That was 3 weeks ago, last night I made that awful mistake of drunk texting saying I'm sorry if my words were a bit harsh and thought of him today when I saw his football team had lost (his passion in life) and sent some jeering comment about it. He's not replied. I feel such an idiot right now!!! Were my comments too nasty? or do you think he's just thinking I'm a nutcase?

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@Ohdear
11 Years

Posted by kalin
Maybe he really liked you so he had performance anxiety. Anyways, I feel sorry for him.

I think it's more likely that he didn't like me so got it over and done with as quick as possible. Believe me he is bursting with confidence