where have the butterflies gone?

where are those love feelings that you get for just ONE and one gets for just YOU. what happened?

no situation. it's just that not sure if there is any depth to anybody's feelings these days. one minute you feel there is something that maybe someone is interested in you and the next you see them giving the attention to someone else. you wait for someone to make a move thinking they might like you and see them moving towards someone else haha

just came across a relationships article and it said "AFFECTION and ATTENTION are things of the past?"

I have a former coworker, he's a libra with strong Scorpio placements. He's in his 60s and full of wisdom, been with his current partner for 24 years.

He told me the butterflies will fade at some point, that feeling of new love doesn't last forever. But he says embrace the stages of love as it happens. There's equal joy in the comfort and stability with your lover.

Idk, he says it better.

Posted by LadyNeptune
I have a former coworker, he's a libra with strong Scorpio placements. He's in his 60s and full of wisdom, been with his current partner for 24 years.

He told me the butterflies will fade at some point, that feeling of new love doesn't last forever. But he says embrace the stages of love as it happens. There's equal joy in the comfort and stability with your lover.

Idk, he says it better.

yes, but what if you are single and there is nothing to fade? singles want someone and couples want someone else hmm

they have become extinct feelings..

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Posted by puhleeze
no situation. it's just that not sure if there is any depth to anybody's feelings these days. one minute you feel there is something that maybe someone is interested in you and the next you see them giving the attention to someone else. you wait for someone to make a move thinking they might like you and see them moving towards someone else haha

Everyone's not for you. Accept it and move on.

Only a few, once you realize this you won't get stuck on every person you meet.

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i mean not every person, but a person that shows interest and makes you think about them and then a.) either doesn't make a move or b.) shows attention to someone else. maybe #b is just a player, but #a why are men not making first moves any more?

They still exist. I had if for years with my sag.

Moon/mars conj.in synastry

Posted by DMV
They still exist. I had if for years with my sag.

Moon/mars conj.in synastry

i used to in the past but these days overthinking is killing everything.

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Posted by DMV
They still exist. I had if for years with my sag.

Moon/mars conj.in synastry

i used to in the past but these days overthinking is killing everything.

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Agreed. Just gotta let the fear go.

Butterflies has been replaced with paranoia

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Posted by puhleeze

Posted by DMV
They still exist. I had if for years with my sag.

Moon/mars conj.in synastry

i used to in the past but these days overthinking is killing everything.

Agreed. Just gotta let the fear go.

Butterflies has been replaced with paranoia

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+1

Going to have to agree with OP. This is the kind of generation we live in today. I see it happen constantly with friends. I'm friends with people my age, older & younger. There are still "old school" thinking people out there. Trust me, there is. Most people aren't as trusting as they use to be. This has a lot to do with it. Amongst other factors. I'm not as trusting as I use to be either.