Could you be friends with someone who use to bang your gf/bf??

Or spouse for that matter if you got em

Posted by Foreverloveme
I have been. In one situation it wasn't intentional, we found out later.

Another situation, I kind of had to due to circumstances.

If they don't know they use to bang then there's no issue there as well

Do you feel there is a need to know? Cause one will find out sooner or later. Friends/family love to gossip.

I have several "igloo sister" friends.

Granted, we didn't necessarily know on the front end, but it didn't affect the quality of our friendship once we found out.

I wish I were this grown up but I don't want to be friends with his ex's. I should say, ex wife/mother of his child yes but others no.

Only if it was a will and grace, Jeff and Geny situation.

Posted by brandyp
I'm a scorp, so I will always have my guard up. As friendly as we get, in my heart I can I will always view that women as the "enemy". We will appear to be friends, but I know better 😉

This is too true. I'd be suspicious for days. Like why is she even around again? 😆

If we didn't know at first and became friends though, I don't think I would cut her off. She's just definitely not hanging out with us as a unit like our other friends do, AT ALL.

But ultimately if it was the past and no boundaries are being crossed, I can be cool about it.

Just. No. Touching.

HELL NO!!

Never been in that situation and would never wamt to be friends with them

Sure. I've been friends with many people who had been with the person I dated. I almost rather it be like that, because then I get more information and secrets on that person.

Now if I dated someone, broke up with them, then a friend tried to get with them I'd flip. All I ask is don't date my exes, or you can join them in exile from me. I got rid of my ex for a reason, so a friend trying to being them around is crazy to me.