nov5male
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Your Answer To The Indecent Proposal Question
Could I use $ 1 million right now? Absolutely. But I'm not a prostitute nor will I ever be. So it wouldn't matter whether a rich/poor man offered me $ 1 or $ 1 million. Peace of mind, respect for self & a good relationship is PRICELESS.
I'd rather be given $ 1 million to dump the A-hole who'd even suggest such a thing!
If my husband (b/c God forbid he just be some regular ole boyfriend) was ok with "selling me" or acting as if I'm some sort of product all just so he can get a quick buck, I'd probably knock HIM out quicker than the rich man who offered!
I'd rather be given $ 1 million to dump the A-hole who'd even suggest such a thing!
If my husband (b/c God forbid he just be some regular ole boyfriend) was ok with "selling me" or acting as if I'm some sort of product all just so he can get a quick buck, I'd probably knock HIM out quicker than the rich man who offered!
I bet there's alot of people who will scream "NO!!!" to this question & yet be secretely thinking "HELL YES!" to themselves. Smh smh
Posted by krysrenee7
I bet there's alot of people who will scream "NO!!!" to this question & yet be secretely thinking "HELL YES!" to themselves. Smh smh
you already know that. This is a thread for people who will be honest. Look, i'm not gonna judge because there's a really great arguement either way
Granted, some women/men will sleep with another person for way LESS, if they're even offered money at all.
For all those who will cheat on their partners, step outside of their relationship or marriage all just to have sex with someone b/c they're lacking emotional support from their partners or WHATEVER, I don't see why they wouldn't step out on their partners all for money. The way I see it, if you can screw another man & not get anything in return OR very little in return, there'd be no moral basis for which you can act all high & mighty if someone offers you money to sleep with them!
Sleeping with another person while committed is morally wrong just like sleeping with someone for money (regardless of the asking price). So if you'll cheat or sleep with someone else for barely nothing & justify it mentally, there'd be NO use in acting as if sleeping with someone for money was such a horrible thing after all. If it's morally wrong, it's morally wrong.
Most of us sleep with another person b/c we're expecting SOMETHING, whether it's committment, fear of rejection, more cuddling time, etc. anyways, so I'd probably bxtch slap the person that claimed they wouldn't sleep with someone for $ 1 million especially if they were already doing so for free!
The women who would say "No" & actually MEAN it are probably the ones who'd never even entertain sleeping with another man regardless of whether her man gave her the permission or not. The women who say "yes" either 1. Already slept with another man for free (with or without her man's permission) or 2. Have thought about doing so before anyways. And to them, why say "no?" In their minds, if you can sleep around for free, what's doing so for $ 1 million gonna hurt? =P
For all those who will cheat on their partners, step outside of their relationship or marriage all just to have sex with someone b/c they're lacking emotional support from their partners or WHATEVER, I don't see why they wouldn't step out on their partners all for money. The way I see it, if you can screw another man & not get anything in return OR very little in return, there'd be no moral basis for which you can act all high & mighty if someone offers you money to sleep with them!
Sleeping with another person while committed is morally wrong just like sleeping with someone for money (regardless of the asking price). So if you'll cheat or sleep with someone else for barely nothing & justify it mentally, there'd be NO use in acting as if sleeping with someone for money was such a horrible thing after all. If it's morally wrong, it's morally wrong.
Most of us sleep with another person b/c we're expecting SOMETHING, whether it's committment, fear of rejection, more cuddling time, etc. anyways, so I'd probably bxtch slap the person that claimed they wouldn't sleep with someone for $ 1 million especially if they were already doing so for free!
The women who would say "No" & actually MEAN it are probably the ones who'd never even entertain sleeping with another man regardless of whether her man gave her the permission or not. The women who say "yes" either 1. Already slept with another man for free (with or without her man's permission) or 2. Have thought about doing so before anyways. And to them, why say "no?" In their minds, if you can sleep around for free, what's doing so for $ 1 million gonna hurt? =P
Personally I'd have to look at the person offering, if he was someone that I would do anyway then there wouldn't be a problem taking up on the offer however I'd be looking into the contract to see what else was at stake....there's always a catch!
If the guy wasn't appealing in anyway then no amount of money would have me go there!
And I'm single so there isnt a concern of a Mr's opinion...
If the guy wasn't appealing in anyway then no amount of money would have me go there!
And I'm single so there isnt a concern of a Mr's opinion...
Are you joking? A million dollars and all I have to do is bang Robert Redford? I don't know about anyone else, but my husband and I bust our butts every day to barely scrape by and pay our mortgage. His job carries serious health risks, and he's exhausted every day from working to take care of us. If I could make a million dollars in, what, an hour?...ten minutes?...then I think it would be more morally wrong of me NOT to. So, yes, I would take one for the team.
Of course
My husband would be at the car lot shopping and making mental notes of other toys he wants, while I was doing the deed.
I would find it completely offensive and be incredulous that he even asked it of me.
There are consequences to such a thing. There is no guarantee about how the relationship is going to be. How the wife view of herself as an assett could lead her. How is the money going to be distributed (conflict that might arise). It is a whole list of things that will become worse. I don't see better consequences except in the money department, but the relationship is what makes everything else possible. So if the relationship changes fundamentally everything else changes as well. How can someone be close to someone if they market their body to someone else. I don't get it. And the male ego either comes back or creep in somehow if this to happen again. No man can just feel that this is okay if he truly claim that woman to be his. It is equal to a father making his daughter have sex with a rich man that he owes money too. Can this act be just innocent nothing more to it? Is sex just sex in this case? I don't think it is a fun happy proposition without some payback.
Posted by P-Angel
My husband would be at the car lot shopping and making mental notes of other toys he wants, while I was doing the deed.
LOL!
I love the honesty by some of the women in here. If we can't be honest at a blog site then where the fuk can we be honest?
I look at it like if 2 people are married and fully having everything that that means like really view each other as life partners and are really a family, wouldn't have to at least discussed? Now i'm just like the next n!gga, trust me, I'm not really feeling another man nailing my wife, and some of my Scorpio characteristics might make me destroy the marriage later, who knows lol. but again it would be irresponsible, yes irresponsible as a couple to not at least size up the situation.
It's not even about only the people that's poor or having a tough time doing this, I mean even if both of you had decent livings, we are talking about a Million dollars and for the people who quickly think they can say no, must not really understand what having a million dollars does. Or might just be a bit misguided about the thought of it.
Now I would respect my wife and I wouldn't be on some "b!ch you fuking him!!" never lol. Before we could even do it, it basically comes down to how she feels. Will she be like in a obnoxious voice: "OMG Nov5 how could you even consider something like this... the sky is falling" or she might be like "fuk these bills and this 9 to 5 babe - I GOT US, when and where?!"
Of course this doesn't work for everyone, some people are wired in a way where it would just ruin their sh!t. But I ask some of you women who say they wouldn't... how many dudes have you fuked and really didn't get anything out of it? Maybe it was wack, maybe he played u - now u wish you didn't, or he wasn't the dude u thought he was etc. How many dudes that you would have gave some to because you thought he looked good or something or you see and think he could get it?
I'd def be willing to take one for the team. Oh the mofo terms and conditions will also have to be discussed too
I look at it like if 2 people are married and fully having everything that that means like really view each other as life partners and are really a family, wouldn't have to at least discussed? Now i'm just like the next n!gga, trust me, I'm not really feeling another man nailing my wife, and some of my Scorpio characteristics might make me destroy the marriage later, who knows lol. but again it would be irresponsible, yes irresponsible as a couple to not at least size up the situation.
It's not even about only the people that's poor or having a tough time doing this, I mean even if both of you had decent livings, we are talking about a Million dollars and for the people who quickly think they can say no, must not really understand what having a million dollars does. Or might just be a bit misguided about the thought of it.
Now I would respect my wife and I wouldn't be on some "b!ch you fuking him!!" never lol. Before we could even do it, it basically comes down to how she feels. Will she be like in a obnoxious voice: "OMG Nov5 how could you even consider something like this... the sky is falling" or she might be like "fuk these bills and this 9 to 5 babe - I GOT US, when and where?!"
Of course this doesn't work for everyone, some people are wired in a way where it would just ruin their sh!t. But I ask some of you women who say they wouldn't... how many dudes have you fuked and really didn't get anything out of it? Maybe it was wack, maybe he played u - now u wish you didn't, or he wasn't the dude u thought he was etc. How many dudes that you would have gave some to because you thought he looked good or something or you see and think he could get it?
I'd def be willing to take one for the team. Oh the mofo terms and conditions will also have to be discussed too
Posted by QuietSt0rm
I don't think I could do it. I'd like to think that I could, and become a millionaire and still keep my dignity intact, but I don't think that I could. I don't know if it's my lilith in Libra or what, but I struggle with issues of shame.
A little secret about me... 7 years ago, my gas was about to get shut off because I was unemployed and couldn't find a job. A stripper friend of mine encouraged me to do an amateur night at the strip club, in which I could win $ 500. I entered the contest and I won, my gas bill was paid. But to this day, I'm ashamed of that shit. It's a skeleton in my closet. Right after I got off stage I started crying, and the other girls didn't understand why I was crying, because I had won against girls with implants and shit. LOL But I won't even lie, I felt dirty as hell and I regret that shit to the fullest. I don't know how strippers do that on a regular basis.
Why would you be ashamed? Not like you fuck somebody for $ 500.00 and you should let that shit go ma. Yeah it was tough and i's not something you wanted to do but you were in survival mode... so you get a pass. In survival mode sometimes it's by all means necessary. You know people do a lot of shit that they don't want to do or don't think they'd do in a tough spot - that's just real.
On a lighter note so you outdid the professionals huh? Damn... wish I was there! You might of broke a n!gga! LOL
Posted by xdxpPosted by nov5male
I mean even if both of you had decent livings, we are talking about a Million dollars and for the people who quickly think they can say no, must not really understand what having a million dollars does. Or might just be a bit misguided about the thought of it.
trust me. i know what a million dollars does. the point is not everything or everyone has a price tag. a NO is a NO even if you point a gun at me it's still a NO.click to expand
I respect that. You're right everything doesn't have a price tage but most things do! Everyone doesn't have a price tag but most people do. Ultimately it's about life experiences and everyones situation isn't the same.
Easy to say about a lot of things when the gun is not in your face.
Posted by everevolvingepithet
PLus, for the sake of argument, a million dollars is becoming worth less and less right ?
agreed it isn't what it used to be but again it's still 1 million dollars so if it wasn't a significant amount of money to obtain the world would be a different place.
Haven't read everything yet but my answer is this: You cannot trust someone whose loyalty has a price.
The gut response is a resounding HELL NO! On the other hand... a million dollars is a lot of damn money, but in the end it's just money. Money comes and goes, pretty easily too. Plus, sex is not JUST a physical act to me. Even if you went through with it, I think it would cause problems later. I have a feeling a lot of people would say yes to this but not me. I'm a possessive/territorial lover. Besides, I'm doing fine now without your money, I got my own.
The gut response is a resounding HELL NO! On the other hand... a million dollars is a lot of damn money, but in the end it's just money. Money comes and goes, pretty easily too. Plus, sex is not JUST a physical act to me. Even if you went through with it, I think it would cause problems later. I have a feeling a lot of people would say yes to this but not me. I'm a possessive/territorial lover. Besides, I'm doing fine now without your money, I got my own.
^ What HE said. *whistling and sashaying off thread*
Posted by QuietSt0rmPosted by nov5male
Now I would respect my wife and I wouldn't be on some "b!ch you fuking him!!" never lol. Before we could even do it, it basically comes down to how she feels. Will she be like in a obnoxious voice: "OMG Nov5 how could you even consider something like this... the sky is falling" or she might be like "fuk these bills and this 9 to 5 babe - I GOT US, when and where?!"
So what if he pipes her better than you do?? You just let a man with crazy money and good penis fuck your wife. And if your wife is the type who would fuck another man for some money, what makes you think she won't leave you altogether if a man with more money and a fatter penis come around.
Just something to think about.
If my boyfriend/husband even suggested that I hump another man for some money, that would be the end of that relationship/marriage. I would suggest that HE go lay down and fuck that man if he want a million dollars so freakin bad.click to expand
you right those are all things to consider. lol Look, i'm just playing devil's adv. and if she was the type that would leave a dude for a dude with more money and a bigger penis (picture that lol j/k) then she probably would have never got a proposal to be my wife from the door - def not from me anyway. and since we using "if's" and again the scenario is that she's not this or that type. She's a good wife in a good marriage and you guys are just proposed with the situation.
Again i still see good arguements both ways
Posted by QuietSt0rmPosted by nov5male
you right those are all things to consider. lol Look, i'm just playing devil's adv. and if she was the type that would leave a dude for a dude with more money and a bigger penis (picture that lol j/k) then she probably would have never got a proposal to be my wife from the door - def not from me anyway. and since we using "if's" and again the scenario is that she's not this or that type. She's a good wife in a good marriage and you guys are just proposed with the situation.
Again i still see good arguements both ways
The point I'm making is that if your wife would be willing to sleep with another man for said amount of money, then clearly she is money minded. Her focus is the money. That same mind set is what makes women leave men everyday for other men who have bigger paychecks.
So what's the difference between the two "types"? Why would you wife one but not the other? You think just because she gets your consent with the millionaire dollar deal that makes it better? When you get down to the basics, a lack of integrity is a lack of integrity. They're not much different afterall. At least not in my opinion.click to expand
silence! you have no point. LOL I'm joking
nah she doesn't have to be money minded. And that doesn't mean she's this money hungry driven person. I mean maybe she looks real good and she could have been with a millionaire in life anyway. So if that's the case then why is she with me? She might just be doing something that she's sees as a small price to pay if it means having her family not have to worry about money for the rest of their lives. It's about what she's doing for her family. It doesn't have to define her existence.
Sh!t there's a good amount of women who's suppose to have plenty integrity and dignity that won't date let alone have sex with a man unless he was really well off.... (shrugs)
We would have to up the ante to even discuss this.
Posted by Pisco26
Can my husband watch? I would do it if I could look at him the whole time. Makes that Piscean imagination of mine useful for once.
Damn, you'd make him watch? Knowing it happened would be bad enough, no way I want to see it happen.
Posted by QuietSt0rm
lmao Like I told you before, go sit your ass down somewhere 😛 That was just me being NICE!!
They told me you would say that. lol I just backed your a $ $ into a corner that's all lol
Posted by pyewacket
In my heart the answer would be a big NO. But I would consider it if my circumstances were so dire that it would be the only way that my family could survive.
I think I would prefer if my husband be the one to sleep with the millionaire instead to me. I feel that a man wouldn't be able to handle it emotionally as well as a woman. Yes, I'm generalizing, border lining on be sexist, but truthful nonetheless. A man's ego will always make him remember even if he says he's fine with you doing it. Besides, the mere thought of saggy balls and gray pubes makes me want to vomit. Let's face it, only an old, ugly, nasty or physically disfigured millionaire would have to pay for it. Not a Robert Redford.
Interesting..
How about that, you're probably right about a women being able to handle knowing her man had sex with someone else than a man (Most women deal with this or have dealt with it anyway right?). A male ego, when it's comes to women can have it's own area code. A situation like this might eat a man alive no matter how much he tries to handle it internally.
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