Any Sags willing to give their opinion?

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Anyways, there's this sag, I am in love with. I'm real shy to come close to this person, and everytime this sag looks at me, this sag smiles real wide, this sag also glances at me time to time..

Like I said, i'm real shy...so I act like i'm not interested, and just turn the other way (Which is bad), I can't seem to get in the moment. I'm really nice and outgoing when we're in Fitness together, I don't talk to this sag at all, but I always play real hardcore infront of this sag with my friends. ~This sag seems to be interested in some trivial things. My older brother which was recruting some marine's in my high school came over, and this sag asked me what we were talking about...which I find strange, maybe a hint? Or wishful thinking this sag is interested, who knows...anyways, this sag is REALLY popular, I don't really give this sag signs that I want to date & Be friends (Which is terrible), I shaved my hair off, and this sag stared at me and smiled really wide, and we smiled together while we stared at each other smiling. I noticed that everytime I talk with my friends, this sag stares at me and listens to my conversations.~I know, I'm giving too much detail, it's just that, this sag is always in my mind and I can't seem to take this sag out of there! Do you think this sag is interested at me at all...or is this sag just being a sag? I've also been watching this sag too, hoping this sag wont catch me on the act...and i've noticed this sag flirts alot, but this sag has a great personality, and this sag's really friendly. Like I said, this sag's real popular, and out of everyone, he chooses to talk to me, he doesn't talk to anyone else he doesn't know, but at random, he just picks me even when I didn't give this sag any signs. I think it's just wishful thinking... I wasn't interested in this sag along time ago, but since these little games occured, it's getting to me mentally. I'm just interested in this sag's personality, not looks. I been reading some posts on this forums and it seems sags don't like to be smoothered, which is bad in my case, CAUSE' I WANNA JUMP AND HUG THIS SAG!

I don't really want to come out (It's my loss, I know), but this sag's really popular, and i'm afraid this sag might reject me and i'll just sulk forever with self-pity. And i'm also afraid it might ruin my reputation if I try to get near this sag since this sag is really popular, and this sag might expose everything...
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LOL...okay...No Problem. You got over that quick, is it because they treat everyone as equals, so you think he is not interested in that way?


He probably is...


I mean, if he's strait and is just cool with everyone, that's great, i'd rather be his best friend. (That's why I fickled out)

But if he's gay and hiding it while giving me hints - I think that's hot...it gets to me mentally... But at the same time mortified that he might be strait and it'll hurt me internally.

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...I'll still take the advice ProudSag if you're still willing to give some 😄!
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Sag or not, he's young...most of my male gay friends (the open ones), tell me of tales of the popular (not so open gay) guy...giving sublte hints to spark their interest, mainly like what you described above...but if you have your doubts that is good, be cautious of the guy, it never really works too well if your comfortable and he's not.

Talk to him, catch him alone sometime and start up a conversation...see where it goes.
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"Sag or not, he's young...most of my male gay friends (the open ones), tell me of tales of the popular (not so open gay) guy...giving sublte hints to spark their interest, mainly like what you described above...but if you have your doubts that is good, be cautious of the guy, it never really works too well if your comfortable and he's not.

Talk to him, catch him alone sometime and start up a conversation...see where it goes."

i'll wait till I finished high school. Cause' i'm pretty sure the outside community are more mature on catergories like this than the what's in school.

My life doesn't revolve around love, I guess I can live without for a while 😛
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Sweetie your cancer fickelness is confusing the hell oughta this saggie!! LOL 😉

All though my advise will always be the same when dealing with a Sag, be straight foward, we appreciate honesty.

I'm not sure how your High School feels about "alternative" life style s. Where I live theres a gay/lesbian group at the local High school, so most kids there are pretty open about they're sexuality. Every state is differant so take your cues from what is accepted there. When you feel secure enough to show your inner self, then do so, but remember they're always going to be unaccepting people at any age...
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awww today my sag crossed my path and I said "Hi" - with a small tone, I was sure my sag didn't hear me!

But DANM he heared and said hey back, and then we walked past each other and then he turned and said hey - like a "I got something to tell you!" But then we just stared at each other and he said "uhhh, nevermind" And then I glanced with a calm face then turned away and walked away - he did the same.

Do you think, my sag was about to come out?

DANMMIT! I SHOULD HAD SAID SOMETHING. This makes me mad, i'll try something tommorow.