ashboogie89
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Does this Sagittarius guy really like me or is he just like this with everyone? (Im a Virgo btw)
ask him
Update: Guess I spoke too soon. He hasn't contacted me in 3 days =\
Like I said before, I'm all for giving this guy space but how can you go DAYS without talking to somebody you like? Or maybe he doesn't like me as much as I thought 😢
Like I said before, I'm all for giving this guy space but how can you go DAYS without talking to somebody you like? Or maybe he doesn't like me as much as I thought 😢
Posted by ashboogie89Are you sure your jealousy doesn't come across in your words or actions? Are you sure you're not "testing" him?
Update: Guess I spoke too soon. He hasn't contacted me in 3 days =\
Like I said before, I'm all for giving this guy space but how can you go DAYS without talking to somebody you like? Or maybe he doesn't like me as much as I thought 😢
Well, I'll just say this:
Obviously there was a breakdown in communication between you two because we just don't go silent on someone we obviously are into...which he clearly showed you.
I've had several experiences with Virgo women(one relationship, the rest as friends) and your words pretty much tell what happened. You said you started falling for him but also you were jealous and you got scared...this amounts to fear. So, you started backing off in communication and actions and then you justified it(in your mind) by devaluing him...as in "he must do this for everybody." The result of this is clouded judgement because you miss the obvious ways in which he treats you special and puts you above everyone else. He sensed you pulling away and started chasing you and the reason you did this was to test him. He was trying to not only preserve the friendship but also save the potential. So, feeling he's been wronged, he's backed off and is waiting for you to reach out to him. Letting you decide what you want to do.
I'm not saying you're a bad person, but the above scenario is what looks like what happened. We are one of the easiest signs to be in a relationship with because we keep it simple and steady and we try to let things grow on their own. He feels that he's shown you that he wants you and has been your friend and loyal to you....much more in action and less in words. We don't "touch on everyone's butt" to show protection. That's a lot in itself but your fear made you overlook that. Eventually he will contact you, but I'd reach out to him first if I were you. Good luck 🙂
Obviously there was a breakdown in communication between you two because we just don't go silent on someone we obviously are into...which he clearly showed you.
I've had several experiences with Virgo women(one relationship, the rest as friends) and your words pretty much tell what happened. You said you started falling for him but also you were jealous and you got scared...this amounts to fear. So, you started backing off in communication and actions and then you justified it(in your mind) by devaluing him...as in "he must do this for everybody." The result of this is clouded judgement because you miss the obvious ways in which he treats you special and puts you above everyone else. He sensed you pulling away and started chasing you and the reason you did this was to test him. He was trying to not only preserve the friendship but also save the potential. So, feeling he's been wronged, he's backed off and is waiting for you to reach out to him. Letting you decide what you want to do.
I'm not saying you're a bad person, but the above scenario is what looks like what happened. We are one of the easiest signs to be in a relationship with because we keep it simple and steady and we try to let things grow on their own. He feels that he's shown you that he wants you and has been your friend and loyal to you....much more in action and less in words. We don't "touch on everyone's butt" to show protection. That's a lot in itself but your fear made you overlook that. Eventually he will contact you, but I'd reach out to him first if I were you. Good luck 🙂
Posted by ashboogie89I can go weeks, months or even a year without talking if I like somebody.
Update: Guess I spoke too soon. He hasn't contacted me in 3 days =\
Like I said before, I'm all for giving this guy space but how can you go DAYS without talking to somebody you like? Or maybe he doesn't like me as much as I thought 😢
It just depends whether I feel treated the right way or not.
Posted by sagsagsagHaha I don't think I'm an expert. I think I just simply have more better experience with this pairing better than any Virgo and Sagittarius couples here in DXP right now. But I have no clue about the other way around coupling. Maybe if it's Virgo Man and Sagittarius Woman I can offer some help but not Sagittarius Man and Virgo Woman lol
Ask @Nathan912 he's the expert on sag n virgo lol ?
Posted by Nathan912Feel free to help me out ?Posted by sagsagsagHaha I don't think I'm an expert. I think I just simply have more better experience with this pairing better than any Virgo and Sagittarius couples here in DXP right now. But I have no clue about the other way around coupling. Maybe if it's Virgo Man and Sagittarius Woman I can offer some help but not Sagittarius Man and Virgo Woman lol
Ask @Nathan912 he's the expert on sag n virgo lol ?
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Posted by Sagg101Alright, try me.Posted by Nathan912Feel free to help me out ?Posted by sagsagsagHaha I don't think I'm an expert. I think I just simply have more better experience with this pairing better than any Virgo and Sagittarius couples here in DXP right now. But I have no clue about the other way around coupling. Maybe if it's Virgo Man and Sagittarius Woman I can offer some help but not Sagittarius Man and Virgo Woman lol
Ask @Nathan912 he's the expert on sag n virgo lol ?
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