@Queenofsag
9 Years
Virgo & Sag - ever works?
Posted by SagiScorp
These stories are really hard to read.If he all of a sudden doesn't put any effort into you anymore after plowing you, then that's all he wanted.
yeah...I agree. He's rude as hell tho unless you're really clingy.
Hard to tell from your post.
Virgos can be private with their love affairs. So you dropping things off regularly at his desk could feel like an invasion of privacy if he just wanted to continue things casually to see what happens.
Especially if other people can see you doing it.
I thought dropping things on his desk (only when no one around - very late night at work) could give him sense of attention... which what he loved b4 we hooked up...
You've stated its a casual relationship in your initial post so can i ask how often you're trying to connect with him ??
Us virgos need quiet , i can like someone but i don't want to hear from them every single day . I am at my wits end with a sag male as he's so overbearing and pushy its another story , I've had enough now and i couldn't care less if i never heard from him again , nasty ? Yes but I've explained that i haven't got the time to be having daily hours long telephone conversations yet he doesn't seem to listen .
My advise ....... slow down ! If a virgo likes you then you'd know and they will reach out to you . Respect the space .
Posted by Missvirgo
You've stated its a casual relationship in your initial post so can i ask how often you're trying to connect with him ??Us virgos need quiet , i can like someone but i don't want to hear from them every single day . I am at my wits end with a sag male as he's so overbearing and pushy its another story , I've had enough now and i couldn't care less if i never heard from him again , nasty ? Yes but I've explained that i haven't got the time to be having daily hours long telephone conversations yet he doesn't seem to listen .
My advise ....... slow down ! If a virgo likes you then you'd know and they will reach out to you . Respect the space .
Thanks for the tips!
I guess I got a feeling that he is not a prick (disappear after sex) but I maybe too pushy (not patient) so he suggested slow down and keep distance... I texted him one line every 2-3 days... Def not everyday...
Now I understand that texting = no space... In sag term is just to check if you are ok...
Our last conversation was he said what I did (texting and try to get attention from him) keep pushing him away, and I promised to give him space indefinitely... (Was a bit mad and just want to get out of the tension)...
I m kinda gave up to just save face (sag want to be classy not crazy) but I know I m not done with him...
Your thought?
One of my Virgo brothers and his longterm girlfriend... She won't finish the divorce papers from previous marriage. Otherwise, I they'd be married.
It can work. I really like Sag guys and we get along will.
However in relation to this guy give him "space." No contact. I'm sure you have been things to do than trying to make this guy feel secure/ happy.
Also, if this makes you uncomfortable are you sure you even want to have any type of relationship with him?
I can't believe you tag me on this one lol.
I was trying to avoid all the relationship question for few weeks now, but it's okay no worry 😎
Hi, Virgo Man here married to a Sagittarius Woman.
Honestly, I can't relate to this situation because I always been serious to my wife and our relationship even we were still dating and getting to know each other and I never been confused about our relationship like "I need space to think" because I know what I want and need in life and we try communicate as much as possible whether through phone or internet, no stupid excuses unless it's obvious that we can't communicate.
So you said you're in a casual relationship with him, so are you looking for serious relationship this time now? If you're looking for serious relationships, but you still don't know if he wants to be serious with you, then the best solution is to ask him if he wants to take it to the next level but if he's not ready yet don't waste your time find someone else who is the same page as you. Because It seems to me he's only using you for sex, but I don't know this is just how I see.
Ok one text every 2-3 days is not pushy
He went cold all of a sudden after having sex...and then telling that keeping stuffs on his desk is pushing him further
He is in it for sex...you guys were in a casual relationship...so doing these little things (showing care for him) is not working for him...i guess give him space...whatever you'll do now will push him further imo
I can't believe you tag me on this one lol.
I was trying to avoid all the relationship question for few weeks now, but it's okay no worry 😎
glad i did, great long ass advice 😈
hows the little lad? 🙂
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He's doing alright, just watching his favorite cartoon show right now before going to bed.
Posted by Loladoll
It can work. I really like Sag guys and we get along will.However in relation to this guy give him "space." No contact. I'm sure you have been things to do than trying to make this guy feel secure/ happy.
Also, if this makes you uncomfortable are you sure you even want to have any type of relationship with him?
Honestly at this point I stopped everything and just move on... why torture myself? : )
Posted by Nathan912
Hi, Virgo Man here married to a Sagittarius Woman.Honestly, I can't relate to this situation because I always been serious to my wife and our relationship even we were still dating and getting to know each other and I never been confused about our relationship like "I need space to think" because I know what I want and need in life and we try communicate as much as possible whether through phone or internet, no stupid excuses unless it's obvious that we can't communicate.
So you said you're in a casual relationship with him, so are you looking for serious relationship this time now? If you're looking for serious relationships, but you still don't know if he wants to be serious with you, then the best solution is to ask him if he wants to take it to the next level but if he's not ready yet don't waste your time find someone else who is the same page as you. Because It seems to me he's only using you for sex, but I don't know this is just how I see.
I should admitted that he is just a prick... He avoided me at all cost at work in last 2 weeks but today show up twice on my floor... which he can easily communicate with ppl who was seeing on my floor by phone or messaging... I saw him checked me out (after I told him about I will give him permanent space)... How annoying? When i try to cut it off, he just pop up like nothing happened...
Posted by Nathan912
Hi, Virgo Man here married to a Sagittarius Woman.Honestly, I can't relate to this situation because I always been serious to my wife and our relationship even we were still dating and getting to know each other and I never been confused about our relationship like "I need space to think" because I know what I want and need in life and we try communicate as much as possible whether through phone or internet, no stupid excuses unless it's obvious that we can't communicate.
So you said you're in a casual relationship with him, so are you looking for serious relationship this time now? If you're looking for serious relationships, but you still don't know if he wants to be serious with you, then the best solution is to ask him if he wants to take it to the next level but if he's not ready yet don't waste your time find someone else who is the same page as you. Because It seems to me he's only using you for sex, but I don't know this is just how I see.
I should admitted that he is just a prick... He avoided me at all cost at work in last 2 weeks but today show up twice on my floor... which he can easily communicate with ppl who was seeing on my floor by phone or messaging... I saw him checked me out (after I told him about I will give him permanent space)... How annoying? When i try to cut it off, he just pop up like nothing happened...
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He must have a Leo placement somewhere
that's an ol leo technique.
Posted by Nathan912
Hi, Virgo Man here married to a Sagittarius Woman.Honestly, I can't relate to this situation because I always been serious to my wife and our relationship even we were still dating and getting to know each other and I never been confused about our relationship like "I need space to think" because I know what I want and need in life and we try communicate as much as possible whether through phone or internet, no stupid excuses unless it's obvious that we can't communicate.
So you said you're in a casual relationship with him, so are you looking for serious relationship this time now? If you're looking for serious relationships, but you still don't know if he wants to be serious with you, then the best solution is to ask him if he wants to take it to the next level but if he's not ready yet don't waste your time find someone else who is the same page as you. Because It seems to me he's only using you for sex, but I don't know this is just how I see.
I should admitted that he is just a prick... He avoided me at all cost at work in last 2 weeks but today show up twice on my floor... which he can easily communicate with ppl who was seeing on my floor by phone or messaging... I saw him checked me out (after I told him about I will give him permanent space)... How annoying? When i try to cut it off, he just pop up like nothing happened...
He must have a Leo placement somewhere
that's an ol leo technique.
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I wish he was a Leo, Sag goes well with Leo...
Posted by stopbeingdelusional
I see train wreck coming.....
I have my popcorn in hand but this time I will watch carefully before any move...
I wish he was a Leo, Sag goes well with Leo...
Stick around the horror stories around here will change your mind.
Posted by Weeds
Posted by QueenofsagI wish he was a Leo, Sag goes well with Leo...
Stick around the horror stories around here will change your mind.
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My next FWB must not be a Virgo but Leo? Lol...
Posted by Weeds
Posted by QueenofsagI wish he was a Leo, Sag goes well with Leo...
Stick around the horror stories around here will change your mind.
My next FWB must not be a Virgo but Leo? Lol...
Virgo and Sag? Move on, girl 🙂 Not that he is bad, but I think it's just our Sags competitive nature that kicked in you. Once you made him fell for you, you realised he's boring, not affectionate enough and too much of a critic. (I dont mean to offend any Virgo here, but Sag & Virgo are really not compatible) Been there done that. I was an FWB with my ex, pursued him for 6 months and been tryna kick him out of my life for 3.5 years. Super clingy ?
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Agree with the incompatible signs... But just hate that feeling that something is not in my control... Should really move on... Awwww but great sex Virgo! He tried real hard...
Posted by Weeds
Posted by QueenofsagI wish he was a Leo, Sag goes well with Leo...
Stick around the horror stories around here will change your mind.
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lmao
"My causal relationship Virgo man wants space after initmacy.
We used to text everyday until we had sex. "
How easy people are with misleading!!!!!!!! If sex happens suddenly, it is not called casual relationship. I would not see it that way.
- maybe it was a platonic link that got ruined impulsively by sexual desires.
- maybe it was courting and flirting as the first steps towards dating and serious relationship. and when you started a new milestone, someone needs to analyse it.
- maybe somebody was just checking his/her opportunities or skills. and is now interested in new challenges.
"until we had sex"
and it was not that good as he had imagined before. most likely.
Posted by Weeds
Posted by QueenofsagI wish he was a Leo, Sag goes well with Leo...
Stick around the horror stories around here will change your mind.
My next FWB must not be a Virgo but Leo? Lol...
Virgo and Sag? Move on, girl 🙂 Not that he is bad, but I think it's just our Sags competitive nature that kicked in you. Once you made him fell for you, you realised he's boring, not affectionate enough and too much of a critic. (I dont mean to offend any Virgo here, but Sag & Virgo are really not compatible) Been there done that. I was an FWB with my ex, pursued him for 6 months and been tryna kick him out of my life for 3.5 years. Super clingy ?
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How absurd life is.
So A goes to think and analyse every thing.
B becomes passionated about mastering the situation.
B has success and gets to A.
Now B sees A is disappointingly a normal person with flaws. (or was it: B needs new impulses and challenges?)
B wants to leave the field for new challenges.
A is appelled by the situation: triggering him to make himself "perfect".
B is not interested anymore.
Both suffer.
Until a new character is added to the game.
Cannot we be smarter than randomness? I guess the answer is no.
Posted by DwellingOnMove
"until we had sex"and it was not that good as he had imagined before. most likely.
I wish that was the reason but Virgo admitted it was great but feel pressure after regular contact... Oh well... I don't understand...
Posted by Weeds
Posted by QueenofsagI wish he was a Leo, Sag goes well with Leo...
Stick around the horror stories around here will change your mind.
My next FWB must not be a Virgo but Leo? Lol...
Virgo and Sag? Move on, girl 🙂 Not that he is bad, but I think it's just our Sags competitive nature that kicked in you. Once you made him fell for you, you realised he's boring, not affectionate enough and too much of a critic. (I dont mean to offend any Virgo here, but Sag & Virgo are really not compatible) Been there done that. I was an FWB with my ex, pursued him for 6 months and been tryna kick him out of my life for 3.5 years. Super clingy ?
How absurd life is.
So A goes to think and analyse every thing.
B becomes passionated about mastering the situation.
B has success and gets to A.
Now B sees A is disappointingly a normal person with flaws. (or was it: B needs new impulses and challenges?)
B wants to leave the field for new challenges.
A is appelled by the situation: triggering him to make himself "perfect".
B is not interested anymore.
Both suffer.
Until a new character is added to the game.
Cannot we be smarter than randomness? I guess the answer is no.
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Human... our body is weak...
Do you have both his and your full birthdate?
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Virgo & Sag... My causal relationship Virgo man wants space after initmacy.
We used to text everyday until we had sex. All the sudden he is cold and distance and he asked to slow things down and keep distance... I texted him few times, sometime he relied in 2 seconds sometimes never write back. Things have been slow down (from my perspective) for 2 weeks, I have texted him and left small things on his desk (we work together) to show my care of him... but he texted me and said all I have done really push him away further...
We have no chance to talk, everything through txt only.
I just wonder if his "space" is a nicer way to say goodbye or he really need one and it could be weeks and months?
Some insight from you all have experience will be nice.