help! Sag man is making me looney toons

I slept with one of my best friends who is a male Sag a few months back.I mostly did it because well he is super hot ,and also I was going through this gnarly breakup with this guy I had been dating and I needed a little you know affection .I felt like I could trust my Sag friend since we had been so close for so long I thought we'd bounce back from it.


the next morning he was sorta holding my hand and being a little too ...i don't know what the word for it was ...a little too nice?a little too more than friendish? So for the sake of our friendship preservation I kicked him out.I said it nicely like,"ok I think its time for you to go, I have a lot of things to do today."

After that my friend got a little odd around me.We would go out to hang out per usual,but I felt like he was making an extra special effort to talk about how hot girls were, and even make out with people in front of me.I wasn't jealous ,but I did think it was odd behavior. One night I passed out at his house and I woke up to him caressing my backside while I slept.I caught him and he tried to pretend he was sleeping.WTF.oh i should backup before we fell asleep he brought up the fact I kicked him out the day after we slept together and he expressed it bothered him.


anyways.

shortly after this all he started hanging out with the last guy I dated a lot ,and not hanging out with me .i wouldnt think it was that odd since they are old friends,except for a little before i slept with the Sag he expressed he had "hated(dudes name) and had for a year".

oh new years he brought my ex to the same party as I was at and proceeded to flirt with me in front of the guy ,and kept asking me why I didnt call him anymore.

WTF?

but then that night he went and slept with this other girl I know. and i hear he has been on a sex spree in general as of late.

then yesterday in the morning he accuses me out of nowhere of trying to make him look lame by posting some picture of him on Facebook or some crap that wasn't even making him look lame , and when i proceeded to get pissed at him for stirring up shit when there was no issue he said he was,"just joking and that he liked the picture". but at that point i was just annoyed bc of all the weird tension between us for a while now and i told him he angered me.then he told me i was blowing stuff out of proportion and "peace".but then 15 minutes later he texted me to be "seriously i was just kidding about being mad".


i don't know if i hate

(cont) or both or what, one thing I know is I am confused by him. I have never dated or hooked up with a Sag ever,does anyone have any perspective on this? I understand maybe i was dumb to sleep with a friend in the first place because it probably placed a weird energy there that didn't need to,but I really almost feel like the sag is trying to punish me for something.

any feedback is appreciated!

Well you used him and revenge is swift with a sag so I'd watch my back🙂

i didn't use him!

Well it seems like he's uncomfortable with something and it probably has to do with the fact that you slept together and than your acting like you don't like him and your pushing him away, kicking him outta your house, mad because he was caressing you back. (what a jerk!)

With actions like that he's gonna back off a bit, but he seems to like you. But you rejected him so he's going find someone else. Sag's don't waste time on anyone. They see your not interested (might check a few times to make sure) but than they say fine and they are off to someone else. "Life is too short" for them not too. They have places to go people to see, they are independent and like adventure.

well yes ,except don't you think with his actions(i.e trying to get me to react to him etc) that he hasn't quite moved on?

Maybe. What ways do you think he was trying to get you to react?

Whats your sign btw?

i'm an annoying taurus

lesson learned. people have a soul. this should be touched with silk gloves. and the soul is always inside even if you think you are actually only touching the body. watch out for that bird.

(yet it is sad that it went that way. cause I find Sag and Taurus is a good pairing.)

lol^^^

birds and silk gloves .I think i'm even more confused now 🙂


let me clarify.


when he and i slept together ,i thought it was a mutual thing that it was casual and we were such close and supportive friends that it wouldn't have turned into...well the mess it is now. if i had known it would have I think I would have thought twice about doing it because it really sucks everything that has happened since.It hurts my feelings he won't hang out with me,but like text message me all the time asking questions or accusing me of things.it seems like he is working out some sort of something or other,but why doesn't he directly confront me on what's really ailing him

"but why doesn't he directly confront me on what's really ailing him"

yeah. it seems this idea does not come to his mind. or he rejects it.
whatever you both will get along. nothing goes forever.
who knows? after all maybe you both find your friendship again.

Lol. You did use him, actually. No reason to pretend you're innocent in this. No one's judging you. 🙂


"...don't you think with his actions(i.e trying to get me to react to him etc) that he hasn't quite moved on?"

You do not like him & he recognizes this. He's moved on. Trust me.
I don't believe he is trying to get your reaction at all. I think you have some feelings you're in denial about and you are seeing what you want to see in this situation. He is not paying any attention to you and going about his normal activities - you are just noticing these behaviors more now that you've slept with him.

^^Agree