fallen for her...

xross_S,

I'm a middle-aged Virgo male married to a Scorpio female I met at work. My best guy friend is a SAG, so you have my sympathies!!

Scorps may act casual, but they're always deadly serious. Never forget that!

Be yourself. Scorps can spot a faker in an instant.

fumingli_scorp: "Secondly, DO NOT flirt with other colleagues at work, not in front of her eyes."

Oh, hell no! Don't do anything at all to rouse her suspicions! Play it straight, or don't play at all!

"Her being friendly and nice to most people does not mean she trusts everyone. There are only a small number of people who we really trust and take in into our world."

That could be a quote from my Scorp's Play Book!

Uh............. Roxi... I hate to ask, but I'm a simple literal Virg, what exactly transpired in that basement with the VirGuy?? And please, in the interest of scientific accuracy, spare no details...

''She will not be easy. And you will try to get her. Chances you 'll be mislead by the
chase. Cause she tries to test your seriousness. But you may have no time to check if
you wanted her if it were easy''

Good insight.

X_cross - we like to test and play games with potential partners, Especially if we do not know you that well. You have to PROVE to her that youre serious, DEEP and strong. We do Not value weakness (other wise we will crush you - unintentionally at times).

Just Be Yourself. We will sense superficiality so dont even try and be something you're not.

Hang tough, SagGuy!

They're not easy (at all!), but they damn sure are worth it!

deivil' right. BE CAREFUL. Don't let yourself fall too hard too fast.

"Make her curious, and make your thoughts known."

Damn straight! I unintentionally frustrated the hell outta my Scorp for months by being a hard-to-read Virgo... crazy, but it made her want me more!

(Uh... and What a Scorp Wants is What a Scorp Gets! But, you've probably already figured that out!!)

"how long you been with your lovely scorp?"

Started dating her 2 years next week... married her in OCT 2006...

"oh well, does scorp love teasing?"

From me? Not too much (sarcastic Virgo)... but from others? Yeah, she can take good-natured ribbing... Assuming you're like my Sag Buddy, she probably likes it OK -- just don't get too carried away with it (like I do! Been Stung more times than I can count!)...

"...she got her ways to dig out everything in me!"

Not surprised at all. They will get to the truth, so you might as well fess up...

One Last Thing...

Brooding. They're gonna do it. Mine learned early to let me know when it wasn't about me, so I wouldn't fret about it, and get on her nerves trying to fix the problem. (Virgs just wanna help!) They're a moody bunch, so if you know you didn't cause it, give her a day or two to sort it out on her own. After that, try to cheer her up - but don't be pushy. Once you get used to it, you can tell when to nudge.

P.S.: Listen to fumingli_scorp, Eaglegirl, QS, Roxi, S-I-L, and the many other fine ScorpGals on DXP -- they'll help you. I had TONS of questions and issues way back when, and I can tell you honestly that DXP made the difference between pursuing her or running away...

fumingli_scorp: "I am confident to say if you master the art of staying together, your relation is inclined to promise wild nights, lotsa laughter, great sex, and deep philosophic reasoning as well as loyalty."

Yes, indeed!! And... you just might wind up with Twins, to boot!

(Uh... about the Sweetheart List - we gotta keep that on the QT - don't wanna stir her up!)

fumingli_scorp: "If you feel endangered, I will put this in hide."

Oh no! Please leave it!

(I like to live dangerously -- married a Scorp, didn't I??)

fumingli_scorp: "I like to live dangerously too."

Me tentez-vous?

Honte sur vous!

(But... thanks for posting your photos, again...)

(Mais vous ne m'effrayez pas...)

Merci!!

C'est toujours un plaisir...