I am Disappoint...

This week has been pretty busy like last week and Scorpio has been busy too...even more so than me which is not good because we both want to see each other and he keeps planning stuff, but it doesn't work out because there is also more school work that creeps up. I feel bad because I shouldn't be so upset about this cus I want him to do good, but I want to see him too...

Thankfully I haven't revealed that I'm upset. I'm proud of myself for keeping my emotions in check because I know if it were me looking in on this sagixscorp love fest I'd say "You need to not be so needy and be more supportive of his school work". Blah!

Sorry, just felt like venting that out. Just kinda lonely and drowning in homework right now 😱

wow, your obsessed in every way possible. probably more obsessed with the relationship than he is. what is his moon sign? Do you have any virgo in your chart?

stick to the books, love will wait.

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Strangly we haven't argued at all. I've kept a pretty level head through all this, especially when I listened to how his days have been over the past week. I feel really bad for him. This semester is filled for so many tests, papers, and presentations, but the only thing I can do for him at this point is support him in what he's doing and hold on till he is free.

He promised we'd hang out tonight since he will be free and that made me happy. That and the fact that he's taken time out of his busy days to contact me.

@DMV Yeah I hate it how obsessed I get. The only way I can tone it down is by telling myself he's just a guy and I will only drive him away if I become that way. So far it's worked. I have one little bit of virgo in my chart in the 8th house. Besides that the only other earth I have is capricorn, and a lot of it.

Posted by happykitsune
I feel really bad for him. This semester is filled for so many tests, papers, and presentations, .

lol, isnt that was school is all about? dont feel bad for him, he's there to get an education.

interesting virgo in the 8th. This sign suggests a restrained or constrained sex life. or it could make you very neurotic about sex.

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I feel really bad for him. This semester is filled for so many tests, papers, and presentations, .

lol, isnt that was school is all about? dont feel bad for him, he's there to get an education.

interesting virgo in the 8th. This sign suggests a restrained or constrained sex life. or it could make you very neurotic about sex.

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Yeah, we both go to the same school and are the same level, but he's very involved with other stuff and now has a job so he keeps a lot busy than I do. I'd get a job too, but it's too close to summer and I plan to get a job back home when school lets out.

This is what I got when I looked up my virgo: House VIII in Virgo

Small inheritances. Happy old age, natural death.

I wouldn't say my sex life is restrained. I mean I have been careful not to have sex too soon this time, but I've enjoyed doing other stuff with him. Neurotic about sex? Mental about sex? Like a sex disorder?

traditionally virgo is thought of to be a prudish sign, but not anymore. virgos are known to be critical sign, that analyzes everything to the nitty gritty. 8th house is the house of transformations and also sex (so to speak).

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traditionally virgo is thought of to be a prudish sign, but not anymore. virgos are known to be critical sign, that analyzes everything to the nitty gritty. 8th house is the house of transformations and also sex (so to speak).

Ah, found it.

These people can succeed in occupations requiring close attention to detail and investigative skills, such as chemist or psychologist. This sign suggests a restrained or constrained sex life as well.

I think we have to also keep in mine that my sun is sagi, my moon scorpio and my mars and lillith scorpio which makes my sex life anything, but restrained.

It's right about the psychologist part tho. I am going to school for psychology

just because u have scorpio placements doesnt mean your necesarily into sex. i know a few scorpios who are virgins and celibant. do you let loose during sex or do you hold back.

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just because u have scorpio placements doesnt mean your necesarily into sex. i know a few scorpios who are virgins and celibant. do you let loose during sex or do you hold back.

I meant because moon in scorpio quates to liking pleasure and sensual touch.

I'm not saying every scorpio is a whore. The sun in scorpio are actually pretty modest about that kinda stuff from what I've seen, but you can't really put that to the sign. There are virgins and celibates in any sign.

I generally let loose hence why I'm so loud, which is very out of character for me, but who isn't out of character when they have sex unless they're a whore I suppose lol. If I feel like someone will judge me I probably won't let loose, but then again if I feel like they'll judge me I most likely won't do that with them. I think the only time that's ever happened was with my ex.

Yeah I can obsess really bad too. I have horrid anxiety. It happens.

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Yeah I can obsess really bad too. I have horrid anxiety. It happens.

Yeah I get the anxiety too *Sigh* Thing is I can either try to live with the anxiety or I can deter myself from liking him as much as I do now...which is risky because I don't want it to get to the point where I can't come back from that and I'm stuck not liking him... then again there is a leo I'm talking to as just a friend, but real cool guy. I guess if anything else I could try with the leo if I ended up messing up on this mental change.. hmmm..

lol, you got something aganist whores? interesting word choice. liking alot of sex doesnt make you a whore.

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Yeah I can obsess really bad too. I have horrid anxiety. It happens.

Yeah I get the anxiety too *Sigh* Thing is I can either try to live with the anxiety or I can deter myself from liking him as much as I do now...which is risky because I don't want it to get to the point where I can't come back from that and I'm stuck not liking him... then again there is a leo I'm talking to as just a friend, but real cool guy. I guess if anything else I could try with the leo if I ended up messing up on this mental change.. hmmm..

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a leo? i thought you loved your scorpio?

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Yeah I can obsess really bad too. I have horrid anxiety. It happens.

Yeah I get the anxiety too *Sigh* Thing is I can either try to live with the anxiety or I can deter myself from liking him as much as I do now...which is risky because I don't want it to get to the point where I can't come back from that and I'm stuck not liking him... then again there is a leo I'm talking to as just a friend, but real cool guy. I guess if anything else I could try with the leo if I ended up messing up on this mental change.. hmmm..

a leo? i thought you loved your scorpio?

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Haha kits are you in love all over the place? Haha jk. I get it, maybe that way you would feel it'd take some emotional pressure off if it's not all focused in on one. Or do you really think it won't work out between you and the scorp anymore?

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lol, you got something aganist whores? interesting word choice. liking alot of sex doesnt make you a whore.

Haha I use word whore lightly. I guess it just doesn't mean as much to me as skank or slut do

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Yeah I can obsess really bad too. I have horrid anxiety. It happens.

Yeah I get the anxiety too *Sigh* Thing is I can either try to live with the anxiety or I can deter myself from liking him as much as I do now...which is risky because I don't want it to get to the point where I can't come back from that and I'm stuck not liking him... then again there is a leo I'm talking to as just a friend, but real cool guy. I guess if anything else I could try with the leo if I ended up messing up on this mental change.. hmmm..

a leo? i thought you loved your scorpio?

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Wait a minute! Hold up here... Love? Ok there is no where where I said I straight up love him. I may really care about him, but I've made it a point to not get attached too soon this time around because I don't want to hurt as much. If I see it's going the right direction and continues to go that way and I feel very very secure I will let go and become attached. Until then there has no "love" added into our conversations :3

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Yeah I can obsess really bad too. I have horrid anxiety. It happens.

Yeah I get the anxiety too *Sigh* Thing is I can either try to live with the anxiety or I can deter myself from liking him as much as I do now...which is risky because I don't want it to get to the point where I can't come back from that and I'm stuck not liking him... then again there is a leo I'm talking to as just a friend, but real cool guy. I guess if anything else I could try with the leo if I ended up messing up on this mental change.. hmmm..

a leo? i thought you loved your scorpio?

Haha kits are you in love all over the place? Haha jk. I get it, maybe that way you would feel it'd take some emotional pressure off if it's not all focused in on one. Or do you really think it won't work out between you and the scorp anymore?

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I'm not in love lol. See people are spreadin' rumors now 😛 I do really like my scorpio, but right now he is very busy which is why I was saying I'd try not to like him so much, or at all. The leo guy is kinda just a passing thought. He's a great guy, but I don't want the reason I leave my scorpio (if I even did) to be due to him or any other guy. I really like my scorpio, but if I did leave for any reason it would be on my own terms and not because I thought some guy would be waiting for me

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Yeah I can obsess really bad too. I have horrid anxiety. It happens.

Yeah I get the anxiety too *Sigh* Thing is I can either try to live with the anxiety or I can deter myself from liking him as much as I do now...which is risky because I don't want it to get to the point where I can't come back from that and I'm stuck not liking him... then again there is a leo I'm talking to as just a friend, but real cool guy. I guess if anything else I could try with the leo if I ended up messing up on this mental change.. hmmm..

a leo? i thought you loved your scorpio?

Haha kits are you in love all over the place? Haha jk. I get it, maybe that way you would feel it'd take some emotional pressure off if it's not all focused in on one. Or do you really think it won't work out between you and the scorp anymore?

I'm not in love lol. See people are spreadin' rumors now 😛 I do really like my scorpio, but right now he is very busy which is why I was saying I'd try not to like him so much, or at all. The leo guy is kinda just a passing thought. He's a great guy, but I don't want the reason I leave my scorpio (if I even did) to be due to him or any other guy. I really like my scorpio, but if I did leave for any reason it would be on my own terms and not because I thought some guy would be waiting for me

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Oh okay I see, you just not trying to get ahead of yourself due to the past. Makes sense

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If it doesn't work out, it's about getting the 'upper hand' so to speak first 🙂
SO long as it isn't a self fulfilling prophecy jeez not with a catboy though !

Haha, I actually get along the best with leos. I have leo in my 7th house which is apparently the sign soul mate. Who knew o.o I'm very mellow about all this though. I think I've come to a point in my life where I don't just fall so quickly and am okay with if this relationship goes well, or if someone else is the right one for me, or if I just end up being single again... And I'm actually really trying to make this relationship a good one, it's not like I saw this leo and thought, "Oh well the scorp isn't talking to me and this leo is so I should just stop trying in the relationship" No.. I care about my scorpio too much. But at the same time if our paths end up going seperate ways then I pray to God that I'm still as strong as I am now to let go and carry on in a stable manner.

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Oh okay I see, you just not trying to get ahead of yourself due to the past. Makes sense

You are correct there

oh ok, i mis read. he told you that he loved you and you told him that he didnt, but you say it in your head. and that love was a serious word for you and that you guys should only say it if you mean it. i remember telling you that you should let him feel what he feels and to calm down the need to control the pace of the relationship. so love was added to your conversation.

but you guys are offical right? he asked you to be his girlfriend and i believe that you accepted.

it just sucks for you to be even thinking about another guy if your in a relationship with your scorpio. alot of women come on the board and complain that their scorpio is entertaining other women. you dont have that problem, yet because your scorpio is busy with school work, youve decided to entertain the thought of a leo. if the tables were turned, you would be up in arms.

i know you havent done anything with the leo and your just entertaining him as a friend. but if your scorp was hedging his bets youd be pissed.

even if it were a mere thought, you would be upset.

just my two cents.

Posted by everevolvingepithet
If it doesn't work out, it's about getting the 'upper hand' so to speak first 🙂
SO long as it isn't a self fulfilling prophecy jeez not with a catboy though !

hmmmm

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oh ok, i mis read. he told you that he loved you and you told him that he didnt, but you say it in your head. and that love was a serious word for you and that you guys should only say it if you mean it. i remember telling you that you should let him feel what he feels and to calm down the need to control the pace of the relationship. so love was added to your conversation.

If you put it that way I guess love is in our conversations. I just mean it hasn't been said without being a slip. Like last night he when we were drunk he did it again...I didn't say anything that time, but then he corrected himself and said he loved that I was a certain way lol, but yeah the slip up could be genuine now, who knows

but you guys are offical right? he asked you to be his girlfriend and i believe that you accepted.

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I did accept, but then we had a little disagreement about whether it should be put on facebook which turned into an argument about other things. Long story short we came to a compromise...That was our first argument and I think we handled it pretty well. But in the process I told him I didn't think we were ready to get that serious yet and he agreed. So we went back to dating. We've been exclusive this whole time tho.

it just sucks for you to be even thinking about another guy if your in a relationship with your scorpio. alot of women come on the board and complain that their scorpio is entertaining other women. you dont have that problem, yet because your scorpio is busy with school work, youve decided to entertain the thought of a leo. if the tables were turned, you would be up in arms.

Not necessarily. The guy I'm talking about is a good friend who I've known before my scorpio and there has never been any flirting there. Idk how else to really explain it except it's just a passing thought. The first person I always think about is always my scorpio. I saw the leo last night while I was downtown and hung out with him before I went and met up with my scorpio and told my scorpio right after. He seemed fine with it cus he knows the leo and knows I don't lie to him about not flirting cus I just don't flirt with other guys while I'm with him...or really ever now. Idk, the leo was just a passing thought really...nothing I mull over seriously.

i know you havent done anything with the leo and your just entertaining him as a friend. but if your scorp was hedging his bets youd be pissed.

even if it were a mere thought, you would be upset.

just my two cents.

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You're right I would, and there has been something like that that happened where he said he was still thinking a little bit about this girl who never gave him a chance. That was one of the things that also deterred me from being serious because I wanted to be the only girl he thought of. So thats one of the reasons why this relationship has gotten less serious. I've talked to some of his close friends about the situation and they say he's not the type to cheat and that the whole thing with the girl was a bad deal. And he seems pretty adament that he doesn't like her anymore and wants to be with only me...but you know after what all I've heard on the boards about scorps still liking their exes (shes not his ex btw) it just made me wonder. He was willing to show me off in front of her tho and told her we were together so that's good. I'm over the whole incident tho and I trust him since he is willing to work with me through this whole mess (facebook, him being busy) I feel bad that hes so busy, but I like that he took time out of his busy-ness to spend a night with me and show me off to his friends. Who called me his gf lol. So yeah that's all that's been go

you guys got into a fight over changing status on facebook. lol too funny.

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you guys got into a fight over changing status on facebook. lol too funny.

Well it was a little more than that. Yes it's silly when you think about it that way, but when I talked to other people and I thought about it everyone agreed that it was very weird because the only reason someone would not change it is if they wanted to fool around with other girls. He doesn't seem like the type, so that's when I asked his closest friends because it went from me not really caring, to people worrying so then I was worrying, to people saying he's seeing other girls, and then I'm really worried, then I chill out and decide it's best to consult the people he knows best and they helped ease my worrying so we both came to a compromise at the end and I'm happy and he's happy. All is well. Yes the idea is silly, but when you get people saying there is some underlying meaning it becomes more serious then just relationship statuses

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you guys got into a fight over changing status on facebook. lol too funny.

Well it was a little more than that. Yes it's silly when you think about it that way, but when I talked to other people and I thought about it everyone agreed that it was very weird because the only reason someone would not change it is if they wanted to fool around with other girls. He doesn't seem like the type, so that's when I asked his closest friends because it went from me not really caring, to people worrying so then I was worrying, to people saying he's seeing other girls, and then I'm really worried, then I chill out and decide it's best to consult the people he knows best and they helped ease my worrying so we both came to a compromise at the end and I'm happy and he's happy. All is well. Yes the idea is silly, but when you get people saying there is some underlying meaning it becomes more serious then just relationship statuses

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I get what you mean, when I was a relationship I never changed my status. I sort of thought it was embarrassing and I didn't want people all up in my biz asking me about because I knew they would.

The people who mattered knew I had a boyfriend so whatever. It really bothered my scorpio though. Like he would nag about it to me everyday I was like come on! I get why tho.

Cause if it ain't on facebook it ain't real! Right? Thats the time we live in tho so I get where your getting the pressure from people around you from.


Ah I never caved tho. I did put " in a relationship " just not the who with part. He was still mad but eventually gave up the ghost.


Ah life is funny......

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I get what you mean, when I was a relationship I never changed my status. I sort of thought it was embarrassing and I didn't want people all up in my biz asking me about because I knew they would.

The people who mattered knew I had a boyfriend so whatever. It really bothered my scorpio though. Like he would nag about it to me everyday I was like come on! I get why tho.

Cause if it ain't on facebook it ain't real! Right? Thats the time we live in tho so I get where your getting the pressure from people around you from.


Ah I never caved tho. I did put " in a relationship " just not the who with part. He was still mad but eventually gave up the ghost.


Ah life is funny......

Yes society is this way now and my scorpio philosophical and doesn't like getting into the whole mess and having people ask him about it and whatnot. We finally came to an agreement that whenever he was ready we'd get back in a relationship again and that I'd wait for him to be ready to change the status.

Sorry guys, but this is the world we live in. As much as you think it's silly and stupid facebook is a part of who we are, unless you just choose not to have one. But those of us who do all post up statuses, we upload pictures, letting people know whats going on in our lives. Jobs look at our facebooks, even colleges do now. Guys, at least the ones around here, will look at girls fb's and visa versa to see if you are single and free to mingle. I still get msgs from guys wanting to hang with me or date me because I don't have my status as in a relationship and while I don't have any problem turning them down it would be nice to just have everyone know.. oh well, I will wait 🙂

my aries college friend dated a scorpio and he married here in a year. no breakups to make ups. nada. peas in a pod since they started hanging out. everyone knew that they were together. there was no debate. they posted pics of their marriage, more so the scorp. he makes it known to the world that they are lifetime partners. again, no debate. he was 200% sure about her. i strongly believe they will stay married for ever. they will die old together.

when scorpios know what they want, they go for it. no if, ands, buts.

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my aries college friend dated a scorpio and he married here in a year. no breakups to make ups. nada. peas in a pod since they started hanging out. everyone knew that they were together. there was no debate. they posted pics of their marriage, more so the scorp. he makes it known to the world that they are lifetime partners. again, no debate. he was 200% sure about her. i strongly believe they will stay married for ever. they will die old together.

when scorpios know what they want, they go for it. no if, ands, buts.

Yup very true. He told me that if we ever do get married that he will let everyone know that we are engaged and then that we are married. For now this relationship is kept among our close friends and I'm actually enjoying the benefits of it because I only have to hear about it from them about what hes up to and how the relationships going. I've had my doubts, but I think if we can work through problems like we have been we'll be ready if other problems arise in our lives. Nothing wrong with disagreements if you can be understanding and learn to compromise 🙂