If Someone Says...

Who knows what will happen down the road.....


Are they expecting things to change?

Seems like when people say something like this they aren't sure about things, but they feel like there could always be a possibility. But if they aren't sure or haven't made up their mind now why would it matter? Is it okay to just be hanging onto those words in hopes that something will change in the future?

I personally would rather they just be black and white about it. No maybe's in the future. It's either yes or no.

I had a talk with this sag guy I am friends with who liked me. I told him "who knows what will happen in the future." But then I thought about it and realized that no, there could no be a maybe. I don't think it's fair to the other person to just leave it hanging there. Just stick to one side of the road.

Posted by happykitsune
Seems like when people say something like this they aren't sure about things, but they feel like there could always be a possibility. But if they aren't sure or haven't made up their mind now why would it matter? Is it okay to just be hanging onto those words in hopes that something will change in the future?

I personally would rather they just be black and white about it. No maybe's in the future. It's either yes or no.

I had a talk with this sag guy I am friends with who liked me. I told him "who knows what will happen in the future." But then I thought about it and realized that no, there could no be a maybe. I don't think it's fair to the other person to just leave it hanging there. Just stick to one side of the road.

+1 I'm black and white too. I would prefer if people would just want what I want and that be it LOL.

Sounds more like 'go with the flow', whatever will be will be.

Posted by TwirlingStrawberry

Posted by Sag89
Who knows what will happen down the road.....


Are they expecting things to change?

not necessarily.

they might just not have any pre-existing expecatations and want things to unfold naturally.

could get better
could get worse

could stay together
could fall apart

just letting time take it's natural course.

in relationshps, I actually prefer this over trying to pre-plan to the ninth degree.

....but I am stocked full of libra....so..........😛

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^ This is how I sort of see it too. I said how I felt and I hope it was understood and not took into another context.

Posted by Sag89
Who knows what will happen down the road.....


Are they expecting things to change?

whenever i use this, its a put off. im trying not to be the bad guy.

where's this person's venus?

yup, thats true

Posted by TwirlingStrawberry

Posted by Sag89
Who knows what will happen down the road.....


Are they expecting things to change?

not necessarily.

they might just not have any pre-existing expecatations and want things to unfold naturally.

could get better
could get worse

could stay together
could fall apart

just letting time take it's natural course.

in relationshps, I actually prefer this over trying to pre-plan to the ninth degree.

....but I am stocked full of libra....so..........😛

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It's actually the fire moon. This approach is needed for us because we get way too excited way too soon. Just let the cards fall where they may..no certainty in life.

I have zero Libra but that's how I approach it also.

Posted by DMV
where's this person's venus?

Leo

Posted by TwirlingStrawberry
When expressing how you feel, there is always a risk of it being taken out of context. You don't always know how the other person will percieve or interpret it.

All you can do is be clear and hope for the best 🙂

If it does get misconstrued into something it wasn't supposed to be......then it's obvious communication may be just different between the two people involved and perhaps the compatibility just isn't there.

Right. Sometimes I feel like I talk so forward that it's almost like the person doesn't believe me. Do you know what I mean? That a merc in cap thing?

Posted by TwirlingStrawberry
I don't know if it's merc in cap. I find merc in cap to be very literal and straight to the point.

....could be the airy venus. I get that too.

.....or even the fire moon, like damnata said.

Yeah right.