Is it true that Saggies need to be left alone? To do thier own thing without being bothered? Are they known to be aloof? And are they secretive?
Is This True About Sags?
Very. My sag is very aloof a lot of the time with his friends/peers. But strangely, he always wants to be with me. My brother who is also a sag is secretive most of the time. He's socially active and all but when it comes down to his real feelings he always covers it up and never tells the truth unless I suggest it and that's when his honesty kicks in.
And my bestfriend(sag) hates being around a lot of people and rather be alone or with her close friends. She's aloof and secretive.

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Ohhhh James.
Thanks Luz.
I thought of something luz...as for the secrecy...maybe there are some things we really don't want to know about them! Ya know--like personal things? It's a thought.
I'm in love with a Sag man--I'm enraptured--so what should I expect??
Please give me some insight Saggies!! And Saggies only. Thanks.
Please give me some insight Saggies!! And Saggies only. Thanks.
No one has responded...can anyone give me some tips on what to expect. James...please don't reply cuz' I know it'll only be detrimental.
No one has responded...can anyone give me some tips on what to expect? James...please don't reply cuz' I know it'll only be detrimental.
hi sloane, i never dated a sag, but i have a few sag guy friends. all i can say is, expect to be a number. all of them are very fickle, and go through gals quickly. something i noticed along the way. maybe that's why i never dated them. nice, fun guys though. just not keepers in my book.
Thanks Pato for your response. Hmmm, sounds more like Leo males but if this is what you found then I'll definately take it into consideration. And that sucks too!! What I have read about Sags though, especially the men, is that they need thier space and a lot of it. They need to be left alone and don't like being interrupted. But they are helpful and considerate too.
sags, leo, aries, all are fire. all have the fire down below.
In the private areas that is? Or just a figure of speech?
every fire sign i've ever met has been very sexually oriented. blatently so. you just have to know what's in your heart and what you can put up with from another person. and how deep your love runs. i think we all have things we have to deal with from someone else, it's whether we're willing to deal with them. best of luck with your sag.
Hello Dear Sloan~
I am not a Sag. and I hope that you don't mind if I share some info. on the Male of this species...😉
I have a very, very good male Sag. friend. He does have a girlfriend of 5 yrs. (Cancer). He talks to me about everything. Infact, I do more things with him than his girlfriend does (sex excluded). He is like the big brother I never had. There are NO secrets between us...I will have to say that the answer to your above questions are: YES, YES and YES.
My pal (and this is the only one I can really go by so take it with a grain of salt or pepper if you so choose 😉)
Does enjoy living by himself, says that when his girlfriend brings up marriage he gets nervous. He likes a very clean house, (she is very messy frustrates him to no end) loves her children ~well, one of them anyway. Loves to just get up and go and do whenever he wants and this has caused some issues in his relationship. He says that she has expressed many times that she does not feel very secure with him....he must always be doing something. He and I just finished a project together and we work very well as a team. Since he is a Sag. he does indeed put his foot in his mouth and many times. Doesn't bother me much since I know this about a Sag person. One must just forgive and move on knowing they don't really mean it. I have a great relationship with him but then again, we are not intimate. Not sure if that matters but to some extent I think it does.
I hope that in sharing some of this info. has helped. Remember, it is not going to be true of all Sags as there are so many variables present. I wish the best for you and your Sag. pal.
Pato~ yep, you are so correct about those "fire" sign peoples...there is an internal flame waiting to be fanned and once that flame begins to emerge flowing through the veins of life...it will become brighter and hotter...oh my.
Just enjoy the ride....🙂
Freebird flying high...
I am not a Sag. and I hope that you don't mind if I share some info. on the Male of this species...😉
I have a very, very good male Sag. friend. He does have a girlfriend of 5 yrs. (Cancer). He talks to me about everything. Infact, I do more things with him than his girlfriend does (sex excluded). He is like the big brother I never had. There are NO secrets between us...I will have to say that the answer to your above questions are: YES, YES and YES.
My pal (and this is the only one I can really go by so take it with a grain of salt or pepper if you so choose 😉)
Does enjoy living by himself, says that when his girlfriend brings up marriage he gets nervous. He likes a very clean house, (she is very messy frustrates him to no end) loves her children ~well, one of them anyway. Loves to just get up and go and do whenever he wants and this has caused some issues in his relationship. He says that she has expressed many times that she does not feel very secure with him....he must always be doing something. He and I just finished a project together and we work very well as a team. Since he is a Sag. he does indeed put his foot in his mouth and many times. Doesn't bother me much since I know this about a Sag person. One must just forgive and move on knowing they don't really mean it. I have a great relationship with him but then again, we are not intimate. Not sure if that matters but to some extent I think it does.
I hope that in sharing some of this info. has helped. Remember, it is not going to be true of all Sags as there are so many variables present. I wish the best for you and your Sag. pal.
Pato~ yep, you are so correct about those "fire" sign peoples...there is an internal flame waiting to be fanned and once that flame begins to emerge flowing through the veins of life...it will become brighter and hotter...oh my.
Just enjoy the ride....🙂
Freebird flying high...
Um..let me ask you a question Freebird, if you didnt know about Astrology and you didnt once acknowledge about the descriptions of Sags. He was just another guy to you, would you still be able to handle his 'blunt honesty'? The part about 'putting his foot in his mouth'? I mean really..it baffles me.
So lets say he was a pisces..could you still handle it?
So lets say he was a pisces..could you still handle it?
What a great question Luz! To answer your question my response would be a, YES. The reason I say this is because I am comfortable with 'blunt honesty' as I am this way myself. I understand others when they are honest with me...what baffles me are the games that people play especially when they talk in circles..I then have to try to figure out what the heck does that mean? I beleive one should say it as it is and then if one does not understand, ask for clarification. Communication is so important between any two people, always. This can make or break a relationship. Getting me started..oh boy.
As I said before Luz, I really do not take too much personally and this also makes it so much easier when communicating. It just takes understanding.
A pisces? not sure I understand your question..I don't think the sign of a person would make a difference for me. I also have a friend (male) who is a Pisces and he says whatever he feels like saying...what is there not to handle?
I hope what I said made some sense and that I wasn't talking in circles. I am glad that you asked me that as it gets my wheels turning...you are a great question asker 🙂
How are you doing by the way? Oh, I also wanted to mention that I saw your beautiful picture awhile ago...thanks for sharing you with us...I bet you have guys all over you! 🙂
Freebird
As I said before Luz, I really do not take too much personally and this also makes it so much easier when communicating. It just takes understanding.
A pisces? not sure I understand your question..I don't think the sign of a person would make a difference for me. I also have a friend (male) who is a Pisces and he says whatever he feels like saying...what is there not to handle?
I hope what I said made some sense and that I wasn't talking in circles. I am glad that you asked me that as it gets my wheels turning...you are a great question asker 🙂
How are you doing by the way? Oh, I also wanted to mention that I saw your beautiful picture awhile ago...thanks for sharing you with us...I bet you have guys all over you! 🙂
Freebird
Thanks Freebird for your compliment! I was just wondering, I suppose and if it got your 'wheels turning' then that's great! I haven't noticed much Sagittarians being blunt and tactless and if they do then I dont notice it because perhaps I'm the same way also. Maybe this comes in the same field as you? Since the astrology do say Aries and Sagittarius are alike. So whatever floats your boat.
I'm doing okay, I'm currently slacking off and just reading books. Ofcourse I cant do this for long because I have to live by the traditional structure of society which I just ADORE!!! *insert happy face* Nah, It's hard when nobody really understands that you think this world is limited and pretty much concludes to sucky. The reason? Well I dont know, I guess you can say I'm negative but I'm just honest to myself. I 'soar' in a different way. My guyfriend(gemini) and another(Leo) was discussing this yesterday. My Leo friend is just thinking of going to a third world country and helping. He claims this by saying he will be THE ALMIGHTY JESUS rofl. Yeah I know I'm putting everything very vague but anyway!! How are you? Haven't been here much so I should catch up on things
I'm doing okay, I'm currently slacking off and just reading books. Ofcourse I cant do this for long because I have to live by the traditional structure of society which I just ADORE!!! *insert happy face* Nah, It's hard when nobody really understands that you think this world is limited and pretty much concludes to sucky. The reason? Well I dont know, I guess you can say I'm negative but I'm just honest to myself. I 'soar' in a different way. My guyfriend(gemini) and another(Leo) was discussing this yesterday. My Leo friend is just thinking of going to a third world country and helping. He claims this by saying he will be THE ALMIGHTY JESUS rofl. Yeah I know I'm putting everything very vague but anyway!! How are you? Haven't been here much so I should catch up on things
Are there any Sag's that have had an experience with a Virgo Male. I find them to be so cold, withdrawn, and don't break up with them, they'll never forgive you. I will never date another Virgo in life. I'd rather date a Scorpio first. Also, the complain over and over again about how you wronged them. My virgo constantly complains about how his mother treated him as a young teenager, and I'm like you can't change the past, I've given up.
hi I'm new. i'm an aquarian with lots of sag in my chart. I go crazy with people who are secretive and are untrusting. I've learned that everyone is different though, if I didn't I would love some of my jobs hee hee.
like a sag I get turned on by people who express their opoinion and are free spirited and don't smother you.
As for the commment on Virgos with aquarians yikes they will drive you to drink. They are perfectionists . don't even bother competing with them , they are always a little better in everything, they can't help it. Scorpios yikes, they may know the bedroom but as you get to know them you will be their confined pet. your mind also will be shot . Don't waist you time. Sag and aquarians are a great match .
like a sag I get turned on by people who express their opoinion and are free spirited and don't smother you.
As for the commment on Virgos with aquarians yikes they will drive you to drink. They are perfectionists . don't even bother competing with them , they are always a little better in everything, they can't help it. Scorpios yikes, they may know the bedroom but as you get to know them you will be their confined pet. your mind also will be shot . Don't waist you time. Sag and aquarians are a great match .
opps spellling !! More on sags.Its true they can be distance in social situations when they are high up on their philisophical plain. spiritualizing their true calling or angry about a contentious issue in society . They like their life to represent what they believe yet also they want to be accepted which come with experience when they contiually put their foot in their mouth.Sags make artists actors a career where they can fully express their ideas and have no limitations free to create their own destiny.
Hi Janbabyaquarius!
Boy, you and I would definately get along just fine!! I'm a Libra with Aquarius rising but I also have Saggitarius in my Moon. I LOVE Saggies...I understand them and I think I understand them becasue I'm a bit of a Saggie myself. One of my very best, closest freinds is a Saggie and recently a good Saggie male freind of mine got me a great job. Saggies are awesome. Period. (But so are Librans tee hee!) I hope to marry a sexy Saggie. I don't care if he's aloof and distant in social areas. I'd rather put up with that than some nonsense of paranoia, suspicion and jealousy you get from a Scorp or some aggravating criticism and f'-ing analysing from a Virgo! You are so right about them. I survived a very critical Virgo mother.
Anyway...good to hear from you and comforting that we are 'like minded'.
Cheers...Sloane
Boy, you and I would definately get along just fine!! I'm a Libra with Aquarius rising but I also have Saggitarius in my Moon. I LOVE Saggies...I understand them and I think I understand them becasue I'm a bit of a Saggie myself. One of my very best, closest freinds is a Saggie and recently a good Saggie male freind of mine got me a great job. Saggies are awesome. Period. (But so are Librans tee hee!) I hope to marry a sexy Saggie. I don't care if he's aloof and distant in social areas. I'd rather put up with that than some nonsense of paranoia, suspicion and jealousy you get from a Scorp or some aggravating criticism and f'-ing analysing from a Virgo! You are so right about them. I survived a very critical Virgo mother.
Anyway...good to hear from you and comforting that we are 'like minded'.
Cheers...Sloane
Niecy..
Yeahhh, stay away from those Virgo males. To me they are total milktoast..they lack spine (or guts--whatever you prefer) and yes they will nag and whine and remind you what you did wrong to them...well boo hoo...go get your Mommy is what I have to say. That's the 'spineless' charachter in them. Right now I have a close freind who is a CLASSIC Virgo--in fact, she has Virgo in her Moon sign so she's a double Virgo and thinks she is just perfect and everyone in her life is flawed. Right now I'm pissed at her and I will not speak with her for a while.
Constant cookiemonstering and criticising will lose you freinds. Tell your Virgo male freind that.
Yeahhh, stay away from those Virgo males. To me they are total milktoast..they lack spine (or guts--whatever you prefer) and yes they will nag and whine and remind you what you did wrong to them...well boo hoo...go get your Mommy is what I have to say. That's the 'spineless' charachter in them. Right now I have a close freind who is a CLASSIC Virgo--in fact, she has Virgo in her Moon sign so she's a double Virgo and thinks she is just perfect and everyone in her life is flawed. Right now I'm pissed at her and I will not speak with her for a while.
Constant cookiemonstering and criticising will lose you freinds. Tell your Virgo male freind that.
I'm a sagittarius female, and from time to time I like being by myself. I don't like a lot of people hanging out in my house, but I do like being out and in other's presence, because Sag's are fun people to hang out with if they have a sense of humor and that's me.

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