James Tate..where is our sag horriblescope?

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Dearest JT~

I am so sorry to hear of your breakup with Den I presume? I am sending you warm hugs surrounding you with love and care. It is always hard to move through the loss or change of a relationship..it can seem like your whole world has been rocked up, down, sideways, inside and out with no where to go. We ALL are here for you JT whenever you need us. I understand that you don't have a computer at the moment...just know that loving thoughts are coming your way.

Love and peace,
Freebird
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james tate
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Dear Freebird

She is pregant, she told me she isn't sure who the father is either me or the vicar at her mothers church. So we get D.N.A. test after the birth. If its mine I will support it and see it. but I will never have anything to do with her again.I am in Brusssels now and will stay here for awhile.Just do not want to be around canterbury. I am going home to Llandrindod Wells Wales for xmas. see me friends later
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James T,
Just read your posting about D. and the baby. I had no idea that was the reason why you and D. broke up. My previous postings asking you why now seem a bit stupid and too light-hearted...it's a serious situation, especially when there's a baby involved.
As for D. all I can say for her is that she was honest. She could have said nothing and you'd be there thinking you were the father. She must have been terrified at having to tell you the awful truth about the pregnancy and about her being intimate with the vicar.
Who knows, you may well be the father and if you are, it will be a new stage and experience in your life - being a parent is a life-altering moment - your life will never be the same again.
However, for now, you have to look after yourself and your broken heart....
Love Alana x
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I'm so sorry that this had to happen to you james.. you are a still a wonderful person and always will be hun.. my heart goes out to you along with the others here who especially love and support you, and know that d's warm bundle of goodness is a wonderful and special one.. regardless of his/her surname. Your love for Den is powerful and means something special. It always has, and it always will.. if you haven't done this already james, please see within yourself, if you have warm room in your heart to forgive.. Love is such a precious thing that just hurts when someone is walking away.. please stay.. she still needs your support.. if you find that you are both parents later.. you will love yourself for this truly selfless act..
Hold it down luv..
Jaya
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Yeah, so I didn't ever think to check the Sag boards and therefore also had no idea why you and Den parted ways...James, if I'd read this sooner I'd have been more comforting. If it helps at all, please remember that in any event, you will eventually be okay. You were a whole and complete person before she was in your life, and you will be a whole and complete person (and who you were meant to be) even if the two of you must go your seperate ways. I'm sorry that this has happened.