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So i started kinda sorta dating a leo...and i gotta say, hes is so far so good.

one think ive noticed about the men i date, they are always possessive and jealous or controlling people...this leo is already showing signs of being controlling. i think its cute but then again...i havent 100% finished things with that scorp and now i have this leo who seems to be a good time. plus, the leo is very good in bed.
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i have tried 3 aquas out and 2 were SO ALOOF that i had to check them for a blood pressure. soo boring and not aggressive enough for me. the sex was sub par.

1 aqua was also very controlling and possesive. and he just came off as outright scary. not detached at all! he was very into telling me what to do and how to do it. he was pissed off and cursed me out because i wouldnt and couldnt call him everyday. the sex with him was actually pretty damn good BUT, he was too controlling. wasnt worth it

In my birth chart, my Venus squares my Pluto...so i attract jealous, possessive, intense love affairs. its like there is a magnetic pull. in a room full of people, i get the crazy controlling types.

i def agree with you, any other person besides this scorp would be better for me...no more mind games that have no point
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Posted by happykitsune
So you jumped from the scorp to a leo now. That's weird cus I was considering doing the same. While I'm not done with my scorpio I have been considering being with this leo who has taken an interest in me lately.
Controlling is not so bad as long as he's not being rough about it like a d bag



i swear we are going through the same transits and at the same time.

Yes, i met the leo a few days ago and he is a breathe of fresh air from this scorp. i love my scorp, but i love myself more.

things tend to always get a bit physcial with my love affairs. things got physical with my ex leo, my scorp has gotten pretty physcial, and that one crazy aqua was physcial 2.

I am never the Pluto person in the relationship...im always the venus who is obssessed with the pluto person.

to find out if you have this synastry with your partner, click "compatability" with your partner and plug in his info. then it will shoot out the aspects.
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Sun Sagittarius 4.28 Ascendant Aquarius 15.37
Moon Scorpio 16.15 II Pisces 28.27
Mercury Sagittarius 13.25 III Taurus 3.51
Venus Capricorn 20.07 IV Gemini 0.59
Mars Scorpio 15.14 V Gemini 24.04
Jupiter Cancer 9.31 R VI Cancer 17.17
Saturn Capricorn 11.39 VII Leo 15.37
Uranus Capricorn 3.42 VIII Virgo 28.27
Neptune Capricorn 10.46 IX Scorpio 3.51
Pluto Scorpio 15.54 Midheaven Sagittarius 0.59
Lilith Scorpio 2.31 XI Sagittarius 24.04
Asc node Aquarius 19.33 XII Capricorn 17.17

Sooo what does this mean? o.O
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Posted by DMV

things tend to always get a bit physcial with my love affairs. things got physical with my ex leo, my scorp has gotten pretty physcial, and that one crazy aqua was physcial 2.

I am never the Pluto person in the relationship...im always the venus who is obssessed with the pluto person.

to find out if you have this synastry with your partner, click "compatability" with your partner and plug in his info. then it will shoot out the aspects.
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Physical as in sexual?
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1st leo - verbally and physically abusive. he tried to choke me the day i moved out and left him. the was followed by a restraining order, court dates, jail sentences, etc..he also used to spit on me and curse me out in front of his parents.

1st scorp - verbally and physically abusive. he would grab my arm and squeeve it tightly when i wasnt paying him any attention. and he used to forcefully grab my chin. like a mother would do a child, to get that childs attention.

crazy aqua - verbally and physcially abusive. he would curse me out and call me a bitch ALOT. when i wasnt paying him enough attention or when i wouldnt answer my phone. he would bite me and squeeze me really hard to get my attention.

**its not like i ignore these people. they just crave more attention that what i could offer.

i tend to think i bring out the worst in people
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Bitch is a name I never let a guy call me. Even my ex leo who called a lot of girls bitches told me I was the only one he didn't call bitch because I hated it. That is not a name I tolerate.

I also don't tolerate physically abusive bf's. I've never had one but I knew a guy who wanted to date me and got physical sometimes when I wouldn't pay attention to him. Any form of hitting puts me into fight mode and I will punch whoever hit me if they hit me hard enough. Pisses me off just thinking about it.
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@Mz Sag,

these relationships develop so quickly that i dont even see it coming half the time. its always peaches and cream day one. i would never get into a relationship with someone who chokes me on the 2nd date. i just have a habit of falling for these types of men. normal relationships do not cut it.

mutuable signs...

Pisces (cant stand em, too manipulative and slow moving...sex is great, but not worth it)
Geminis, i would love to try a Gemini out....but i think i would be too conservative for them, but i would appreciate the kinkiness.
Virgos, never met a virgo guy who did it for me.
Sag man, LOVE THEM....but never met one who i wanted a relationship with
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the first time my ex leo called me a bitch, i checked him. and he apologized and stopped. but eventually it started up again.

the relationship with him was definitly a learning experience. him being my first and only boyfriend was an eye opener.

i always told other women that i would never be in a relationship like that, because im not that dumb. then it happened to me and i ate my words.

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Posted by bassace
astrology aside, you shouldnt date anyone whos abusive. do both of you a favor and just end things when it gets to that point.

anyway, i always get along with leos better than scorpios. but leos and sags sometimes bump heads when our egos start to flare. leos are known for being ego-maniacs but i think sags can be just as bad, theyre just more subtle about it. i bet youll end up picking leo over scorp, but you gotta work through the ego battles



i bet i will pick the leo over the scorp 2.

i do have a big ego and i can tell he wants to lock me down in a relationship quickly. but i learned from my ex leo that i have to take my time with these men. they go nuts after a while and then the rules come into play.
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Venus square Pluto in my birth chart

You might attract intense relationships that have love-hate themes as a result. You are passionate when you love, definitely, but also passionate when you hate. You easily put pressure on your partner, as you expect much loyalty and honesty in your intimate relationships.

Venus square Pluto in synasty (between 2 charts)
Intense, and sometimes uncomfortable, attraction between these two can go either way fast. The expression "a fine line between love and hate" applies here. This connection is almost primal in nature. Sexual attraction is intense. These two will definitely need to deal with issues of possessiveness, jealousy, and volatile emotions. They arouse in one another some of their deepest insecurities, as there can be an intense fear of losing one another. This interchart aspect can sometimes be indicative of unrequited love or of a relationship that eventually breeds anger and even hatred. Power struggles and manipulation are quite possible. This is not a relationship to take lightly. If the relationship were to break up, it would be unlikely that the two would be able to remain "just friends", as the passion is hard to forget. Staying together may be a challenge as well! The Pluto person often seems to have the upper hand in this relationship, which can be unnerving and frustrating for the Venus person. Jealousies and manipulative behavior should be watched for and avoided as much as possible.

My venus in in Capricorn in the 7th house
My pluto is in Libra in the 5th house
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@DMV yes it's your scorpian traits we are always asking ourselves espically when we first meet someone why they do what they do we just want to know everything we want to be in your brain. We get suspicious if you call too much, if you call only at a certain time.

I didn't mention this but I met another sagg guy but he has a scorp venus so we meet he must have call me everyday for two weeks his convo was good, but I was still involve with the other sagg but it's crazy I wish my sagg could be more like him he always wanted to come over to watch movies, he took me to work when my car was in the shop, he was very cool but I broke it off because I don't like to lead others on until I am finish with the other cause my mind gets to boggle. I brought this up cause I was so suspicous about him and his action espically since he was a sagg, he always wanted to kiss and I couldn't really kiss him like I like to kiss cause I felt bad cause I know the sagg I am dealing with right now he might be an azz sometimes but he is not a cheater for some reason I can just feel that.
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Posted by DMV
feeling a bit uneasy about this Leo....i feel like jumping ship already...



Yeah people like leos and taurus and cancers and anyone whos needy/need attention like that always make me want to jump ship in the first weeks. I think once you get over the first few weeks tho you should be fine with him. At least thts what I've had to do in the past. Did you feel this way with your previous leo?
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Posted by scorpdiva
@DMV yes it's your scorpian traits we are always asking ourselves espically when we first meet someone why they do what they do we just want to know everything we want to be in your brain. We get suspicious if you call too much, if you call only at a certain time.

I didn't mention this but I met another sagg guy but he has a scorp venus so we meet he must have call me everyday for two weeks his convo was good, but I was still involve with the other sagg but it's crazy I wish my sagg could be more like him he always wanted to come over to watch movies, he took me to work when my car was in the shop, he was very cool but I broke it off because I don't like to lead others on until I am finish with the other cause my mind gets to boggle. I brought this up cause I was so suspicous about him and his action espically since he was a sagg, he always wanted to kiss and I couldn't really kiss him like I like to kiss cause I felt bad cause I know the sagg I am dealing with right now he might be an azz sometimes but he is not a cheater for some reason I can just feel that.



to be honest. i think the sag with the venus in scorp is your best match. he loves just like a scorpio, so your energies match well. the other sag is a venus in sag right? i thought he was also a venus in scorpio 2...

the kissing part that you brought up is interesting....
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Posted by happykitsune
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feeling a bit uneasy about this Leo....i feel like jumping ship already...



Yeah people like leos and taurus and cancers and anyone whos needy/need attention like that always make me want to jump ship in the first weeks. I think once you get over the first few weeks tho you should be fine with him. At least thts what I've had to do in the past. Did you feel this way with your previous leo?
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oh yeah, i tried to get the leo to hate me in the first couple of days so i wouldnt have to end things, but he didnt bite.

i was supposed to meet up with the new leo last night, but i stood him up and turned off my cell phone. he called me like 5 times and sent even more texts. i felt bad, but i wanted him gone. he was being too much. i needed time to think. things were moving hella fast for me. i wasnt answering his calls at all. he probably thinks im crazy and he would be right.

i finally talked to him this morning when he called at 630am!!! he was so pissed. but i made up a lie about my phone dropping in a puddle of water.

i am such a chicken sometimes.
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@DMV yeah the sagg with venus in scorp he is cool but the attraction is not really there, and yes the other one has a venus in Sagg but has scorp in his mer and mars and he is also on the cusp with his bday being 11/23. The other thing the sagg that I am into the one with venus in Sagg told me he has only been in love twice in his 36 years and they both were scorps so it seems like he just want a scorp. I ask him why would he date another since those two didn't work he said it's just something about scorp and also he is never defeated or something like that.
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Posted by scorpdiva
@DMV yeah the sagg with venus in scorp he is cool but the attraction is not really there, and yes the other one has a venus in Sagg but has scorp in his mer and mars and he is also on the cusp with his bday being 11/23. The other thing the sagg that I am into the one with venus in Sagg told me he has only been in love twice in his 36 years and they both were scorps so it seems like he just want a scorp. I ask him why would he date another since those two didn't work he said it's just something about scorp and also he is never defeated or something like that.



ive only been in love 2x. and i love love but love hates me. it would seem like he is always picking scorps but it could be that just what he attracts. interesting though, because his venus is in sag. theyre attracted to women with curvesor athletic bodies..high energy, especially hips and thighs.

i dont go out seeking controlling and possesive men, but its just what i attract. i would like to know how to change that.
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dang, stood him up :/ pretty harsh. I guess I'm a lil more tolerant cus I'd never do that. That's funny that he was pissed tho.
You know I'm rly starting to think we are on the same transit. I'm not rly being smothered by my leo, but I think things are coming to a close with this scorpio. I'm also a chicken too...I'm not gonna say anything to him, just gonna let it end without a word. I feel sick to my stomach tho 😢 I want to be reassured that someone will be there for me, but at the same time I just wanna be ok with being single. Lol ok I've reached the point of my vulnerability 😆 But seriously, when is this love thing of 2011 suppose to kick in. I want someone to hold sometimes >.
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Posted by pigeonpie
Wy lucky ?
It's parasitic behaviour and again they don't (long term).
I think DMV makes some of her stories up though, like "I always have the upper hand, out play the playaz!".
Sounds like someone's trying to cope though.
Also, reading some of these threads makes me think smart guys are a lot quieter about their true motivations and are good at playing any part necessary to get them 'off the hook' so to speak.
I know this because if I play my cards right and in a similar fashion I'll have the pisces ex on tap, depends on how gamey the whole things comes across. 🙂



lol, i wish i could make my life up....i cant believe it myself sometimes.....
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Posted by pigeonpie
It's nothing to do with yr moon I reckon, you probably got dump big style and can't ever get that guy back for it, so rinse repeat with everyone else.
You prob go for guys with the intention of emasculating them as that seems to be the theme from what I've read on your approach to men.
Not trying to be an arsehole either.



there is some truth to this. ive technically never been dumped. i usually manipulate my way back into the situation just to get back in their good graces and then dump them harder.
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Posted by ellessque
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i really do have the upper hand most of the time and i kinda get pissed when i dont. its subtle. the dude never knows whats really going on. its the scorpio moon, makes me very manipulative. i like to have control over my emotions. its truly better for everyone that i have the upper hand. cause if i dont!!!!



this is the problem. you will have a constant struggle with a scorp if you keep thinking this. let your guard down and stop trying to control everything.

if you need control...date a cancer.
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cancers are too emotional.
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@ellesque I never seen it that way but that is so true how we mirror the person behavior toward us, this is the issue with my sagg sometimes when I feel like he is not giving 100% then I don't give 100% and then when that person notice and they give more I give more it's an ongoing cycle.

@DMV I know exactly what you mean by when your hurt you shut down my sagg told me the exact same thing, one time I really piss his off and I tried to apologize the next day, he would not talk to me for about a week he was so upset. When we talk again I told him when you are upset we need to talk it out ,not you shut down. I knew I was in the wrong but he wouldn't even give me the opportunity to say I am sorry.

Lastly, I think in relationship pride is a big thing, everyone wants to have the upper hand cause they want to protect their pride and they don't want to be hurt. At the end of the day if you really love someone and truly want to be with them you have to let go of your pride and be vulnerable for once.
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