My sag man left me

Hi guys...first time posting...hope you can help me.

I'm pisces woman, virgo moon, pisces venus
My now ex is sag sun, Gemini moon, aqua venus

Basically, I found out that he and a woman on a forum were chatting. He told me she told him that he is handsome, and he commented on her picture 'expressive eyes'. And he said they chatted just for 15 minutes.
But I didn't believe him - because then they are fb friends after chatting for just 15 minutes. And she didn't have a fb - she made the account just for him, and hasn't added one other person.

I like my space, so I have really given him tons of space, haven't caged him in, haven't been naggy or needy (which is so hard for a pisces!). But this incident with this woman sent me over the edge 😢

We fought about it for 2 days, we kept trying to fix it, he even deleted her as his friend on the forum and fb. But my heart at least was hurting and yes, the trust was gone.

But now with our last fight I saw that he is really hurting over this too. He couldn't understand why I would flip out over this when I've been so easy-going before. The truth is in my last relationship I was cheated on, so I have trust issues. I tried to explain to him and apologise, but he has broken up with me 😢

I would just like to hear any feedback possible. A big part of me really wants him back, but another part of me is so scared to be hurt. Please tell me your thoughts...I need some objective opinions from sags or anyone who has been with one.

Posted by Impulsv
Braking up was harsh considering he contributed to the problem. Now he has the gal to
Turn it around for I to
Beg him?
It was wrong n a breach of trust n a real man would ask for forgiveness n show it by action understanding he has to build back trust. Mmm
I'd keep lines of communication open he may return when things calm down but yes considering he had all that freedom he breached trust. It's logical if flip

His excuse was 'I'm just being nice to someone - she is not a pervert or a bad person, you should trust me that I can tell if someone has the wrong intentions towards me.' He really didn't understand why I thought it was wrong, and he didn't see it as flirting.

Posted by Impulsv
Sure, if return it n say u should respect our relationship n not flirt outside of it. Would unlike me to befriend complete male strangers?
Saying ur handsome n u have expressive eyes is FLRTIng
How bout u tell a guy u have a nice body?
Ask him how would u like that.

I know right! I asked him how he'd feel if I said those things to other men and he said 'I trust you -there is nothing wrong with giving compliments and being nice to people'.

He sounds immature. You know my sag twin is guilty of this. He was seeing this taurus girl and she got upset over him talking with his ex (libra/virgo) or posting on her Facebook, something like that.

He told her he wasn't ( except even i think he was lying cause he "hates" her but I really don't think he is over her) and he told the girl she was a bitch for not believing him and they just stopped talking. I almost slapped his face for thinking it's okay to talk to girls like that lol ass.


Anyway, now like a few months lately they are dating again. Lmao.


I understand why your upset pisces I would be too.

Posted by Sag89
He sounds immature. You know my sag twin is guilty of this. He was seeing this taurus girl and she got upset over him talking with his ex (libra/virgo) or posting on her Facebook, something like that.

He told her he wasn't ( except even i think he was lying cause he "hates" her but I really don't think he is over her) and he told the girl she was a bitch for not believing him and they just stopped talking. I almost slapped his face for thinking it's okay to talk to girls like that lol ass.


Anyway, now like a few months lately they are dating again. Lmao.


I understand why your upset pisces I would be too.

+1

@OP: he did you a favor. Most likely his moon/venus is the culprit because they are signs that have a hard time recognizing boundaries when it comes to love. He's not ready for a real commitment. While we can be naive, his talking to that woman was intentional. He knew she was trying to get at him. Keep it moving as he has a lot of growing up to do.

Posted by Sag89
He sounds immature. You know my sag twin is guilty of this. He was seeing this taurus girl and she got upset over him talking with his ex (libra/virgo) or posting on her Facebook, something like that.

He told her he wasn't ( except even i think he was lying cause he "hates" her but I really don't think he is over her) and he told the girl she was a bitch for not believing him and they just stopped talking. I almost slapped his face for thinking it's okay to talk to girls like that lol ass.


Anyway, now like a few months lately they are dating again. Lmao.


I understand why your upset pisces I would be too.

Thank you! It feels so good to get some validation that I am not being insecure.

+1

@OP: he did you a favor. Most likely his moon/venus is the culprit because they are signs that have a hard time recognizing boundaries when it comes to love. He's not ready for a real commitment. While we can be naive, his talking to that woman was intentional. He knew she was trying to get at him. Keep it moving as he has a lot of growing up to do.



Ok - thank you!! Again it feels good to get validation that I am not just being a crazy woman about this. It's sad because he was a really great bf - it was just this incident, otherwise a great relationship. It's his loss I guess.