My Sagittarius man broke up with me

I’ve been dating my sag man for over a year he recently sent me message saying he having a lot of problems in life and he doesn’t need a intimate relationship he needs to focus on getting his life back on track which I was aware that he was having problems with money and family which I don’t understand why he feels like our relationship is a problem I have always helped him in anyway I could with money and his daughter I have never put any burden on him and I have him his space now he has left ... I guess my question is should I be waiting around for this guy because he claims it’s a temporary thing ...

What's your sign? You sound like a cancer lol ^^ This is correct. Don't chase him, he will only run away faster. give him space like he dropped off the face of the earth. If he likes you, then he will come back, if not then you know he meant he said. Seems like he means it though and is just making up excuses so he doesn't hurt your feelings.

yep... we hate hurting people we like.... he's probably trying to leave. don't chase because it will only make it worse. He will get nasty with you, because now you aren't respecting his position. If it's temporary he will come back around.

Just make it a break, because he can't ask anything of you such as waiting or anything. he's made it known by changing your relationship he doesn't want the role anymore.

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Posted by saggurl88
What's your sign? You sound like a cancer lol ^^ This is correct. Don't chase him, he will only run away faster. give him space like he dropped off the face of the earth. If he likes you, then he will come back, if not then you know he meant he said. Seems like he means it though and is just making up excuses so he doesn't hurt your feelings.

Imma take this advice too.... Sag here is confusing af ....lol

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Yeah, sometimes you crabs can be a little too clingy. Needing to know everything, asking so many questions, not giving any type of space. It's a lot to handle and is draining. Especially making up stuff, like random texts to get some sort of response. Sag is not the sign that really cares about the attitude you can give because that's actually the only time we can get a little relief from you guys!!! lol

We still love how lovable and crazy you are, we just don't want you so much into our spaces, invading everything. 😄

@Senorita_LL

You are right. I never bail on someone I want to be with. It's hard to struggle, as a man, much less a sag, and on top of that need someone. I hate asking for help or looking less than what I should be.

But you are right. we might not handle everything the right way, it depends on the real intentions.

I'd rather starve than ask someone for something to eat. It's just my nature.

I feel I can relate to this as the sag.

regardless of what you think you contributed there is just something about being in a relationship that adds extra responsibility. and to a saggitatious the stress could be causing him unhappiness which means he has to start eliminating things. unfortunately it sounds like he I doing you a favor by explain that its not you its him and that the time is just not good for him to be able to give you what you deserve. Hopefully timing finds itself you both again

you will be ok.

I can only speak for myself but no amount of problems in the world would cause me to leave a woman who is being good to me. Truth is, if a Sag man does this it is because the help he is actually getting is more of a burden and forced obligation. I'm not talking about a situation where the help is actually for his highest good and maybe his pride gets in the way a little. No, I'm talking about someone trying to take over or does, does things their way then guilt trips him when he's not "grateful." That's not help...it's control and manipulation.

wait for your man gf!

if after you've waited for him and things dont change then yea move on but for not take his word, if he says its temporary then it is and you should stick by him. He sounds stressed out and is probably freaking out. Just give him his space.

Never wait for someone who can’t man up and have the conversation face to face. Breakups over text is such a classless pussy move. I can’t.