Sag. How much space is space?

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I throw everything I have into intense encounters, the passion is as hot as someone throwing gasoline onto a bonfire.

But too much emotion becomes overwhelming for me, and I need to return to a steady emotional balance

Too much passion causes drama and pain, and I love it for awhile, but I have to get away, to become me again

I must be alone to recover

For as long as it takes.

Sag sun
Cap moon
Scorpio Venus
Scorpio Rising
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I don't mind being with the person I'm with... At all.


I cherish those moments.

I'm a sag sun Leo moon and aqua Venus ..
My ex was a sag sun cancer moon and Scorpio Venus...
Roller coaster ride...


But I love to get to know the person I'm with and just lay up and talk... Be in each other presence but don't even have to be talking to each other makes me happy, lol. But I'm a hopeless romantic so don't listen to me. I love the consuming feel, the passion, the rush.. lol.
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Two times per week is plenty for me. I dated Libra lady two years ago, and although I was attracted, I didn't like excessive amount of calls and messages from her, planning activities for me, etc. That is the quickest way for me to get bored to death.

Two times per week of text messages? Omg that is totally horrible for a Taurus sun like myself who need security.
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I throw everything I have into intense encounters, the passion is as hot as someone throwing gasoline onto a bonfire.

But too much emotion becomes overwhelming for me, and I need to return to a steady emotional balance

Too much passion causes drama and pain, and I love it for awhile, but I have to get away, to become me again

I must be alone to recover

For as long as it takes.

Sag sun
Cap moon
Scorpio Venus
Scorpio Rising

When you * get away * do you tell that person? How do we know you are in* I want to be away mode *? Not responding is an example or? Thanks alottt
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I get up and leave suddenly, from all sorts of situations. Its not usually from boredom, but a desire to be somewhere else. It rarely has anything to do with who I'm with.

Sometimes in my head, I get a thought that I need to be somewhere else. An impulse.

What is your moon sign ? I'm sorry but there is no security in that what so ever.. We see it as extremely hot and cold and it sucks big time... mine hasn't really gone anywhere but I'm sensing he's needing space without really telling me he does if that make sense.. Shud I tell him I feel he needs some alone time n to tell me if so or shud I just don't say anything at all till he becomes hot n heavy again?
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I have a Venus in Scorpio. I need more space than my BF (Sag with Venus in Cap).

He wants to plan everything, spend all our time together. I have to tell him it's ok to spend time apart too.

However, he is not the type to text all day. Which works for me because I don't like it (my Taurus ex HATED this about me.) He gets me. Space is good.

Why do u hate being texted all day? I'm a Taurus sun and to b honesty it's the one thing that's bothering me... I have air signs in me so I like to talk n chat about life lol n share with him things via texts or photos.. He responded well at first now I feel like he's getting a bit bored of it... but I need that for security reason... for e.g. Good morning etc I like to do that to show the person I love I care and offering security to them. He has moon in cap so maybe he needs it sometimes but not all the time lol....
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And Venus in Scorpio has to be associated with some type of obsession... I won't lie she made me obsessed .... Not to her but it's like she found a way to always stay on my mind no matter what... It's getting out my system...


Are y'all finally back together? Or is he still Doing the same things? You truly love him, because you haven't gave up yet... @saweetz

It's a little complicate, not exactly sure what we r at the moment but we been great lately.. just recently we had an intense encounter * as ViS * does offer most times.. n now I don't know I can sense the need for * space * where by when I last saw him he was squeezing my thumb so tide when he was sleeping lol.. then I tried to let go n left his house n didn't stay over coz I need my own bed. Maybe that's why he's being funny a little not sure... but yes I truly truly love him.. it's hard to give up on something that u love deeply.. u noe VIS has a way to make u always obsessed with them.. Plus sag sun, it's a wired energy
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I get up and leave suddenly, from all sorts of situations. Its not usually from boredom, but a desire to be somewhere else. It rarely has anything to do with who I'm with.

Sometimes in my head, I get a thought that I need to be somewhere else. An impulse.

What is your moon sign ? I'm sorry but there is no security in that what so ever.. We see it as extremely hot and cold and it sucks big time... mine hasn't really gone anywhere but I'm sensing he's needing space without really telling me he does if that make sense.. Shud I tell him I feel he needs some alone time n to tell me if so or shud I just don't say anything at all till he becomes hot n heavy again?
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I have a Capricorn moon. I can be selfish, and unconcerned with others feelings. I try not to be, but sometimes other people's emotions really drag me down and depresses me. If someone has a bunch of issues with my behavior, my first instinct is to leave, and let them deal with it.

I am aware that others feelings may be hurt by this, as they try to *fix* me. That sort of angers me, because I can't feel what they do, nor do I care too much.

I would leave the Sag alone, and let him do his thing. Trying to direct him in his behavior could backfire from whatever it is you are trying to accomplish.
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I get up and leave suddenly, from all sorts of situations. Its not usually from boredom, but a desire to be somewhere else. It rarely has anything to do with who I'm with.

Sometimes in my head, I get a thought that I need to be somewhere else. An impulse.

What is your moon sign ? I'm sorry but there is no security in that what so ever.. We see it as extremely hot and cold and it sucks big time... mine hasn't really gone anywhere but I'm sensing he's needing space without really telling me he does if that make sense.. Shud I tell him I feel he needs some alone time n to tell me if so or shud I just don't say anything at all till he becomes hot n heavy again?
I have a Capricorn moon. I can be selfish, and unconcerned with others feelings. I try not to be, but sometimes other people's emotions really drag me down and depresses me. If someone has a bunch of issues with my behavior, my first instinct is to leave, and let them deal with it.

I am aware that others feelings may be hurt by this, as they try to *fix* me. That sort of angers me, because I can't feel what they do, nor do I care too much.

I would leave the Sag alone, and let him do his thing. Trying to direct him in his behavior could backfire from whatever it is you are trying to accomplish.
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Wow... u sound like him a little.. do u really not care about ur close inner circle people's feelings ??
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And Venus in Scorpio has to be associated with some type of obsession... I won't lie she made me obsessed .... Not to her but it's like she found a way to always stay on my mind no matter what... It's getting out my system...


Are y'all finally back together? Or is he still Doing the same things? You truly love him, because you haven't gave up yet... @saweetz

It's a little complicate, not exactly sure what we r at the moment but we been great lately.. just recently we had an intense encounter * as ViS * does offer most times.. n now I don't know I can sense the need for * space * where by when I last saw him he was squeezing my thumb so tide when he was sleeping lol.. then I tried to let go n left his house n didn't stay over coz I need my own bed. Maybe that's why he's being funny a little not sure... but yes I truly truly love him.. it's hard to give up on something that u love deeply.. u noe VIS has a way to make u always obsessed with them.. Plus sag sun, it's a wired energy
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Ok, this sounds like your Sag is feeling comfortable with your situation, at the moment. I would just look forward to those moments, and let him do his thing for the rest of the time.
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Two times per week is plenty for me. I dated Libra lady two years ago, and although I was attracted, I didn't like excessive amount of calls and messages from her, planning activities for me, etc. That is the quickest way for me to get bored to death.
what would you think of a virgo lady who waits for sag to initiate contact most of the times mainly because she is not sure of sags feelings for her? when sag man is interested how does he show it to the one he is interested in?
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I understand .. Me and mines were good I went to see her. Literally caught her staring at me across the club and she kinda jumped embarrassingly ... Then a week after that she broke it off and told me recently she was never in love and I knew she wasn't gay. It stung lol. I'm like huh, you had my name tatted... But I've accepted it and trying to let go.


But yeah it's like a weird energy.... what I have noticed from her is ... She hates the fact she loves me, so that might be what it is... She tried to fight the love so much. But idk. Her texting me and telling me she never loved me and stuff was it for me... But good luck. Don't obsess so much... Try and get him off your mind ...
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And Venus in Scorpio has to be associated with some type of obsession... I won't lie she made me obsessed .... Not to her but it's like she found a way to always stay on my mind no matter what... It's getting out my system...


Are y'all finally back together? Or is he still Doing the same things? You truly love him, because you haven't gave up yet... @saweetz

It's a little complicate, not exactly sure what we r at the moment but we been great lately.. just recently we had an intense encounter * as ViS * does offer most times.. n now I don't know I can sense the need for * space * where by when I last saw him he was squeezing my thumb so tide when he was sleeping lol.. then I tried to let go n left his house n didn't stay over coz I need my own bed. Maybe that's why he's being funny a little not sure... but yes I truly truly love him.. it's hard to give up on something that u love deeply.. u noe VIS has a way to make u always obsessed with them.. Plus sag sun, it's a wired energy
Ok, this sounds like your Sag is feeling comfortable with your situation, at the moment. I would just look forward to those moments, and let him do his thing for the rest of the time.
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Yeah I agree .. thank u.. I decided to ask him straight by text saying I need to understand him coz he's a complicated person and asked him what is really going on in there when he doesn't respond.. he replied even when he's at work that he's extremely busy 10 hrs work a day, plus eating or sleeping or doing other things n that he wud appreciate a bit of space... so yay, now I got my answers.. 🙂 it's so easy for a man to say * hey I need a bit of my alone time, speak soon * but not many ppl wud do that lol... it will make me feel reassure. I think a Taurus sun like myself needs security after all.
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Wow... u sound like him a little.. do u really not care about ur close inner circle people's feelings ??
Well, that's what I've been told. That I don't care.

I do care about people, and how they are feeling. I just don't know how to comfort them.
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It's so true.. I Noe he cares for me very deeply esp when we r together.! It's when we r not together that I feel he can be selfish inch.. Always so focus on himself his projects his work his issues... n moon in cap never rest.. their mind constantly going 24/7 trying to make money etc etc all the time... n he's lost touch of people who r close to them n mean a lot to them.. coz they r so busy focusing on other things that r more useful.. Fix me if I'm wrong..
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I understand .. Me and mines were good I went to see her. Literally caught her staring at me across the club and she kinda jumped embarrassingly ... Then a week after that she broke it off and told me recently she was never in love and I knew she wasn't gay. It stung lol. I'm like huh, you had my name tatted... But I've accepted it and trying to let go.


But yeah it's like a weird energy.... what I have noticed from her is ... She hates the fact she loves me, so that might be what it is... She tried to fight the love so much. But idk. Her texting me and telling me she never loved me and stuff was it for me... But good luck. Don't obsess so much... Try and get him off your mind ...
She got ur name tattoo n Sed she never in love? lollllll I think this energy is so contradicting n I think they also hate themselves for it.. One day u r their everything n the next day they dun know who u r sometimes.. it's so strange...
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I have a Venus in Scorpio. I need more space than my BF (Sag with Venus in Cap).

He wants to plan everything, spend all our time together. I have to tell him it's ok to spend time apart too.

However, he is not the type to text all day. Which works for me because I don't like it (my Taurus ex HATED this about me.) He gets me. Space is good.

Why do u hate being texted all day? I'm a Taurus sun and to b honesty it's the one thing that's bothering me... I have air signs in me so I like to talk n chat about life lol n share with him things via texts or photos.. He responded well at first now I feel like he's getting a bit bored of it... but I need that for security reason... for e.g. Good morning etc I like to do that to show the person I love I care and offering security to them. He has moon in cap so maybe he needs it sometimes but not all the time lol....
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Posted by jane84
I have a Venus in Scorpio. I need more space than my BF (Sag with Venus in Cap).

He wants to plan everything, spend all our time together. I have to tell him it's ok to spend time apart too.

However, he is not the type to text all day. Which works for me because I don't like it (my Taurus ex HATED this about me.) He gets me. Space is good.

Why do u hate being texted all day? I'm a Taurus sun and to b honesty it's the one thing that's bothering me... I have air signs in me so I like to talk n chat about life lol n share with him things via texts or photos.. He responded well at first now I feel like he's getting a bit bored of it... but I need that for security reason... for e.g. Good morning etc I like to do that to show the person I love I care and offering security to them. He has moon in cap so maybe he needs it sometimes but not all the time lol....
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I have more fire in me than air..but I'm a Libra ASC/Sun/Moon so still Libra dominant although my Venus is in Scorpio. I have many Taurus female friends as well. I thoroughly understand your need for security and reassurance... Hmm let me explain myself.
It bothers me while I'm at work. Good morning messages are good. We are very consistent when saying good morning and seeing each other. When I'm at work though I'm very much about getting things done. I'm not a "lazy Libra" lol He is also about his work. So text messaging about random things are not high on our priority list. Besides if you talk all day through text messages, you'll have nothing to talk about during dinner or while spending quality time together. It does get boring if you constantly talk
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Yeah I understand her.. But I won't keep forgiving her.... I'm working on healing now... So hopefully I never experience anything as chaotic as her again... I don't mind passion and the extremes... But, she can go play with someone else... She the reason I came to DXP... So now at least I know I'm not crazy and how to deal with her ... But yeah, that's over with... She crosses the line ya know....

And yeah, how you get someone name tattooed and stuff... But I truly wish her the best, I gotta pick up the pieces.. Lol