sag man blowin hot and cold

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Its weird we wrk together he's cool fun nice gives compliments lots of eye contact makes it a point to talk to me when were working side by side....then somedays distant not cold or harsh just like backs away as if something else ig occupying his mind...today he was sitting next to me at lunch on the phone and talking loud enough for me to hear about his plans for the weekend with who ever was on the other line...me being so impulsive...... saggies are known for there many escapades and are hard to "pin down" ...just lilinsight would help on what to do next he knows I like him I've flirted back showed extra attention to him long lingering smiles I give the spark I let show in my eyes...
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Well tonight at work me the saggi and his friendvolunteered for some overtime. At work.everyone else clocked out in our dept.thsupervisor led us down to another dept downstairs where wed be working for a couple hrs of overtime.come to find out we only staed 30 min over...anywhooo me saggie and his friend were putting our wrk equipment up his friend I noticed was rushin and badged out quickly me and the saggie cloked out soon after. S o were walking towards the front of the bulidinng to leave he's tellin me hell still be up when he gets home I said I will be too.said he had to stop and get gas and looked me dead in my face for some type of response iono. He asked how late do I usually stay up after wrk I said 4 am 5 am he said 3 am 4 am his the time he's usually still up. Seemed like he was stalling not wanting to leave yet as he slowerd his pace in walking and kept looking over and thinkin up questions to ask..so we finally got to the lunch area and he grabbed his lunch pale I saidill see u. Tomorrow he said ok. Am I reading too much into all this or is he throwin hints out there.
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U were right ulalume sagg ie dude was just passin the time by at work now I know what's yp bu t he said we can be friends damn I wanted more. Me aries him saggie..its all good I was direct and asked him what's up with I'm givin me the eye at work he said bluntly he was just passin the time bu and it wasn't he's intentions to lead me on..now I finally kno what's up ii read to much into things he's a sagg and is naturally friendly..fso now I know where we stand and I can keep it pushin thank tod were botth dorect and honest...
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Posted by Ulalume
Sag guys I know, have known don't run hot and cold.

These are guys who know what they want and go for it.

I think with you if he knows you're into him and hasn't

initiated a move to get up outside of work. He's just

not really feeling you that way. And you're probably

just a "office wifey" he likes to flirt and play around

with from time to time. Make the work day go by faster.



Bingo! And I speak from recent experience with an Aries female at work but not on the day going by faster part. I'm not the flirty type at the office but we sit together everyday at work. Although we forged a good friendship, I knew early on that she liked me. Nothing spoken but action in true cardinal sign fashion...initiating. Sadly, I wasn't interested and took caution as not to lead her on. This is where things get a little tricky. She sent a FB request and I reluctantly accepted. Conversations were initiated on both our parts but it was always about what took place(work in a madhouse lol). She would invite me out or suggest I take her out and I always declined. Not because I didn't enjoy her friendship, but because I knew what her true motives were and I didn't want to give the impression that I was romantically interested. After about a month, we cleared the air and I told her I was only interested in friendship. She was cool but our friendship has changed in subtle ways. We still talk at work and the flow hasn't changed at all. But outside, no initiation by her but I understand that.
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Posted by aquavita
U got what it takes girl. just because beautiful sould did not like an aries girl that might be not your case. but still u re at work might be too much. I am a sag and I have told people I want friendship when actully I wanted more. But friendship cpmes fikrst. see, not every sag is like DMV: jump in the fuck and thn search for connection. be confident! even if this is not the man. the only concern I have is u work in gas and oil industry. I hope not fracking. fracking will kill us.



Aquavita, I respect your opinions, but what you just said about DMV is hitting below the belt and un called for.
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Well, with that being said,

One thing I'm definitely not known for on here is ass kissing. Check the record on that.

Second, I've been here way longer than you which shows that you know nothing. Me and DMV have had a quite a few disagreements over what's she said and vice versa.The difference is we don't try to coerce each other from speaking our respective minds. You don't just disagree with her, you insult her and then even challenge her right to speak because you don't like what she said. I don't see you on others boards where things similar to what she says are being posted.

So, respect doesn't imply agreement. Learn the difference.

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Posted by beautifulsoul74
Posted by aquavita
U got what it takes girl. just because beautiful sould did not like an aries girl that might be not your case. but still u re at work might be too much. I am a sag and I have told people I want friendship when actully I wanted more. But friendship cpmes fikrst. see, not every sag is like DMV: jump in the fuck and thn search for connection. be confident! even if this is not the man. the only concern I have is u work in gas and oil industry. I hope not fracking. fracking will kill us.



Aquavita, I respect your opinions, but what you just said about DMV is hitting below the belt and un called for.

what do u respect then about my opinion? I dont even khow dmv Iis till she wrote a whole post here bout me few months ago how I was "satlking" her where I simply was replying to her in an enitrely diferent forum as well as I had replied to her "should I get a sperm bank baby post" . which later on made me read some of her sruff to get an idea where she was coming from. and she comes exactly from there: jump in the fuck and show every man how little she could care. that is not a sag woman. I gave her benefit of doubt but she is the person who started "attacking "me not the other way around and most folks here like a brainless crowd followed. I dont dispuute she isI your queeen you little slaves. unable to express an opinion justidolising. u beautiful sould I didnt know u kiss asser. I stand up for the fact sag women are not whores. if u support dmv without criticism then u support the opposite claim. I m not hiitng anyone below the belt like ur concern is it is all public here. go now hve some milk and nuts cuz u pissing me off I
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LOL, but you're the one who constantly posts about her.

You're obsessed with her.

You kept sending her private messages until she blocked you.

Now you're mad that she won't read your shit, so you bash her relentlessly.

Can't you talk about something else?
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Saggie hasn't contacted me we agreed to be friends just wonderin if he's gonna initiate any hang outs since I took the leap to get his number from his friend...do I wait if so how long I thought about initiating. But been pullin back..my freakin scopr moon got me feelin some weird way...mars needs to hurry up and go retrograde asap....have I become obsessed..ugh.....don't. Know.....confused..lol
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Posted by aquavita
A sag isingterested in direct people as well as people who have a lot going on and are focused on that



Oh my gosh, yes. You hit the nail on the head here. I am exactly like this. I like to know that the guy is busy, but is still direct enough to let me know how he feels or to show that he cares. And doing things sarcastic flirting and showing you care, and even showing interest in my hobby really keeps me interest. Then if I feel the chemistry it's on ๐Ÿ™‚
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Posted by lovedone
Saggie hasn't contacted me we agreed to be friends just wonderin if he's gonna initiate any hang outs since I took the leap to get his number from his friend...do I wait if so how long I thought about initiating. But been pullin back..my freakin scopr moon got me feelin some weird way...mars needs to hurry up and go retrograde asap....have I become obsessed..ugh.....don't. Know.....confused..lol



Yeah hate that moon in scorpio sometimes ๐Ÿ˜ข. Makes me obsessive too, but seriously you asked a friend for his number? Why?
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Asked friend for his number cuz he quit the job so I had no other way of contacting him...his friend still worked. There...saggie said he didn't mind me havin it. ..didn't make a stink about it...he figured I got it from his friend since we all use to hang out together at work..but this issue is dead...I haven't been talkin. To the saggie hence why I haven't posted anymore about it..in days till now... dead issue have moved on...too busy with wrk and hobbies...and plus its summer..