Sagg. DON'Ts

Let me go ahead & say this...I DO NOT expect for everyone (whether you're a Sagg. yourself or know alot of Sagg.) to agree with me. This is my personal opinion from an Aquarian point of view about the Sagg. I've personally observed. I'm in NO way labeling all Sagg. or saying that how I feel about this topic will be the same way others feel or the same thing others have observed. But, I am doing what this site allows me to do & that's to state my opinion

DON'T:

-Subject your Sagittarius to the darker, more negative side of your personality (they need to see the positive side of life, even if it means ignoring your depression).

-Tell them that you're right & they're wrong-they like to feel that they have the best answer to any question or situation. They can handle disagreements & being wrong sometimes but if their partners constantly make it a point to tell them, they're wrong, they'll quickly shy away from you

-Try to keep them in a small, confined area no matter how luxury it is-they will feel cramped & cage & will need to escape. Your Sagg. will expect for you to understand, respect & accept their non-tolerance for small spaces & over-clingness.

-Turn a blind eye to the Sagittarian fondness for betting. Some Sagittarians can't restrain themselves when it comes to the tables, the sports book or gambling in general. Your Sagg. will not feel bad for living out his own fantasies & desires. If gambling or taking risks is something they consider fun & what they need, they will be turned off by a partner who makes them feel that they "can't have their fun."

-Be impatient with the relationship -- if you expect declarations or demonstrations of eternal love up front or too soon, your patience may be tested. Sagittarians are independent, and will likely not fall in love quickly or demonstrate it too effusively.

-Turned off by those who are dull & lack a sense of humor. Sagg. wants a partner that can entertain them & keep their interests afloat

-People who apologize all the time. Sagg. are usually content in every decision they make & expect for their partners to have the same strong-mindedness & hard head that they have

-People who talk more than they do. They are easily turned off by people that talk just to hear themselves talk. Sagg. say what they mean & mean what they say. People who are always talking for unnecessary reasons, annoys them

-People who always take hours to get ready. Sagg. likes naturalness. The longer their partners take to get ready, the more your Sagg. will assume that you are superficial.

-Obsessive cleanliness. Sagg. won't fault you for liking a clean house but they get turned off by those who will wash off every spoon after it's used. They want their partners to calm down & live a little.

-Don't ever doubt their honesty. Sagg. expect for you to know & believe that they are very brutally honest & will give it to you straight-foward, without any sugar-coating. If their partners are constantly questioning them even when they're telling the truth, your Sagg. will see it as a lose/lose situation. When they tell the truth & are direct, others don't believe it. And when they lie, they get the same results

"Be impatient with the relationship -- if you expect declarations or demonstrations of eternal love up front or too soon, your patience may be tested. Sagittarians are independent, and will likely not fall in love quickly or demonstrate it too effusively."

false

"Turn a blind eye to the Sagittarian fondness for betting."

With Saturn in the second Haus I do not like to loose money for nothing. Yet I buy lottery every now and then for investing the win in charity once I get to the millions.

For the purposes of charity? Yeah, uh huh! 😉 No you want that big ole' fat check!

"-Turned off by those who are dull & lack a sense of humor. Sagg. wants a partner that can entertain them & keep their interests afloat"

true true true true. I hate people who keeps being serious.

"DON'T Subject your Sagittarius to the darker, more negative side of your personality (they need to see the positive side of life, even if it means ignoring your depression)."


true!
If I cannot help somebody out of his/her darkness, I will share less time with him/her.

"No you want that big ole' fat check!"

What I want is the feeling that I am a hero and an idealist and that I resisted that check.

"They can handle disagreements & being wrong sometimes but if their partners constantly make it a point to tell them, they're wrong, they'll quickly shy away from you"


true! (it happens enough with my Virgo sister)
you know why? cause I have learned by life that I have my achievements even if I am wrong. So why should I stop being myself and follow what another clever peron says. Specially an Earth signer? It is good enough that they do their lives. Why should I live their way of life too?

"It is good enough that they do their lives. Why should I live their way of life too?"

I like the way you put it. It's no different then when they say, "The only person I be is myself. Everyone else is taken."

"People who talk more than they do... turned off by people that talk just to hear themselves talk... People who are always talking for unnecessary reasons, annoys them"


For me it is a matter of concentration. Depending on their talk skills I keep or loose my concentration. Of course I can listen to long discussions or speeches. the good ones.

"The only person I be is myself. Everyone else is taken."

perfect. I love it. how did you come to that?

My dad actually told me this saying years ago & it stuck with me. If you really think about it, it makes alot of sense. I can only be myself because everyone else is taken.

That quote is great!

"People who apologize all the time. Sagg. are usually content in every decision they make & expect for their partners to have the same strong-mindedness & hard head that they have"

change apologize to regret and then you get my Virgo sister. The biggest difference between us is that I am always confident with my decisions which I make in my lonliness. She regrets anything what she does. As if she is captured by the goast of "it could have been done in a more perfect way".

smart dad

Thanks 😉