DennyV's saga.....part 2

Ok here is the new thread...

So let me just sum up..

last night at 2am i got a text from her saying "how about lunch this w-end. Guess what? I know an excellent italian place"

so i texted her back saying "sure sounds good" thinking that she meant wedneday (today)...so im waiting and waiting...i showerd and shaved...waiting and waiting...finally i send her a text saying "are we still on for lunch"

Then i realized taht "w-end" meant weakend...not wednesday

so i sent her a text back today telling her i mis read the text and this weekend is fine, just to let me know when

So in conclusion...me and her are going out sometime this weekend to a place she knows...

Im pretty psyched...i just went to the mall and bought her an xmas present...i know some of you may be like "what are you doing?" but its not a big deal...i bought her the Dave Matthews & Tim Reynolds Live form Radio City CD (i was at that show 🙂 Because she said she liked the videos of me playing Dave...and because she has like an hour commute each way to work...so i figured i would give her some good music to listen to...i know she will like this CD or at least a good handful of songs.

Let me just say...i know i messed up by mis-understanding weakend for wednesday...but its an honest mistake...but im really psyched...I truly gave up on this gir...i was not contacting her anymore, not for Valentines Day, not nothing..i was done....but i just pray to God this luncheon goes good.

AWESOME for you Denny, keep us informed as we are all hooked and hoping for that "Happy ending"... something we'd all like to happen in our own lives!

Oh and dont forget you promised to invite us all here to your party to help celebrate with you. I'm coming from Australia so give plenty of notice. 🙂

I will keep you all informed...

I have a good feeling about it...I F'ed up today though witht he weeakend and the wednesday....i was thinking about it all day...im like Damn Den wtf

Il give you plenty of notice dont worry...i think we have a while to go yet...but this is a good start

Finally a new thread after so many posts!!!

So you are in a race with another Libra...

Just go with it at this point don't over think it.

You start your school and meet her 4 lunch.... doesn't sound like rocker science!!!

Could you write some lyrics to your road toward this lunch... I think that might help you to get through it... MHO

waht do u mean write some lyrics to my road toward the lunch?

All I can say is WOOOOOOOOOOHOOOOOOOOOOOOO

my anxiety levels are at an all time high....i already took off of work saturda...so my whole weekend is open...i cant wait to see this girl....i cant wait to roll into that restaurant with the Dave CD wrapped with a big bow...shes not going to be expecting it.

I just cant wait to see this girl....i hope she dont let me down again

I have been following your story, wish u luck but you need to relax or study something 😉

All I can say is WOOOOOOOOOOHOOOOOOOOOOOOO
ditto

Yay!

🙂

Does she like Dave Matthews?

she doesnt know if she likes him because she hasnt listened to him...so she cant say either way

she will after she listens to the CD

I went out with this girl a few times over the summer...nothing big...dated for like a month...and i made her get this album...she was hooked. Cause Dave is the man.

Now im not saying shes going to fall in love with every song...but I know she will like at least 8 or 9 songs off that album.

maybe she was hooked on you, not dave? 😛

^LOL

friday night...5:35pm....and i havent heard anything from her

i have no clue whats going on....somehow i have a feeling i took off of work tommorrow and bought the Dave CD for nothing

its supposed to snow here tommorrow....who knows how much...

You worry too much.

I am totally with Zen.

(shhhh but .... I don't know any girls who really like Dave Matthews. Tends to be more of a guy thing from my experience.) *looks around nervous*

are you kidding me?

should i return the CD—

so she called me tonight at 10:00pm

she told me she was going to a party but her friend bailed on her...then she asked me what I was doing...and i told her I took my aunt out to dinner...shes like "oh I wanted to see if you wanted to see a movie"...so im like what time ...shes like "now"...well i obviously couldnt...so i was like what about later...shs like "oh its ok your out with your aunt don worry about it, im gonna go home" so then I asked her about tommorrow and shes like "i dont want to make any plans because its supposed to snow a lot" (which it is, were supposed to have a bad storm)...so then i asked about sunday...and she said shes going to try to go to church sunday, but didnt say anything about after that. so i just left it alone...and then we just hung up

Let me tell you...i am sick to my stomach...i went back in the restaurant...i coudltn even eat. I was home every night this week...she calls me tonight when im not home.

Now il tell you what I think of this and you tell me if im crazy.

She asked me waht i was doing first...after I told her i was out to dinner with my aunt...then she said "oh ok, i wanted to see if you wanted to go to the movies"...now, did she just say that knowing i couldnt go...or did she realy want to go to the movies with me?

I should be happy that she called...but what are the odds that the one time she wants to hang out, Im not around.

I took off of work tommorrow for nothing...i feel like im never going to see this girl. What is my next move? Tommorrow is a wash becasue of the snow storm...sunday?? who knows. I dont know waht to do...i dotn knwo waht to think of this. Did she really want to see me tonight or was she calling to just confirm the cancellation for tommorrow because of the storm?

its 11:20pm...should i call her—

It's all too laid back and casual after 5 whole months....sorry Denny but I dont think you ROCK her world and shedoesn't seem to have any respect for you! She calls you on a wim because she has nothing better to do!!! AND you're suppose to drop everything for her...then you dont get anything else—— Seriously.... Have you any respect for yourself—

of course i do...but im not sure what you mean?

I'm a girl and I love Dave Matthews. But I also play guitar, and therefore probably have more appreciation for it.

But anyways...
She called you and tried to hang out with you. I think that says alot. That sucks that you already had plans. This is a classic case of bad timing for both of you. But it will work itself out. I would call her today if it's not snowing bad there...and ask her if she wants to go see that movie tonight.

Come on Denny... You have a life to lead too. The timing was ok, it just showed her you weren't waiting around for her.

If the weather isn't too harsh this weekend, why not call her and ask what she is doing after church.

If the weather is bad, maybe you could chat on the phone for an hour and just talk to her.

It doesn't have to be so extreme... So you have been waiting 5 months, apparently she is still interested in your friendship. Also, she works tough hours and has family to deal with, you should be happy she thought of you last night and called.

You need a chill pill! 🙂😉

im getting 4 inches of snow here and shes getting 6-8 where she lives.

If I ask her to go tonight...i can tell what my answer will be.

So im leaving tonight alone

But as for sunday...she says shes going to church...so i dont know about sunday. I may call her. What I want to do is call her on monday and tell her to keep saturday open because i want to take her to dinner and a movie. But idk y, i just think shes gonna give me another line. I dont feel confident at all in her saying "ok saturday sounds good". I feel like its just going to be another "yea i have to see, this and that this and that"

And yea she did call me...but i have to look at the big picture. She was on her way to a party...her friend bailed on her ...meaning she was all dressed up and had no place to go. So she didnt want to waste the night so she calls me. I mean yea im happy she called...but i think she called out of process of eliminaiton. Her initial plans got ruined, so let me see what plan B is. I was plan B.

Denny what is wrong with Plan B or G?

You are probably sitting thinking, sitting, thinking etc etc...

Why don't you do something tonight..

Oh and I just re-read my old post. All I meant was.. maybe if you let your feelings go in a journal or a song... NOT HERE.... you could look at the mirror of your feelings. You are a very intense Libra...

I tend to be as well. It serves a purpose, but not in the day to day world. Trust me.

All the ppl who have posted here have your best interests in their heart. Now maybe you need to fly from the nest and reach toward the stars. If you fail or fall, how hard would it be for you to get up? Maybe you should think about a positive outcome.

Oh and watch out the the glorious full moon tonight!!

She called you at 10.00pm? gawd that is so Libra like but all is not lost. She'll think you're even sexier coz you do have other plans other than waiting for her.....to Librans thats supposed to be sexy!!!

Just tell her you'll pick her up after church, that you'll do something together....just do it...dont ask, do!!!

I know im a very intense libra...everybody tells me I am a Libra to the "T"

I dont know what you mean fly from the nest and reach toward the stars. Ive been trying, and trying and trying since august. I just have bad luck I guess or the timing is just bad all the time. One day we were supposed to go out it was Hurrican Ike or wahtever...today its Blizzard Bob...whats next week, Tornado Theresa or Earthquake Eddy?

Im not afraid of rejection...If she rejected me at least its something. But its like, ive been trying to take her out since august adn the one day she calls me to go out, Im not around.

I do think about a positive outcome...but i also dont want to be made a fool of either you know. I dotn know if i should call her tommorrow and ask what shes doing after church...or call her next week and ask her to go out saturday? And most of all, i dont know waht to think of waht happened last night. She called, thats great and i was happy...but idk, am i wrong for thinking that she may have invited me after the fact she knew i couldnt go? Maybe she did or maybe she really did want to go to the movies with me. But its just ALWAYS something. and another thing...she preaches busy busy busy....last night she was on her way to a party...which is all fine...but you mean to tell me she couldnt hang out for a couple hours from august til now? IDK ... but once again, she'll get a pass because im a sucker

Denny,

meet her at church and have sex with her

testing that was just a test!

but that is why they call the seats in church {pews)

its for hanging your underpants on

Den,

all kidding aside, make your move! im a libra and i say DO IT! BE INTENSE. WE

LIKE IT.

OKAY. IM GOING TO SAY THIS ONE LAST TIME. TONIGHT IS THE WOLF FULL MOON! ITS THE

BIGGEST AND BRIGHTEST OF THEM ALL. THERE IS A HISTORY ABOUT IT. LOOK IT UP.

NATIVE AMERICANS SAY THIS IS WHEN WOLVES STALK. SO MAKE YOUR MOVE AND HOWL!

can you believe the moon will be 14 percent larger and

30 percent brighter than all of them. we get one and thats tonight!

Oh, the wind blows cold

on the trail of the buffalo-ox

ha ha ha

na na na na naaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa na!!!!

got it in there

buffalo = old world ox

they old school animuls

.....

lol denny, good answer...
so...........?

lol

so its sunday and i dont know waht to do. Do i call her to see what shes doing today...do i call her monday and try to make plans again saturday....or do i do nothing and see if she calls me.

Zena...talk to me

call now - don't see why not... she was spontaneous with you by inviting you out, so your turn ! you just never know...
I'm waiting !

ok il call....if she starts giving me some bs...then il ask her...what about saturday night...if she starts giving me bs for saturday then what

this is assumng if she answers...if she dont answer....i guess another VM?

waiting.......

DENNY,

IM SORRY I DIDNT PROVE MYSELF VERY KNOWLEDGEABLE ON THIS SUBJECT BUT ZENA IS NOT A LIBRA

WOMAN. I DONT EVEN THINK SHE IS A WOMAN. I AM BOTH. NOW, IF YOU WANT TO SCORE SOME

POINTS...GET AGGRESSIVE! THIS IS TURN ON. WE WANT THE GUY TO TAKE CHARGE. SHES CALLED

YOU AND THAT SAYS EVERYTHING. LIBRA GIRL WONT EVEN DO THAT MUCH IF SHE DOESNT THINK YOU

ARE SERIOUS BOYFRIEND MATERIAL. WE ARE LOOKING FOR PERFECT MATES AND COMPANIONS AND

LONG TERM SERIOUS MARRIAGE STUFF. WE DONT FOOL AROUND WITH ANYTHING ELSE. THERE IS NOT

ANY FRIVILOUS DATING OR FOOLING AROUND. SHE LIKES YOU AND SHE CALLED YOU AND THAT SAYS

IT ALL. SHE IS WAITING TO FOLLOW YOUR LEAD.

lol ^^^ pretty funny... you are a Libra? ^^^ now that's a surprise

SUMMARY=

SHE IS VIEWING YOU AS POTENTIAL HUSBAND! WE TAKE THIS PARTNERSHIP BUSINESS SERIOUSLY.

BE AS CHIVALROUS AS POSSIBLE.

YOU WILL DO FINE. DONT BE PARANOID BY COMMENTS. SOMETIMES WE DONT THINK AND JUST TALK.

LIKE WHEN SHE CALLED AND SAID SHE JUST WANTED TO SEE IF YOU WANTED TO GO TO MOVIE.
THAT PROBABLY TOOK ALOT OF COURAGE AND IT HAD NOTHING TO DO WITH YOU BEING LAST ON LIST.
IF ANYTHING, SHE IS FRETTING MORE THAN YOU EVER WILL. WELL MAYBE NOT BUT CLOSE.

YOU HAVE NOTHING TO WORRY ABOUT. WE DONT THINK THAT STRATEGICALLY.

big big surprise...

NO ANSWER

i was waiting for the vm to come but it rang like 9 times so i just hung up

if anything shell see the missed call and call me back hopefully

IM AM NOT ONLY A LIBRA BUT I AM A PURE LIBRA...A THOROUGHBRED SO TO SPEAK.

SUN, MOON AND MIDHEAVEN. PURE LIBRA! LAST DECAN TOO!

"Oh, the wind blows cold

on the trail of the buffalo-ox"

ain't that the truth.

that storm was freakin crazy. over a foot of snow here.

SHE WILL CALL YOU, DENNY. SHE IS PROBABLY OVER AT HER PARENTS HOUSE. YOU REALLY HAVE

NOTHING TO WORRY ABOUT. WE ARE TRANSPARENT AS YOU CAN GET. WHATEVER SHE SAYS IS PROBABLY TOTALLY TRUTH. THERE IS NO HIDDEN MEANINGS OR MESSAGES. SCORPIOS AND PAGANS IN GENERAL DO THAT. LIBRA IS INNOCENT. SCORPIOS START THE PROBLMES AND IT GETS WORSE
ALL THE WAY TO THE FISH (PISCES) WHO ARE OUTRIGHT SOCIOPATHIC NUT JOBS.

PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE DONT LET THESE PEOPLE CORRUPT YOU. DONT GET ALL STRATEGIC AND

PARANOID. IT WILL RUB OFF ON HER. WE PICK UP ON ALL THOSE THINGS AND IT GOES RIGHT
INTO US. ALL YOUR EMOTIONALISM WILL GO RIGHT INTO HER. CREATING TENSIONS AND
NERVOUSNESS FOR NO REASONS.

HELLO WHEELS,

THAT IS AN OLD TUNE. ITS ABOUT PLAYING YOUR LAST HAND OF CARDS IN A GAME OF HEARTBREAK.

actually, I would have guessed you a Scorpio from your writings Hothouse

hey wheeliepoo...

don't worry denny, or you can back it up with a text and just say something alone the lines of...' voicemail didn't engage so incase the call didn't come through, just wanted to find out if you're busy, blah blah...' 😉
what do you think?

ok i was planning on going to a mall which is fairly close to her house because the ones by me are closed on sundays...so i was going to leave her a vm asking her if she wanted to meet me at the mall and from there maybe dinner or a movie....

but im thinking of sending her a text when im at the mall telling her "hey im at willowbrook, do you want to meet me here and we can go see a movie or grab something to eat?"