sags are never jealous?

This topic was created in the Sagittarius forum by piscesbeauty on Friday, December 19, 2008 and has 21 replies.

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@piscesbeauty
17 YearsPisces

i have a male friend who is sag born december 18 who claims he was never jealous in a relationship. Is it because they are flirts so they arent jealous? I dont get it. My sisters born november 24 shes a sag an has a boyfriennd every week an whenever she gets dumped she has no jealousy an doesnt care whatsoever. Sometimes i wish i was a sag so i wouldnt have to be jealous jus act like it doesnt bother me.

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@brianafay
19 Years25,000+ PostsSagittarius

Hmm it's just a different kind of jealousy I think.
I've never gotten jealous if my boyfriend flirted with another girl or anything. & I've never been jealous of an exes new relationships. He's an ex for a reason...I don't want him, she can have him. Then again, I try to stay friends with them and stay amicable.
BUT if my boyfriend chooses someone else over me or gives someone more attention - ignores me...I get a little jealous deep down inside. He just won't know it and I certainly won't admit it.

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@SageTree
18 Years

Agreed Briana.........

I should be first if i am with someone, so why should i share my man with another that isn't even his girlfriend. But other than that if they are just flirting a little I get a little mad but it won't ruin my day. I will let it go really quick.

Scorp in Venus, so i think that when i love someone very much I can get jealous of where they plant their affections??

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@Sagittarius89
17 Years1,000+ PostsSagittarius

I don't get jealous cause I'm careless. It's not a good thing by the way. I see alot of sags this way, very outta touch with feelings, great with passion but not feelings. Don't wish you were something else be happy with the way you are. Your very lucky your so in touch with your emotions.

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@zenalchemy
18 Years5,000+ Posts

don't think it bad to be jealous if the provocation's valid --- it's a feeling, we all feel the same, it's how long we let the feeling last or how we react that makes us different

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@Insagiable
17 Years

If someone is flirting with my guy I don't care. If he reciprocates then it's a problem. But Sags don't really see it as a jealousy thing. It's more of a competitive thing or a matter of respect. They don't like to be made a fool of.

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@gslove
20 Years500+ Posts

Bullshit! They get jealous and they will never admit it not even to themselves. The way they deal with jealousy is to start rethinking the relationship and start pulling away until they start getting enough attention from you again.

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@piscesbeauty
17 YearsPisces

i have no sag in me at all for what i know i did my chart an i got
Pisces sun
Virgo rising
Aries in venus
aries in venus
Cancer in moon

Whats that mean

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@Sagittarius89
17 Years1,000+ PostsSagittarius

It means your rising sign is virgo:

Always seeking perfection, you find it difficult to accept situations or people as they are. You must learn to be more sensitive, my dear, and restrict your passion for constantly finding fault, for even well-meaning criticism can be hurtful and badly received. Practicality and conservatism feature strongly in your personality. While you do not favour flamboyant displays of affection and can even present an excessively puritanical facade in public, you can nevertheless be quite sensual and sexually-oriented in private.

Aries in venus: Direct and bold. You make your interest or intentions known, and are rarely subtle or shy about it. You can risk rejection, and recover from a rebuff. You'll flirt fearlessly and make overtures overtly.

Challenging. You present a challenge, acting coy or cocky or "hard-to-get". And you like a challenging conquest too. You may engage in sports or a game of chance to attract the attention of one you desire.

Competitive. You love to be chased, to elude, then let yourself be caught. Flirting is a game, and you play to win.

Ardent. You seem passionate, and love to be "swept away" with desire. You can be enthusiastic and energetic, and seem "full of fire" to one you desire.

Independent. You seem self-reliant, and you appreciate self-assurance in those you choose to flirt with. A wimp wouldn't win your warmth and affection.

Cancer moon:
The Cancer Moon is a sensitive, patient and devoted Moon. This Moon possesses literary and/or artistic abilities coupled with a sharp memory. The Cancer Moon learns and expresses everything through emotions and harbors a strong desire to be a nurturer. This Moon is likely to have heightened psychic abilities, although life itself is lived within a series of mood swings. The Cancer Moon is prone to the expression of insecurities in a smothering, possessive and/or jealous manner.

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@gslove
20 Years500+ Posts

Sag 89, you are so right about the men only getting jealous if they are the ones who are doing the cheating. Bad sign if a Sag guy is getting jealous. He is definitely up to something if that's the case.

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@seaclovers
18 Years

i completely agree that im not really a jealous person. its more of a competition to me. lol
and yes i do start to analyze the relationship if i notice him giving attention to someone more then me.. but i have nver made it a scene nor do i ever rarely bring it up because i dont particularly like confrontation and thus i wouldnt want to be in their shoes if they wanted to say what i have to say.

so i avoid it and then forget about it.
but i cant say i dont ever get jealous. i have a scorpio rising, so if there are strong feelings, my emotions run deep. and so does my jealousy, but i have a cappy moon and so its really hard to express how jealous i really am.
hahaha

i guess it kind works.
im like the master at hiding jealousy. lol jk

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@warholian
18 Years500+ Posts

^^ too funny.

i've never met an inherently jealous sag man or woman UNLESS there was a heavy scorp influence or they were on the cusp...

"Bad sign if a Sag guy is getting jealous. He is definitely up to something if that's the case."

definitely, defintely, definitely.