Sagis. Relationship. Drama (?)

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Hey Sags,,


What would you say was your best or/and your best or most successful relationship (what was their sign) Why did it end if it has?

Do you think that your (Sags) relationship always comes with a bit of drama due to your own issues or your lovers?

I've had 2 long term relationships: The first was with a violent lunatic, obsessive, jealous possessive Sag.

Reason for break up: The obvious reasons above.

The second with an Aries/Taurus cusp, Scorp rising who was so laid back he may aswell have been laying down, and indeed he was when he had his strides down cheating on me.

Reason for break up: The obvious (cheating)

Both relationships were definitely NOT drama free. The first one worse than the second. NO success is quite clear in both the above.

It did make me question myself once though, is it me? Am I the problem? Do I bring out the worst in the other person?

NO it's not, I'm a freaking Sag, it must be the other person. Sags are naturally the better half of the couple, HA HA!

The truth is though, I would have stuck it out with both the above when I was with them and my god I sure did. I stuck around even under the most DIER circumstances, wishing it was a phase, trying to make myself believe it wasn't my reality.

Sag/Sag/Aqua/Cap/Libra

Please state your Sun (if not a Sag) Moon/Mercury/Mars/Venus/Rising sign
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Ok my first was my Leo. I'd say we were together almost 7 years. He was 28 I was 16. It goes downhill from there lol. Physical abuse, verbal abuse the works. But we ended up developing a nice friendship. He gained a lot of trust for me as I always remained loyal and understood him. We eventually broke up because I finally grew up and began to value myself. We became friends again later. He thanked me for my love as he no longer abuses women. He Wanted to get back together, but I was very bitter and didn't feel for him romantically. He is my best friend till this day though...

I guess me being too young and passive probably fueled his fire lol. So in that sense I hold some responsibility.



My second is this Scorp. I call it a success because I actually fell in love which I'd never done before. I've never felt the way I do for any other man.

Now for the drama. He is a pot stirrer. But I do go buck wild in response lol. It seems with him since I feel so vulnerable, I'm hyper sensitive. I either get hurt and freak out or hold it in and freak out later when something else comes up. So it goes both ways. When he's mad he'll never say so, but will push my buttons and get right under my skin. I think a lot of issues from my childhood and my Leo cause me to go over the top in my reaction. So in that way, I contribute to the madness 😢
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Ive only had 1 boyfriend (leo) and he was a piss poor bf. i wouldnt even count him but we lasted 3 years, even though i wanted to break up during that last 2 years.

as a venus in cap, im very choosey when it comes to having a boyfriend. im not choosy about who i smash, but i am choosy about about who i give a title to. quality over quantity in this department. with a venus in cap, you dont choose us, we choose you.

i probably wont have another boyfriend. one was good enough for me. paid my dues to society.

as a scorp moon i am an acquired taste. if a dude taste me he's going to spit me out or lick the bowl. nothing in between. besides how they act, with myself, im either in or out. i either consume you or i dont. if im half ass, chances are that i am not serious about you.

ive always felt different in the world. like im in a playing field all my own. never found a dude to match my eccentricity.
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Ok my first was my Leo. I'd say we were together almost 7 years. He was 28 I was 16. It goes downhill from there lol. Physical abuse, verbal abuse the works. But we ended up developing a nice friendship. He gained a lot of trust for me as I always remained loyal and understood him. We eventually broke up because I finally grew up and began to value myself. We became friends again later. He thanked me for my love as he no longer abuses women. He Wanted to get back together, but I was very bitter and didn't feel for him romantically. He is my best friend till this day though...

I guess me being too young and passive probably fueled his fire lol. So in that sense I hold some responsibility.



My second is this Scorp. I call it a success because I actually fell in love which I'd never done before. I've never felt the way I do for any other man.

Now for the drama. He is a pot stirrer. But I do go buck wild in response lol. It seems with him since I feel so vulnerable, I'm hyper sensitive. I either get hurt and freak out or hold it in and freak out later when something else comes up. So it goes both ways. When he's mad he'll never say so, but will push my buttons and get right under my skin. I think a lot of issues from my childhood and my Leo cause me to go over the top in my reaction. So in that way, I contribute to the madness 😢



what was the mars sign of the leo?
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i also read the people with hades moons (scorp moon, moon aspected to pluto, moon 8th house) attract other hades mooners. so the pluto energy goes both ways.

i did a line up in another forum and every guy ive met has a hades moon. my father is also a hades moon. we beget each other. so IF i do ever create some spawn, that child will be the by product of 2 hades mooners and be a hades mooner herself.
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Bit of a strange one as my best and worst was with the Leo. We were together for 6 years. He got me really well, was wildly funny and we got close really quickly. I had some really good times with him. But he was a cheat, had violent tendancies and was arrogant. Towards the end I felt really caged in.

The best so far is with the Aqua. He's really sweet and we seem to have a unspoken phychic connection with eachother. He gets me in a completely different way, he's able to tap into the emotional side of me even though we aren't emotional people. It's strange but somehow it works. The main problem/drama is we are both too shy to ask eachother out for fear of rejection.

Sun - Sag / Moon - Aqua / Merc - Cap / Venus - Cap / Rising - Virgo


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I think they don't feel powerful with us and they resort to violence out of frustration.

My only problem with my friendship with my Leo ex is when he still tries to pull some controlling bull. I'm like back off dude! He gets offended then all hell breaks loose. This happens a couple of times a year, then it blows over lol.



omg Mebs. Same here!

just the other week, he got stranded in NC and it became my fault. yelled at me for not helping him out and i was like whatever dude. im not your gf anymore, you cant tell me shit.

it probably is the fact that they dont feel powerful with us. shit, does any sign—
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I think they don't feel powerful with us and they resort to violence out of frustration.

My only problem with my friendship with my Leo ex is when he still tries to pull some controlling bull. I'm like back off dude! He gets offended then all hell breaks loose. This happens a couple of times a year, then it blows over lol.



omg Mebs. Same here!

just the other week, he got stranded in NC and it became my fault. yelled at me for not helping him out and i was like whatever dude. im not your gf anymore, you cant tell me shit.

it probably is the fact that they dont feel powerful with us. shit, does any sign—
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