Scary

Me and the my sagg are getting along so well as of lately it's almost scary.......

The last couple of nights we have been on the phone all night having great conversations, sending sexy pics to each others, and just getting along GOOD.... it all started around two sunday's ago he just started being xtra nice and I am being xtra nice to him and it feels good but it's kinda scary too, idk just wanted to created a thread about some good news between a relationship with a scorp and sagg.

aww tell me more 🙂

Posted by DMV
aww tell me more 🙂

Well DMV things really pick up about two Sundays ago like I mention every text was like hi baby, I miss you baby, I want you baby, just really sweet texts or shall I say texts that I like to hear from him. We haven't be able to see each other lately because of our schedules which are crazy and I recently move about 45mins from where I used to live but he has really been on point, last night we talk about a lot of things but mainly SEX, we talk about a lot of our fantasies or things we would like to experience together. He also talk about "getting me knocked up as he put it" but he knows that can't happen until we get hopefully get married, we also talked about getting tattoos togethers either this weekend or the one after.

Everything has just been really calm and understanding between us 🙂
It's funny cause I always have doubts about our relationship but now I think he HAS to be the ONE...

Posted by Sutekh
Transiting jupiter in Taurus probably came within orb of his moon.

Sutekh you have never see both our charts together what do you think?

Me
Zodiac in degrees 0.00 Placidus Orb:0
Sun Scorpio 21.51 Ascendant Sagittarius 8.18
Moon Taurus 18.54 II Capricorn 11.45
Mercury Sagittarius 14.13 III Aquarius 20.34
Venus Scorpio 11.14 R IV Pisces 27.11
Mars Sagittarius 9.05 V Aries 26.17
Jupiter Leo 8.51 VI Taurus 19.05
Saturn Virgo 12.29 VII Gemini 8.18
Uranus Scorpio 17.03 VIII Cancer 11.45
Neptune Sagittarius 17.06 IX Leo 20.34
Pluto Libra 17.58 Midheaven Virgo 27.11
Lilith Leo 3.33 XI Libra 26.17
Asc node Virgo 25.04 XII Scorpio

him
Sun Sagittarius 1.02
Moon Pisces 20.21
Mercury Scorpio 16.44
Venus Sagittarius 5.18
Mars Scorpio 18.01
Jupiter Pisces 8.41
Saturn Cancer 18.24 R
Uranus Scorpio 0.08
Neptune Sagittarius 9.02
Pluto Libra 8.35
Lilith Aquarius 21.48
Asc node Sagittarius 10.11

Yay! When you titled it "scary" I was like uh-oh. But now I'm like 😄

Posted by Mebs
Yay! When you titled it "scary" I was like uh-oh. But now I'm like 😄

Awww some good news between sag & scorp. I like this 🙂 Scorpdiva I am rooting for you guys ... Keep us posted.!!

Posted by scorpdiva

Posted by DMV
aww tell me more 🙂

Well DMV things really pick up about two Sundays ago like I mention every text was like hi baby, I miss you baby, I want you baby, just really sweet texts or shall I say texts that I like to hear from him. We haven't be able to see each other lately because of our schedules which are crazy and I recently move about 45mins from where I used to live but he has really been on point, last night we talk about a lot of things but mainly SEX, we talk about a lot of our fantasies or things we would like to experience together. He also talk about "getting me knocked up as he put it" but he knows that can't happen until we get hopefully get married, we also talked about getting tattoos togethers either this weekend or the one after.

Everything has just been really calm and understanding between us 🙂
It's funny cause I always have doubts about our relationship but now I think he HAS to be the ONE...

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i think its soo cool to here this. the reason i asked is because i have noticed the parallels between the scorp/sag pairings, especially the timing. i had also discussed "fantasies" with the scorp and vice versa. but currently i have put him in time-out by putting myself in time out. getting too close and need to back off. the supermoon had a "back off" effect on me. whereas, you seemed to have had a new turning point.

does he have any children?
i think alot of the calm and understanding is from you. you seem to be less stubborn with that moon in tauri.

Posted by Mebs
Yay! When you titled it "scary" I was like uh-oh. But now I'm like 😄

whats your update?

Posted by DMV

Posted by scorpdiva

Posted by DMV
aww tell me more 🙂

Well DMV things really pick up about two Sundays ago like I mention every text was like hi baby, I miss you baby, I want you baby, just really sweet texts or shall I say texts that I like to hear from him. We haven't be able to see each other lately because of our schedules which are crazy and I recently move about 45mins from where I used to live but he has really been on point, last night we talk about a lot of things but mainly SEX, we talk about a lot of our fantasies or things we would like to experience together. He also talk about "getting me knocked up as he put it" but he knows that can't happen until we get hopefully get married, we also talked about getting tattoos togethers either this weekend or the one after.

Everything has just been really calm and understanding between us 🙂
It's funny cause I always have doubts about our relationship but now I think he HAS to be the ONE...

i think its soo cool to here this. the reason i asked is because i have noticed the parallels between the scorp/sag pairings, especially the timing. i had also discussed "fantasies" with the scorp and vice versa. but currently i have put him in time-out by putting myself in time out. getting too close and need to back off. the supermoon had a "back off" effect on me. whereas, you seemed to have had a new turning point.

does he have any children?
i think alot of the calm and understanding is from you. you seem to be less stubborn with that moon in tauri.

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Yes, he has three
a 18 year old son who he just help get his first real job, then a 5 year old boy and a 8 year old little girl and he is an excellent father, I would actually love to have a my last child with him cause after that I would be done.
and as you know I have my kids are daughters are the same ages also.

Posted by DMV

Posted by Mebs
Yay! When you titled it "scary" I was like uh-oh. But now I'm like 😄

whats your update?

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Yes mebs do tell, how are things going?

Hey DMV! Hey ScorpDiva! How are you ladies?

Well we are speaking again. But he is currently, it seems, coming to the end of his revenge stingfest lol. I apologized for the mean, nasty things I text him. He said "No do not apologize. I was wrong. I'm so sorry.". I took it at face value (dumb) but I noticed he was being an underhanded douch lord lol. I'd had enough and had words with him about it, still not linking it to our argument.

He did one obnoxious thing too many, so I confronted him about something he said. He got a little mad and basically ran. I spoke to him a few days later and he asked where I'd been. I told him it seemed as though he wanted to be alone so I obliged. He said,"I never told you that. You're the one that said you wanted to leave me. I've never said something like that to you.". That's when it dawned on me that his antics were out of hurt. He asked me to come see him at his post, so I did.

When I got there he said, "Get this straight. You belong to me and I'm not letting you go anywhere. I told you I have things on my mind. Let me get my head straight then we can be together. And stop your shit. You're mine. Do you understand?". I laughed and said, "Oh you think so?". But he didn't reply. Mofo has my number lol.

So there are major things that need to be ironed out, although he has been very nice as of late. I'm going to try to be a little more flexible with my quiet, verbally unaffectionate ways lol and my tendency to try to control him. The affection is there, but it seems as though we stay on different pages and trigger each other a lot. I'm just going to put my best foot forward and see where it leads me 🙂

that sounds very reassuring. im surprised he even mustered up the strength to tell you how he feels.

scorp sun, gemini moons can be very obnoxious! especially to my lil ol sensitive scorp moon. what is his mercury again?? your right in that he works outta hurt. he cant help himself.

just to give you an update on my scorp...i blurted out that he was my man. then i saw him a few nights later and he was silent about what had happened. so i kept things light and didnt discuss it, we had some horseplay. meanwhile at the party, i look up from the tv and see him hugging this girl. this was not some ordinary hug. theyve had relations. she is exactly his type. i didnt see the look in his eyes, but i saw the look in her eyes.

it completely ruined my night. he came up to me later on in the evening and tried to talk to me, but i gave him the death stare. he walked away and stared at me from the other side of the room.

i left about 5 mins later and some doodoo bird had blocked me in. i was visibly in a pissed off mood. but i kept my mouth shut because i dont like people to see me like that.

he came outside and stood by my car but i ignored him. i was too fuckin hurt to even acknowledge him. i was also mad at myself for allowing that hug to affect me so much. i cried about it to my aries bff the next day. i told her that i was sick and tired of loving someone who i cant love 100% .

fast forward monday night. i had a party at my house but i hard to work late so i never showed up to my own party (maybe on purpose). no one knew except my aries bff. she gave me a rundown of the night. she told me that he came over early and was happy and the first words was "wheres dmv?" she also said that he was visibly sad that i wasnt there and asked 3 more times where i was (why he wouldnt text me??) then he left in a hurry and didnt say goodbye.

ive thought about calling him but this shit has got to end. i feel like im fooling myself. he should get used to not seeing me. how does he think i feel when he goes back home to his "other" life??

so thats my update. i put myslef on ice to put him on ice.

Posted by Mebs
So there are major things that need to be ironed out, although he has been very nice as of late. I'm going to try to be a little more flexible with my quiet, verbally unaffectionate ways lol and my tendency to try to control him. The affection is there, but it seems as though we stay on different pages and trigger each other a lot. I'm just going to put my best foot forward and see where it leads me 🙂

This sounds like me and my guy we love each other deeply but sometimes we just are on different pages and this can tigger arguments which blow up to really big figths, but putting your best foot forward is the best way to go. Good luck :0

funny enough our conversation almost went left last night and I said something and the sagg thought I was upset, he immediately said "No beef baby damn" at that moment I though awww.. he really is trying. I was not upset at all but maybe sometimes my words come off that way which is something I am going to try and monitor.

Posted by DMV
scorp sun, gemini moons can be very obnoxious! especially to my lil ol sensitive scorp moon. what is his mercury again?? your right in that he works outta hurt. he cant help himself.

just to give you an update on my scorp...i blurted out that he was my man. then i saw him a few nights later and he was silent about what had happened. so i kept things light and didnt discuss it, we had some horseplay. meanwhile at the party, i look up from the tv and see him hugging this girl. this was not some ordinary hug. theyve had relations. she is exactly his type. i didnt see the look in his eyes, but i saw the look in her eyes.

it completely ruined my night. he came up to me later on in the evening and tried to talk to me, but i gave him the death stare. he walked away and stared at me from the other side of the room.

i left about 5 mins later and some doodoo bird had blocked me in. i was visibly in a pissed off mood. but i kept my mouth shut because i dont like people to see me like that.

he came outside and stood by my car but i ignored him. i was too fuckin hurt to even acknowledge him. i was also mad at myself for allowing that hug to affect me so much. i cried about it to my aries bff the next day. i told her that i was sick and tired of loving someone who i cant love 100% .

fast forward monday night. i had a party at my house but i hard to work late so i never showed up to my own party (maybe on purpose). no one knew except my aries bff. she gave me a rundown of the night. she told me that he came over early and was happy and the first words was "wheres dmv?" she also said that he was visibly sad that i wasnt there and asked 3 more times where i was (why he wouldnt text me??) then he left in a hurry and didnt say goodbye.

ive thought about calling him but this shit has got to end. i feel like im fooling myself. he should get used to not seeing me. how does he think i feel when he goes back home to his "other" life??

so thats my update. i put myslef on ice to put him on ice.

but is he going to let you put him on ice? he seems like the type that will make sure he is every where you are so that you can notice him.

(((hugs))) That sucks.

I feel you. You're in a very hard predicament. I am too in a sense.

Do you want a serious relationship with him? Have you discussed that possibility? Or is that something not even on the table based on his situation?

You feel too much for him to deal with him at the level you guys are on now. It's going to keep hurting. But at the same time, why numb your feelings? If it can evolve to a higher level, why not let it? I know with other dudes you seriously wouldn't give two shits lol. He's special to you. I think you two should try dealing with each other like you're special to each other as well. He cares, but he's carless with your feelings, as though youre not important. That isnt true. And vice-versa.

But being that you two socialize together, there really needs to be a clear cut understanding. Some lines that you two agree not to cross while in social circles, even if you decide not to make it a full blown relationship. That's just too painful for the both of you.

Dang I feel you girlie. I wouldn't be able to handle myself as wells you in the same situation. I would've definitely lost my cool. I really feel for you.

This Scorp has Merc in Scorp btw.

@scorpdiva,

yeah its tough to put him on ice, but ive done it b4 and i can do it again. i mean how would he feel if i were living with my baby daddy and actin like i had this family at home and then i had him on the side lickin my chops.

Posted by Mebs
(((hugs))) That sucks.

I feel you. You're in a very hard predicament. I am too in a sense.

Do you want a serious relationship with him? Have you discussed that possibility? Or is that something not even on the table based on his situation?

You feel too much for him to deal with him at the level you guys are on now. It's going to keep hurting. But at the same time, why numb your feelings? If it can evolve to a higher level, why not let it? I know with other dudes you seriously wouldn't give two shits lol. He's special to you. I think you two should try dealing with each other like you're special to each other as well. He cares, but he's carless with your feelings, as though youre not important. That isnt true. And vice-versa.

But being that you two socialize together, there really needs to be a clear cut understanding. Some lines that you two agree not to cross while in social circles, even if you decide not to make it a full blown relationship. That's just too painful for the both of you.

Dang I feel you girlie. I wouldn't be able to handle myself as wells you in the same situation. I would've definitely lost my cool. I really feel for you.

This Scorp has Merc in Scorp btw.

as far as relationships go, im not crossing that bridge till he builds.

I think you two should try dealing with each other like you're special to each other as well.

maybe

Good luck diva!

Thanks Ladies 🙂

scorpdiva -- it is so uplifting to read happy stories for scorp and sag 🙂 Thank you so much for sharing (((hugs)))

DMV -- you didn't see his expression when that girl hugged him?! Don't torture your Scorp man please... he is so into you, but it's funny you can't see it. In a way it reminds me of mr. Sag and myself. Scorps are supposedly the jealous ones, but it seems Sag is the jealous here. That is when our troubles started too, when Mr. Sag thought I went to a trip (the city of LOVE!!!...), when in fact those were only photos of dear friends, but he thought I went with someone to a place I wanted to go with him.

We are in non-talking terms.

As much as he occupies my mind.... (every day) and as much as I never seem to get rid of this enchantement I have for him (admiration) -- it is sad AND dumb! that these misunderstandings prevent us from being ourselves to each other.

Posted by FUM
scorpdiva -- it is so uplifting to read happy stories for scorp and sag 🙂 Thank you so much for sharing (((hugs)))

DMV -- you didn't see his expression when that girl hugged him?! Don't torture your Scorp man please... he is so into you, but it's funny you can't see it. In a way it reminds me of mr. Sag and myself. Scorps are supposedly the jealous ones, but it seems Sag is the jealous here. That is when our troubles started too, when Mr. Sag thought I went to a trip (the city of LOVE!!!...), when in fact those were only photos of dear friends, but he thought I went with someone to a place I wanted to go with him.

We are in non-talking terms.

As much as he occupies my mind.... (every day) and as much as I never seem to get rid of this enchantement I have for him (admiration) -- it is sad AND dumb! that these misunderstandings prevent us from being ourselves to each other.

hi FUM. yes scorpdiva's stories are always welcomed by me. i really enjoy reading hers because she can take an objective look at things. im just not there yet, im sooo subjective.

i jump to conclusions very readily. after not showing up for my last party. i saw him last night and he gives me a pound but it was so hard. made my hand sting. i told him sorry about the other night and he blew me off saying that he didnt care. yeah fucking right. aries told me that he was beside himself. cool, he can wear that mask if it helps him feel secure.

i cant help but torture him. my scorpio moon takes things so personal. i have venus sq saturn, which makes me sensitive to rejection.

then he proceeded to try to embarrass me in front of people over the infamous 3some. maybe because i was sitting on the bed of the guy i had a 3some with. i could see that. lol. i dont think he likes me anywhere near that guy. he couldnt even look at me sitting there. he sat with his back towards me and would turn and look back at me bit by bit. got up to get a drink and used that opportunity to get his looks in. so im ASSUMING that hes needs some space, i call it a night and he jumps up and asks me for a ride home. i was FLOORED! he usually gets a ride home from his DD.

so i drove him home, 2miles from my crib. we talked about my job and why i didnt show up. i purposely let out a secret that i know when he's tired.

with venus in retrograde im just looking at this opport

with venus in retrograde im just looking at this opportunity to relax and loosen up in regards to all my relationships. not everybody is the big bad wolf.

ROCK THE NERDS was saying that both saggis and scorps do alot of assuming because communication isnt that great, even though u may talk ALOT. So i think this is also the case in your situation. the misunderstandings are sooo irritating but theyre a learning experience.

Posted by DMV
with venus in retrograde im just looking at this opportunity to relax and loosen up in regards to all my relationships. not everybody is the big bad wolf.

ROCK THE NERDS was saying that both saggis and scorps do alot of assuming because communication isnt that great, even though u may talk ALOT. So i think this is also the case in your situation. the misunderstandings are sooo irritating but theyre a learning experience.

+1

I'm sorry, I haven't been here for a while. It was rather health matters of my mother... just to give an update since scorps are considered to hiding back into their caves. Which I don't object at all. We do! We need to resolve things in our heads first before going public again. Public is very tiring for the Scorpio.


I hope all has worked out in the meantime for all of you, my dear dxp friends.... lovely Saggies and their Scorpies. Unfortunately, there seems to be a disconnection and misunderstanding in communication. True. And very well observed... although we communicate quite a bit, understanding of each other's meanings seems to go to the wrong direction.

I can't say I resolved it. I think it is once and for all over this time between SAG man and myself. I wish him well. It's just not working for me and obviously I was under a false apprehension thinking he cared for me more than there was.

Posted by FUM
I'm sorry, I haven't been here for a while. It was rather health matters of my mother... just to give an update since scorps are considered to hiding back into their caves. Which I don't object at all. We do! We need to resolve things in our heads first before going public again. Public is very tiring for the Scorpio.


I hope all has worked out in the meantime for all of you, my dear dxp friends.... lovely Saggies and their Scorpies. Unfortunately, there seems to be a disconnection and misunderstanding in communication. True. And very well observed... although we communicate quite a bit, understanding of each other's meanings seems to go to the wrong direction.

I can't say I resolved it. I think it is once and for all over this time between SAG man and myself. I wish him well. It's just not working for me and obviously I was under a false apprehension thinking he cared for me more than there was.

Fum, I am sorry to hear that, you are right that we communicate different so it's a constant struggle to make the other one truly understand what you are trying to say, in my case we disagree but lately we work thing out right away for me going to bed mad is not a good thing for I might do something crazy that next day. For scorps we have to feel like the other person cares for us to work our hardest at the relationship so if you don't feel it with him then you have no choice but too move on.
Good Luck 🙂

Posted by FUM
I'm sorry, I haven't been here for a while. It was rather health matters of my mother... just to give an update since scorps are considered to hiding back into their caves. Which I don't object at all. We do! We need to resolve things in our heads first before going public again. Public is very tiring for the Scorpio.


I hope all has worked out in the meantime for all of you, my dear dxp friends.... lovely Saggies and their Scorpies. Unfortunately, there seems to be a disconnection and misunderstanding in communication. True. And very well observed... although we communicate quite a bit, understanding of each other's meanings seems to go to the wrong direction.

I can't say I resolved it. I think it is once and for all over this time between SAG man and myself. I wish him well. It's just not working for me and obviously I was under a false apprehension thinking he cared for me more than there was.

uhhh, can you elaborate?