Something from my observation

Don't take it too serious, because this was supposed to post somewhere. But it's bit off-topic, so I just post over here instead.

Sags know when, who, and how to respect people, which is good. But unfortunately, it's not good enough. When you look a little bit closer, it's not that hard to notice their rudeness, for instance, if you just did a good job on something, their reaction is either quiet or trying to change the subject. No matter what, they do not praise you. Sometimes people need to be encouraged, however, Sag people just can't do that. They can be sympathetic, although they don't like to be that. Plus, they like to call their friends or their family "hey" or "hi", and they can say, "I gotta go" anytime they want without caring how other people feel.

Sadly this is pretty spot on. It's subtle, so you might not notice it immediately, but its definitely there. Shady is the word that best describes it. That's why when someone tells me theyre a Sagittarius i keep my distance and dont get too involved. The worst part is how they like to act coy or like they dont know what theyre doing. Never would i waste too much time or invest too much energy in these people.

Deep down you know we're awesome little something that can't resist us and makes you wonder eh eh??!!! Why else would you be bothered!!
just JK.

Sorry to hear but you must have had bad exp with Sags cuz not all of us are like that. I wouldn't call it shady tho. Yeah I'm guilty of some of these. Esp ''i gotta go'' I'm not even bothered with you cuz i assume you laid it out there, you got feedback isnt that enough? There's another day we can discuss issues again. I personally have a short term thing.

Also depends on your attitude but I have no problem telling you I respect and praise you for your accomplishments or w/e I'd tell you in your face! What do you expect? I tend to bring up my admiration for you randomly as well as a reminder I think highly of you. Key with Sags is deep down knowing they CARE. I do. I just often can't find the right words to make it clear to you.

Shame you're trying to avoid Sags tho hop in the ride if you want to, if not your loss! 😄

Posted by Magenta_Azure
Sadly this is pretty spot on. It's subtle, so you might not notice it immediately, but its definitely there. Shady is the word that best describes it. That's why when someone tells me theyre a Sagittarius i keep my distance and dont get too involved. The worst part is how they like to act coy or like they dont know what theyre doing. Never would i waste too much time or invest too much energy in these people.

Here is the huge difference between sag men and sag women, and that difference is that a large number of sag men are shady, but I can't see that on most sag women. Sag women are really reliable, especially after they are married.

About "act coy", it's how sag men interact with girls they like, and you can see them doing this more often in the beginning of any relationship.

Posted by hoolahoopsy
Deep down you know we're awesome little something that can't resist us and makes you wonder eh eh??!!! Why else would you be bothered!!
just JK.

Sorry to hear but you must have had bad exp with Sags cuz not all of us are like that. I wouldn't call it shady tho. Yeah I'm guilty of some of these. Esp ''i gotta go'' I'm not even bothered with you cuz i assume you laid it out there, you got feedback isnt that enough? There's another day we can discuss issues again. I personally have a short term thing.

Also depends on your attitude but I have no problem telling you I respect and praise you for your accomplishments or w/e I'd tell you in your face! What do you expect? I tend to bring up my admiration for you randomly as well as a reminder I think highly of you. Key with Sags is deep down knowing they CARE. I do. I just often can't find the right words to make it clear to you.

Shame you're trying to avoid Sags tho hop in the ride if you want to, if not your loss! 😄

If I directly say their bad in the front of my sag friends, they really don't like it. It's quite normal, because other signs also don't like it either. But when you say, "why you act like that is because of your sag nature", their reaction will be really positive about that.

Actually, I really like sag people, and almost all my good friends are saggies. They are not direct about something I mentioned above, but other from that, they are basically straightforward. And this is what I need for my friend and partner.

You guys are just so cute for me.=D

oh by the way, they don't praise you directly, however they do this to themselves or other people in the front of you 😆

Posted by richie8813
... But unfortunately, it's not good enough...

This term will ruin your life. Watch out.

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Posted by richie8813
... But unfortunately, it's not good enough...

This term will ruin your life. Watch out.

Um, can we all take a moment and acknowledge the life-altering power of this post?

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I only share this kind of thoughts with my family or people on the internet. If I wanna tell this to my friends or my loved one, I must do as hard as I can to make them feel like it's just the casual talk first. And also, it has nothing to do with how I demand from people. When they become my friends, I usually can accept their all behaviors or personalities. However, it doesn't mean there is no line, and my line is about respect and the law.

"It's not good enough" really has the life-altering power, it makes me a better person, and I'm always pursuing the perfection in my life, even it doesn't exist.

Posted by RainDancer88
Sags care way more then we show and are selfless people. I go out of my way to be kind, helpful, and understanding. I am deeply empathetic, but I don't think any situation is unfixable so offer a sunny side and move on!

We don't believe in over exaggerating our affections. We like you therefore we don't avoid you.

If what I remember is correct, you do have Venus in Scorpio. This makes you more emotional than average sag, and like what you said, you are deeply empathetic.

And because you are more emotional, so you are more moody as well.

Yep, Sag really don't exaggerate their affections, I 100% agree with you.

Posted by RainDancer88
I praise everyone!

But I will leave as soon as I'm ready but consider it our way of doing you a favor. When our attention span is gone, we will just think about leaving so at least you know when we are there it's because we want to be and our focus is on you 😄

I know you do praise eveyoneee 😆

And thanks for your explaining about the part "leaving". I thought you guys just do what you feel at that moment, but it's all clear now.

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Posted by RainDancer88
I praise everyone!

But I will leave as soon as I'm ready but consider it our way of doing you a favor. When our attention span is gone, we will just think about leaving so at least you know when we are there it's because we want to be and our focus is on you 😄

I know you do praise eveyoneee 😆

And thanks for your explaining about the part "leaving". I thought you guys just do what you feel at that moment, but it's all clear now.

You are very openminded, never loose that trait. And yay! Did I make a believer outta you 😛

You are welcome for whatever it is I did for you, dear. I'm here to please!

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ohhh thank you very much, and yep, I will try to keep that forever. =D

Every time people say something good about me, it makes me feel like the drug, which can let me be feeling happy for almost 3 or 4 hours

@richie8813,

have your Sag woman ever praised your relationship? If yes, would you please refelct them in the thread "Sagittarius's Darling Appreciation Thread"? That collection may help people know how to make their Sags happy. No hurry. Take your time.

-- thanks in advance

Yes, she has done this before, even though her moon sign is Virgo, which lets her have some difficulties to express her feeling. And, I'll post what I still remember in your thread this weekend.

^^^^ nice, thank you.