What should I do with this sag??

Met this guy, one of the few I've ever really been attracted to. We were seeing each other previously for about 6 months. But something went down and things got kinda ugly so I decided it was better if we went our separate ways and broke it off. We were separated for 5 months, the whole time he kept contacting me even though I was not responding.

So I decided to answer him and we reunited. It started out good. He even introduced me to his mom and some friends. He kept telling me he loved me but I didn't say it back because I'm not sure if it's love I'm feeling for him and I did not want to lie.

But once he went back to school I stopped hearing from him. So I asked him why. He told me he was busy with school and work plus he just got his own place. So I was like ok I understand but it would make me feel better if u could send me a text or call me once in a while, it doesn't have to be everyday. I even asked him if he was feeling ok. He said he was good and he said he was sorry.

My bday week came around and our texting was so dry. We couldn't even have a conversation. I didn't even see him on my bday even though I asked to see him which made me sad.

But a week later he disappeared again. So I texted him and he apologized again. But I sent an angry text and told him don't apologize if u don't mean it. And that I couldn't be with someone who doesn't want to talk to me or didn't make me feel like a priority and that I was starting to lose interest. He said he couldn't stand my attitude. And I haven't heard from him since. I miss him what do I do? Should I give him space? Did I mess it up?

Thanks in advance

I have a sore spot for birthdays. Acknowledgement is so important especially from someone you like or love.

You did nothing wrong.

He sounds like a young horse whose got alot on his plate. You constantly wanting to see him probably wore him thin. He just doesn't have the time to make you a priority.

Alas, if you must try again. Fall back. Do nothing. If he misses you, he will reach back out. Dont nag or ask why this or that. Simply enjoy the company. See how that works..simply enjoy the company.

@tiziani I know I regret saying that but I felt like I was just waiting on him all the time and was not hearing from him. He didn't even make an effort for my bday. So the anger kinda built up.

@DMV yes this is the approach I am taking right now. But it's killing me inside

Yes I def will. I'll try to control my Scorpio dominance and my cancer mars.

I looked up his chart too. He is Scorpio dominant also but with pisces mars

@rosakowsya I said the same thing. But then why go and introduce me to ur mom. Or sometimes he'll be like we don't have to have sex we can cuddle.(I'm not a cuddled though) or try to hold my hand? I'mean not very affectionate. Maybe I'm thinking this had a toll on our relationship.

Or maybe he's just a good manipulator? For so long though? Is he that bored?

Posted by Virgooo
@rosakowsya I said the same thing. But then why go and introduce me to ur mom. Or sometimes he'll be like we don't have to have sex we can cuddle.(I'm not a cuddled though) or try to hold my hand? I'mean not very affectionate. Maybe I'm thinking this had a toll on our relationship.

Or maybe he's just a good manipulator? For so long though? Is he that bored?

Gosh. Youre exhausting.

@DMV how? I'm just trying to figure this out and need some help

Just my take, but it sounds as though he's the one who's lost interest...and/or was never really that interested. You were fun to spend time with for a little while, but only when did had nothing better to do. Now that he has school and likely others to occupy him he has no need for you .

What he meant by he couldn't stand your attitude was really his way of saying "why are you trying to be so serious ?" Like don't kill my vibe type of thing. "Why can't you just chill?"



And you deserve better than that so find someone who has time for you and is as serious about you as you are about them.

Thanks guys. I'll def pay more attention to his actions if he does end up contacting me. But if he doesn't how do I move on without any closure?

You can easily pull a response from him. Just appeal to the morality of a sag. Explain your feelings like you would in a courtroom. We can very empathetic so if you can put him in your shoes at that time, you'll get a response, but time will tell if he will ever let it go.

Update: he texted me 2 days ago. Said he missed me and asked when he was gonna see me.

Posted by Rosaknowsya
And it's not a relationship until its mutual. You're like the excess dough in my Boston cream doughnut. I normally peel it off because I don't want it.

You are deserving of love. He doesn't define you. Be with someone who treats you like you are the cream in the center.

This is so good! 😄

Someone that treats you like the cream in the center! I'm so gonna steal that quote from you 😄

Posted by Virgooo
Update: he texted me 2 days ago. Said he missed me and asked when he was gonna see me.

Awesome. Enjoy the company. No more nagging