what the deal?

I have been with this guy for over 3 years. We both love each other very much but the relationship can be exhausting to say the least. I am starting to hate myself because of all the compromises I get tricked into...you know, when someone says like "yes darling, you are so right, I'm so stupid...but you know, I am SO and you are somehow different and that's bad" in a manner that you feel guilty despite of the fact that you really didn't do anything wrong?). I do love him a lot but the communication part is the worst..He can be so lousy at it . Like whenever I bring something to his attention that bothers me.. He wants to make light of it and make attempts to avoid addressing the situation or doesn't want to talk about it.He would disappear and ignored me. As a Scorpio I know a thing or two about that and have no problem pulling disappearing acts. I am afraid that he is driving me away because he appears so careless sometimes. Last week at my house, he was on the phone talking with someone he sound somewhat upset like he did not want to be brother. He got off the phone and I asked him what's wrong he said he did not want to speak to that person so the phone kept going off like 5 times. The next day I spend the whole day without calling him. When he called I told him that I was thinking about the calls last night and I wanted him to tell me who was calling him so much. He said that I didn't know the person and that happen last night not to worry about it because it will not happen again. Basically he did not answer my question. I could not belief that was his only reply.Basically I told him to contact me when he wants to answer my questions since he was not ready to do so. I have not heard from him since.I know that I am not overreacting.I'm really at the point where I want to tell him to come correct or leave me alone.??_

Maybe it was an ex? I would hide things like the from my scorp

Or maybe he just really didn't want to talk about it

I ask him what is the name of the person ? Who was it ? and he said not to worry about it and that it wont happen again. What won't happen again—?? and then dead silent WTH—

All I want is to know who? By him not given me an answer make him guilty. Failure to respond make it seem like there's more to it.. I didn't not want to make a big deal out of it but now I am getting pretty upset...

Not guitly in a sense of cheating , but there's def more to it. A guy would not call 5 times back to back 🙂

no it was def a girl , called it a woman/ scorpio instinct 🙂. I was expecting to answer my question ,tell me someting . But dont't just brush me off 😢

He is also not helping the situation by avoiding me. I am waiting to see what's next as I told to call me when he ready . I now have more questions because there's a lot of things going tru my mind 😢

Hmmm...maybe he feels he's being pushed too much? Most Scorpio women I know are pretty bossy. As a Sag, I tend to rebel when I feel too hemmed in or bossed around. It just irks me. Maybe as a man he feels that way even more so. And I hate ultimatums. That really throws me into screw you mode. I mean you've know him for quite a while, so I'm sure you know his quirks.What do you think?

I said to call me when he ready to answer because the conversation wasnt going anywhere and he said basically kept saying to let it go and mention that wont happen again. What??
Oh then he said if I dont want to tell you dont call. I said yeah.
And I meant it. He should just tell me instead ... I dont get it. There's no way around it.
I am not asking for much unless it's more to it.

Just feel sorry for U 😢 I have heard so many stories that Scorpio does NOT match with fire signs...

Sag is the most "uncontrollable" sign out of 12... Sags are willing to be with those who would not like to control them.

I am not bossy it's just that rather know the truth then be in the dark. I would rather be alone .
unless he wants to lose me ,he will have to tell me. Otherwise I will have to believe that person is more important to him than our relationship.

Posted by luckystar007
Just feel sorry for U 😢 I have heard so many stories that Scorpio does NOT match with fire signs...

Sag is the most "uncontrollable" sign out of 12... Sags are willing to be with those who would not like to control them.

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Let me be clear, I dont believe I am being pushy. No one is controlling no one here. If I am your girl, you are at my house and you are upset about a call . I asked you who that was, I expressed my concerns to you. did I mention the calls came in very late hours. And then you dont feel the need to tell me. I dont know your friends, you could have said Carol for all I care. I would have probe you for more questions but noone is doubting you, let alone accusing you. Silence says a lot. I guess I should think whatever.

No,not really🙂 He may think I will be calmer by a few days but...he is rebelling. It maube nothing than a girl calling him and I am happen to be there. But he is making a big deal out of it. Power control
I know in relationship people compromise, that is not the case here. My mind will not let it go like he wants me to. No way, no rest 😢

Posted by depth_scorp
Let me be clear, I dont believe I am being pushy. No one is controlling no one here. If I am your girl, you are at my house and you are upset about a call . I asked you who that was, I expressed my concerns to you. did I mention the calls came in very late hours. And then you dont feel the need to tell me. I dont know your friends, you could have said Carol for all I care. I would have probe you for more questions but noone is doubting you, let alone accusing you. Silence says a lot. I guess I should think whatever.

Yes I'm sure you don't. But you posted this on the Sag board. We are speaking to you from a Sag point of view. Wether you BELIEVE it or not, you ARE being pushy. My Leo BFF and his Scorp mom have EPIC battles over precisely the same things, and she doesn't see what she's doing wrong. And again, take it or leave it, Sags don't like ultimatums.

Now look at it this way. Like you mentioned, he could've made up some B.S. name just to shut you up. THAT'S disrespectful. He didn't do that. He just didn't want to tell you right then, and you keep pushing it. Aka being pushy lol.

He is making a big deal out of it by not answering and also avoiding it 😢 I did not even had to ask him , he should have volunteered the info.I gave him the look and he didnt say nada. He could have said like so and so keep calling me. Well I've handled it the best way I could.Because truly the scorpio in me just wanted to smash that phone 🙂 against the wall(. But one must control their emotions .It may be over in his mind but out of consideration for me he could have just tell me. And when we are done, there will def be no regret on my part as I bend over backwards for this relationship😢.

I know your situatiion all to well, with me being a scorp women dating a sagg men
If he was cheating you would know it, sometimes they don't like to explain things fully, they would rather ignore it espically if it is nothing important or worthwhile to them. My sagg does things to bother me and when I ask for an explanation or why is this or that he shut down and communication is like non existence, then normally after we don't talk for a couple of days then talk again he will let me know what I wanted to know in the first place just in general conversation.

Like for example my sagg has a page on a social site he knows I looked at it from time to time to see what he is doing he actually get's a kick out of me viewing it which I will tell him. Everytime he gets a new friend on this site I will ask question like why is this or that, he will say "it's nothing" change subject then we will be talking and he will be like I never communicate or even correspond with those females they are just my friends on this site. He never lies to me this I know from the 2years we have been together so I trust what he says. I didn't have to ask anymore question cause just from our conversation I know that he isn't doing anything just being friendly. My sagg knows if he is around me the phone is silent cause like you I will asked question like wise I do the same so we don't have those issues.

With these guys giving them those options like call me when you want to tell me or this and that doesn't work, We can get away with that with most signs but not sagg they will try to up do you and see who will win or who will call who first or what ever the case may be. they will not back down easily you have to almost ease them into doing what you want in a sense.

Scordiva , I feel like we are dating the same guy. I am 11-19 and my guy is 11/23. Maybe it had to do with our birthday being so close but this guy is too much. I mean I truly could say that my sag never lies to me too.So what the problem ? I mean you can't just tell me don't worry about it and it wont happen again. That wasn't the question. So I mean in what normal relationship is this acceptable behavior. It's always a power trip with him and its draining 😢 I def know what you mean by get away with other signs 🙂

Posted by depth_scorp
Scordiva , I feel like we are dating the same guy. I am 11-19 and my guy is 11/23. Maybe it had to do with our birthday being so close but this guy is too much. I mean I truly could say that my sag never lies to me too.So what the problem ? I mean you can't just tell me don't worry about it and it wont happen again. That wasn't the question. So I mean in what normal relationship is this acceptable behavior. It's always a power trip with him and its draining 😢 I def know what you mean by get away with other signs 🙂

I am 11/14 he is 11/23 crazy enough, we have been dating for 2years power trip and draining is the word, they don't want us scorp females I guess or any women for that matter to have that control these saggs men will fight to the end. We constantly have battles and then we are apart but then we can't be apart for too long so then we talk it out and explain things to each other. I always tell him communication is important u can't shut down I need to know what you are thinking in that head of yours, he tells me I think too much.

I know in your situation my sagg would have said the same thing then when I fuss enough he would finally tell me but he would tell under his control in his own way. Like in general conversation then he will say ok see like the person who call me the other day they are this or that and I need to change my phone number or what ever. I don't think he will tell you who it was calling on your terms it will have to be on his terms.

wow my guy has the same birth as yours ScorpDiva. Sometimes I feel like we are soulmates, but sometimes I really think why bother. They are just a pain but boy do we love them... the love is godly truly
We make up and break up and so on. But I love him. His boyish charm and witty sense of humor always make me melt. A sucker for love.We should probably go our separate ways and have tried but we keep getting drawn back in (like moths to a flame.) The sex is awesome and the friendship is solid.
ScorpDiva what the longest have you guys remained NOT talking with each other?

Posted by depth_scorp
wow my guy has the same birth as yours ScorpDiva. Sometimes I feel like we are soulmates, but sometimes I really think why bother. They are just a pain but boy do we love them... the love is godly truly
We make up and break up and so on. But I love him. His boyish charm and witty sense of humor always make me melt. A sucker for love.We should probably go our separate ways and have tried but we keep getting drawn back in (like moths to a flame.) The sex is awesome and the friendship is solid.
ScorpDiva what the longest have you guys remained NOT talking with each other?

The longest was 2mths, I was going to stay strong and then out the blue he text me that he miss me. For some reason I can't move on cause like you said I feel as if he is my soul mate, I have options to date others but it's like they don't compare to him, the sex, friendship, and personality. Like you said too sometimes I am like why bother, but I always try again to see if the next time will be better so we will see how this time works out, you get tired of the back and forth plus the constant battles sometimes.

Haha scorpdiva you are so right. Such a power struggle between scorpio and sag it's ridiculous. I do it for the shits and giggles just to show I can. But yeah I will usually just reveal whatever it is later. I'm pretty open about stuff and I don't hold stuff in for long (even with all the scorpio in my chart) because after a while I get bored and just don't care about it anymore. It bugs you guys so much doesn't it 😛

Definitely agree with you Depth on being drawn back in. I find that in different instances me and the scorpio are drawn back to each other, even when we've said we weren't going to.

This shit is so true lol

Posted by depth_scorp
Let me be clear, I dont believe I am being pushy. No one is controlling no one here. If I am your girl, you are at my house and you are upset about a call . I asked you who that was, I expressed my concerns to you. did I mention the calls came in very late hours. And then you dont feel the need to tell me. I dont know your friends, you could have said Carol for all I care. I would have probe you for more questions but noone is doubting you, let alone accusing you. Silence says a lot. I guess I should think whatever.

i think your being a lil bit much. just because you his girl, doesnt give you full range into his life.

Posted by depth_scorp
He is making a big deal out of it by not answering and also avoiding it 😢 I did not even had to ask him , he should have volunteered the info.I gave him the look and he didnt say nada. He could have said like so and so keep calling me. Well I've handled it the best way I could.Because truly the scorpio in me just wanted to smash that phone 🙂 against the wall(. But one must control their emotions .It may be over in his mind but out of consideration for me he could have just tell me. And when we are done, there will def be no regret on my part as I bend over backwards for this relationship😢.

boy, you are in for the shock of your life.

i commend you for attempting to set boundaries in your relationship early. this is even more important with saggis. we will trot around like everything is honkey dorey. but theres a waltz to it and your stepping all over his toes. pull back, let him lead, and manipulate subtly. dont outright say "who the hell was that" right after he gets off the phone. wait, use some of that scorpio strategy. get out and do some sag activities, some of his favorite things. then real slick like, just be like "baby i noticed u were real upset the other day, is there anything i can do?" thigh rubs work wonders and food!

whats the rest of his chart look like?

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Posted by depth_scorp
He is making a big deal out of it by not answering and also avoiding it 😢 I did not even had to ask him , he should have volunteered the info.I gave him the look and he didnt say nada. He could have said like so and so keep calling me. Well I've handled it the best way I could.Because truly the scorpio in me just wanted to smash that phone 🙂 against the wall(. But one must control their emotions .It may be over in his mind but out of consideration for me he could have just tell me. And when we are done, there will def be no regret on my part as I bend over backwards for this relationship😢.

boy, you are in for the shock of your life.

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Like I said its done and over with. Nothing shocking, not that desperate. If he called me and he will have to tell me. If not , oh well life goes on .... It's a shame because I dont know how female can't take any butter from men. I will not be a doormat. I love and repect myself I don't have a problem being single . you teach people how to treat you.
You shape others' behavior when you teach them what they can get away with and what they cannot.I dont know in what world of a normal relationship can a guy received calls past 11pm and it's not a family member or an emergency and to think it's nothing for the girlfriend NOT to ask . Not in mine... wow, relationship are AT WIlL...

Posted by happykitsune
Haha scorpdiva you are so right. Such a power struggle between scorpio and sag it's ridiculous. I do it for the shits and giggles just to show I can. But yeah I will usually just reveal whatever it is later. I'm pretty open about stuff and I don't hold stuff in for long (even with all the scorpio in my chart) because after a while I get bored and just don't care about it anymore. It bugs you guys so much doesn't it 😛

Definitely agree with you Depth on being drawn back in. I find that in different instances me and the scorpio are drawn back to each other, even when we've said we weren't going to.

Exactly, saggs don't hold secrets they will eventually tell you that's why I never make a big deal about anything like that because he will always end up telling me what I want to know.

Posted by DMV
i commend you for attempting to set boundaries in your relationship early. this is even more important with saggis. we will trot around like everything is honkey dorey. but theres a waltz to it and your stepping all over his toes. pull back, let him lead, and manipulate subtly. dont outright say "who the hell was that" right after he gets off the phone. wait, use some of that scorpio strategy. get out and do some sag activities, some of his favorite things. then real slick like, just be like "baby i noticed u were real upset the other day, is there anything i can do?" thigh rubs work wonders and food!

whats the rest of his chart look like?

True story, they like control as a scorp we know how to manipulate which is not always a good thing but with a sagg men you will have power struggles so you can have to subtly get him to see things your way.

Posted by DMV
i commend you for attempting to set boundaries in your relationship early. this is even more important with saggis. we will trot around like everything is honkey dorey. but theres a waltz to it and your stepping all over his toes. pull back, let him lead, and manipulate subtly. dont outright say "who the hell was that" right after he gets off the phone. wait, use some of that scorpio strategy. get out and do some sag activities, some of his favorite things. then real slick like, just be like "baby i noticed u were real upset the other day, is there anything i can do?" thigh rubs work wonders and food!

whats the rest of his chart look like?

I have been in a 5 hrs meeting 😢
Sun 01?? 32' Sagittarius
Moon 20?? 44' Gemini
Mercury 12?? 37' Scorpio
Venus 29?? 31' Libra
Mars 01?? 14' Capricorn
Jupiter 04?? 56' Libra
Saturn 07?? 05' Libra
Uranus 26?? 13' Scorpio
Neptune 21?? 39' Sagittarius
Pluto 23?? 12' Libra


I noticed those moon in Gemini is nothing good🙂

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Posted by DMV
i commend you for attempting to set boundaries in your relationship early. this is even more important with saggis. we will trot around like everything is honkey dorey. but theres a waltz to it and your stepping all over his toes. pull back, let him lead, and manipulate subtly. dont outright say "who the hell was that" right after he gets off the phone. wait, use some of that scorpio strategy. get out and do some sag activities, some of his favorite things. then real slick like, just be like "baby i noticed u were real upset the other day, is there anything i can do?" thigh rubs work wonders and food!

whats the rest of his chart look like?

True story, they like control as a scorp we know how to manipulate which is not always a good thing but with a sagg men you will have power struggles so you can have to subtly get him to see things your way.

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I know I could because I trust me I have in the past... I am just fed up with uneccessary drama over stupid stuffs.

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Posted by DMV
i commend you for attempting to set boundaries in your relationship early. this is even more important with saggis. we will trot around like everything is honkey dorey. but theres a waltz to it and your stepping all over his toes. pull back, let him lead, and manipulate subtly. dont outright say "who the hell was that" right after he gets off the phone. wait, use some of that scorpio strategy. get out and do some sag activities, some of his favorite things. then real slick like, just be like "baby i noticed u were real upset the other day, is there anything i can do?" thigh rubs work wonders and food!

whats the rest of his chart look like?

True story, they like control as a scorp we know how to manipulate which is not always a good thing but with a sagg men you will have power struggles so you can have to subtly get him to see things your way.

I know I could because I trust me I have in the past... I am just fed up with uneccessary drama over stupid stuffs.

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Yeah I feel you, how does your chart look just wondering

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Posted by DMV
i commend you for attempting to set boundaries in your relationship early. this is even more important with saggis. we will trot around like everything is honkey dorey. but theres a waltz to it and your stepping all over his toes. pull back, let him lead, and manipulate subtly. dont outright say "who the hell was that" right after he gets off the phone. wait, use some of that scorpio strategy. get out and do some sag activities, some of his favorite things. then real slick like, just be like "baby i noticed u were real upset the other day, is there anything i can do?" thigh rubs work wonders and food!

whats the rest of his chart look like?

True story, they like control as a scorp we know how to manipulate which is not always a good thing but with a sagg men you will have power struggles so you can have to subtly get him to see things your way.

I know I could because I trust me I have in the past... I am just fed up with uneccessary drama over stupid stuffs.

Yeah I feel you, how does your chart look just wondering

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Any need help will be nice because I feel burn out . Here it is , Gemini moon are weird 🙂
ME
Sun 26?? 57' Scorpio
Moon 06?? 03' Virgo
Mercury 15?? 01' Scorpio
Venus 13?? 46' Capricorn
Mars 16?? 30' Virgo
Jupiter 28?? 29' Libra
Saturn 17?? 57' Libra
Uranus 00?? 11' Sagittarius
Neptune 23?? 35' Sagittarius
Pluto 25?? 32' Libra
Ascendant 29?? 13' Libra
Midheaven 28?? 51' Cancer



HIM
Sun 01?? 32' Sagittarius
Moon 20?? 44' Gemini
Mercury 12?? 37' Scorpio
Venus 29?? 31' Libra
Mars 01?? 14' Capricorn
Jupiter 04?? 56' Libra
Saturn 07?? 05' Libra
Uranus 26?? 13' Scorpio
Neptune 21?? 39' Sagittarius
Pluto 23?? 12' Libra

I am not good with charts but others on this sagg board should be able to break down the charts for you. They help me a lot when I first started dating my sagg.......

He's a Sag sun and a Gem mooner? Bulldozing him and trying to hem him in will end up ugly. He loves freedom.

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Posted by DMV
i commend you for attempting to set boundaries in your relationship early. this is even more important with saggis. we will trot around like everything is honkey dorey. but theres a waltz to it and your stepping all over his toes. pull back, let him lead, and manipulate subtly. dont outright say "who the hell was that" right after he gets off the phone. wait, use some of that scorpio strategy. get out and do some sag activities, some of his favorite things. then real slick like, just be like "baby i noticed u were real upset the other day, is there anything i can do?" thigh rubs work wonders and food!

whats the rest of his chart look like?

I have been in a 5 hrs meeting 😢
Sun 01?? 32' Sagittarius
Moon 20?? 44' Gemini
Mercury 12?? 37' Scorpio
Venus 29?? 31' Libra
Mars 01?? 14' Capricorn
Jupiter 04?? 56' Libra
Saturn 07?? 05' Libra
Uranus 26?? 13' Scorpio
Neptune 21?? 39' Sagittarius
Pluto 23?? 12' Libra


I noticed those moon in Gemini is nothing good🙂

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lmao. girl, u aint neva lied!

His merc in scorpio will make him strategize in how he communicates as well. Gemini mooners are CUNNING and mixed with a cunning mercury sign. sheesh. I have a merc in scorp and i am selective in my communication.

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He's a Sag sun and a Gem mooner? Bulldozing him and trying to hem him in will end up ugly. He loves freedom.

+1

you both have a merc in scorp and you hate him being reluctant to give up information. i can relate to that. i also have a venus in cap and mars in virgo. nervous energy anyone— lol. your venus in cap is very reluctant to settle for mediocracy. to get with a venus in cap, you have to put your best foot forward.

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you both have a merc in scorp and you hate him being reluctant to give up information. i can relate to that. i also have a venus in cap and mars in virgo. nervous energy anyone— lol. your venus in cap is very reluctant to settle for mediocracy. to get with a venus in cap, you have to put your best foot forward.

Yep it's a wrap. No more drama & end of this bipolar roller coaster . I got off this ride yesterday 😢

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Posted by DMV
you both have a merc in scorp and you hate him being reluctant to give up information. i can relate to that. i also have a venus in cap and mars in virgo. nervous energy anyone— lol. your venus in cap is very reluctant to settle for mediocracy. to get with a venus in cap, you have to put your best foot forward.

Yep it's a wrap. No more drama & end of this bipolar roller coaster . I got off this ride yesterday 😢

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youll be back on before you know it 🙂

this combo takes patience and time from both ends. it may take months or even years for you too to get on the same page.

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you both have a merc in scorp and you hate him being reluctant to give up information. i can relate to that. i also have a venus in cap and mars in virgo. nervous energy anyone— lol. your venus in cap is very reluctant to settle for mediocracy. to get with a venus in cap, you have to put your best foot forward.

Yep it's a wrap. No more drama & end of this bipolar roller coaster . I got off this ride yesterday 😢

youll be back on before you know it 🙂

this combo takes patience and time from both ends. it may take months or even years for you too to get on the same page.

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I dont know about going back 😢. But I am an emotional mess. I am counselor and I wish I could get a grip of myself. I told him that I could not going on like this and he said well sometimes I get mad and he doesnt even know why ?
After that he finishes by saying " I will see you one day"..wtf does that mean? After 4 years that all he has to say..WOW

I dont know about going back 😢. But I am an emotional mess. I am counselor and I wish I could get a grip of myself. I told him that I could not going on like this and he said well sometimes I get mad and he doesnt even know why ?
After that he finishes by saying " I will see you one day"..wtf does that mean? After 4 years that all he has to say..WOW

that's is his way of saying he is not done with you, my sagg the couple of times I tried to break up with him it never work's the first time we didn't talk for like 2mths then he text me out the blue that I miss you so we start talking again then the next time he was like "We can't be friends" cause he loved me or whatever so it does take a while fot the feelings to fade if they ever DO.

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I dont know about going back 😢. But I am an emotional mess. I am counselor and I wish I could get a grip of myself. I told him that I could not going on like this and he said well sometimes I get mad and he doesnt even know why ?
After that he finishes by saying " I will see you one day"..wtf does that mean? After 4 years that all he has to say..WOW

that's is his way of saying he is not done with you, my sagg the couple of times I tried to break up with him it never work's the first time we didn't talk for like 2mths then he text me out the blue that I miss you so we start talking again then the next time he was like "We can't be friends" cause he loved me or whatever so it does take a while fot the feelings to fade if they ever DO.

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Yesterday , I felt like I went tru his funeral LOL I am such a drama scorp and today I feel like I am in the mourning stages.

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I dont know about going back 😢. But I am an emotional mess. I am counselor and I wish I could get a grip of myself. I told him that I could not going on like this and he said well sometimes I get mad and he doesnt even know why ?
After that he finishes by saying " I will see you one day"..wtf does that mean? After 4 years that all he has to say..WOW

that's is his way of saying he is not done with you, my sagg the couple of times I tried to break up with him it never work's the first time we didn't talk for like 2mths then he text me out the blue that I miss you so we start talking again then the next time he was like "We can't be friends" cause he loved me or whatever so it does take a while fot the feelings to fade if they ever DO.

Yesterday , I felt like I went tru his funeral LOL I am such a drama scorp and today I feel like I am in the mourning stages.

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Yeah I know how you feel we can be drama queens, those times when me and my sagg have our moments I feel so much heart ache when I even think our relationship may be ending, how ever it gets better after you find ways to control your emotions. Recently my sagg and I have just been ok I pissed him off therefore he didn't want to speak to me for a couple of days so I txt him like normal but I just decided to be nice yet distant at the same time which it worked out kinda well I just moved and I asked when he wanted to see my place he said yes. I would see how he was one day then go 2 days without talking to him then txt him again to check on him creating a pattern but the days I wouldn't talk to him would normally fall around the weekend. So Yesterday he caught on and txt me "its funny how we talk everyday but when the weekend is here I don't here from you" I didn't try to do this on purpose but he gets an attitude when I go out so to avoid the conflict I wanted my weekends to be worry free without letting him know my every move.

Every time we see each other I have to asked him and then make the plan so I would like him to put more effort in this so I just started not contacting him on the weekends if he didn't attemp to make plans with me first. It may sounds crazy but it's my way of letting him know I am out doing things since he is obviously too busy or wh

@depth,

i feel for you girl. the reason you feel so out of sorts is because, you really like him. its always the ones who makes us FEEL that steals our hearts.

he probably feels the same level of confusion you do. so dont think your going at this alone.

i have been mixed up with a scorpio for over 2 years. it took him 7 months to say i love you and 2 years to open up sexually. in between are lots of missunderstandings.

scorp diva is right on. he wants to keep in contact with you. he just isnt as talkative. he has a merc in scorp.

these sag men can be a little selfish and self centered.
well Yesterday the staw that broke the camels back was after he stood me up. We were supposed to meet up in the morning. I spoke to him around 11am thinking he is on his way. He never showed up then he called back around 4pm to say that he could not make it because he fall asleep and just woke up. But he wanted me and my daughter to ride with him to his cousin house (2 hours drive) to go pick up something. I found that inconsiderate to stood us up for breakfast and than wanted to go on a jolly ride with you.

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these sag men can be a little selfish and self centered.
well Yesterday the staw that broke the camels back was after he stood me up. We were supposed to meet up in the morning. I spoke to him around 11am thinking he is on his way. He never showed up then he called back around 4pm to say that he could not make it because he fall asleep and just woke up. But he wanted me and my daughter to ride with him to his cousin house (2 hours drive) to go pick up something. I found that inconsiderate to stood us up for breakfast and than wanted to go on a jolly ride with you.

dammit, im guilty as charged for this. i kinda do and dont belive him that he fell asleep. if i stand someone up, its because i dont feel like moving off the couch, im sleeping, or i found something better to do. dont take it personally, he's probably flaked out on his own momma. shit, ive had people wait on me and i was a no-sho. eh, they'll get over it.

saggis are flaky by nature, although i think we get better with age. i am not good with commitments of any kind.

imo, i would have gone for the ride and told him how inconsiderate he was with laughter or something.

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these sag men can be a little selfish and self centered.
well Yesterday the staw that broke the camels back was after he stood me up. We were supposed to meet up in the morning. I spoke to him around 11am thinking he is on his way. He never showed up then he called back around 4pm to say that he could not make it because he fall asleep and just woke up. But he wanted me and my daughter to ride with him to his cousin house (2 hours drive) to go pick up something. I found that inconsiderate to stood us up for breakfast and than wanted to go on a jolly ride with you.

dammit, im guilty as charged for this. i kinda do and dont belive him that he fell asleep. if i stand someone up, its because i dont feel like moving off the couch, im sleeping, or i found something better to do. dont take it personally, he's probably flaked out on his own momma. shit, ive had people wait on me and i was a no-sho. eh, they'll get over it.

saggis are flaky by nature, although i think we get better with age. i am not good with commitments of any kind.

imo, i would have gone for the ride and told him how inconsiderate he was with laughter or something.

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I prop would have enjoy the ride too🙂 he looked like he was in a good mood and he cleaned his car and was making space for us.I dont think he fall asleep either , he just didnt want to bother to have " the talk". I would have prefer for him to show up and we talked and ate and then we could have went anywhere he wanted. He just wants to be happy all the time , no heavy, uncomfortable conversation.NO sir, he showed up like nothing happen ready for fun adventure...

been there done that I have been stood up by my sagg and us scorps we hate that more than anything to be told something then you never follow through. I told him just let me know and then it's cool but he doesn't want to hear it he knows I will fuss either way once again it's just a negative aspect of their personality. The last time he stood me up I made him feel very bad by telling him that I see where his piorities are and that I must not be one of them next time he made sure he din't stand me even though he was late, u also he always say's if we make plan let me make sure I can make it cause you know how you can get, he knows I act a DAMN fool like you did when that happens.