unhappy SAG i am

Hey yall!! I'm sooo new to this forum stuff..🙂 but here it goes...I'm a Sag(Dec 3rd)I'm 35yrs old...now growing up I was always was a happy fun loving friendly person...As I got older I see myself as a sometimes mean very non chalant person...I really hate that part of me cause I can be very blunt 2the point where I hurt ppl feelings...Now my boyfriend of 11yrs is a CANCER(july18th)...smh...he really plays a big part in my changing before I met him I was a happy friendly person always on the go...when he came in my life I slowly seen myself changing he clingy possessive insecure jealous sensitive emotional wreck he always bringing stuff up from 5yrs ago...LOL..his fucking mood swings drives me crazy...I barely can go anywhere without him...when he buy me things he expects me 2 kiss his ass in return (me being the typical sag not going 2 happen)when he gets mad at me he takes whatever he bought me back...so petty...I'm not saying I'm perfect I sooo can b a handful and I do hurt his feelings alot SORRY he made me like this I stop talking 2 ppl I use 2 be n contact with because he so fucking jealous...THIS HAS BEEN THE LONGEST 11yrs OF MY LIFE...I'VE BEEN CAGED IN SO LONG I BECAME A MEAN PERSON ...GOD I WANT MY MOJO BACK!!! 🙂
CLEANING MY ARROW🙂

Yes I have a Taurus moon but I have a Sagittarius rising and my 4th house is n Aries ...and I swear living with a cancer u never know who you going 2 wake up 2

Posted by SexySadge
Yes I have a Taurus moon but I have a Sagittarius rising and my 4th house is n Aries ...and I swear living with a cancer u never know who you going 2 wake up 2

Cool!

Posted by Sutekh

Posted by SexySadge
Yes I have a Taurus moon but I have a Sagittarius rising and my 4th house is n Aries ...and I swear living with a cancer u never know who you going 2 wake up 2

Theres part of the paradox too, Taurus and Sagittarius are inconjunct. You like doing the same routine (Fixed) and you like a comfortable home and having money( Taurus) but you also want to prance out in the world and run wild and can do so at times but then feel out of place orlike you're losing your center. You like cancer since it appeals to your domestic Taurus moon (sextile)but it doesnt correspond with your sun at all or ascendant.

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omg so true

Posted by Ligeia
I'm a sag that stays attracting cancer men...LOL...I have a cancer that I been with 4 12 years now and I also have a cancer I been cheating with 4 THE LAST 3 YEARS...AND LET ME TELL U MY HANDS IS FULL...THE MOOD SWINGS DRIVES ME CRAZY...AND THEY BOTH SO DAMN SENSITIVE I LITERALLY GOT WATCH WHAT I SAY 2 THEM BOTH CAUSE IM SO DAMN BLUNT AND I STAY HURTING THEY FEELINGS...my cancer that I lives with he's a treetrunking emotional wreck clingy jealous and possessive one min he happy the next he sad and he also have his silent moments he always bringing up old butter he dwells on the past we barely agree on anything I do admit I'm very stubborn and spoil and set n my ways and he so stubborn..i really do love him...now my other cancer he's 10yrs younger then me I'm 35 and he 25...now with him its a sex thing ...now I don't call him or text him at all whenever we do something he initiate it so the other day we have sex and now he wants more then sex ...smh I'm so confused ...2 crabby crabs...don't know what 2 do

Damn I just read this that you wrote about

your Cancer(s) on another thread. Girl you

is MESSY! The fact that the 12+ Cancer wants

to keep you underwraps,muffle your Sagittarian

ways is the least of your problems lol.

lol...i know my hands is full please believe me...now my at home cancer moon is in scorpio and my other cancer moon is in leo...and omg i just had a virgo to i had to kick his lying ass off the team...lol...yes i am a mess...and i actually have 2 other cancer male friends not sexually but they want 2 be...i dont know what is with me and cancer men

Posted by SexySadge

Posted by Ligeia
I'm a sag that stays attracting cancer men...LOL...I have a cancer that I been with 4 12 years now and I also have a cancer I been cheating with 4 THE LAST 3 YEARS...AND LET ME TELL U MY HANDS IS FULL...THE MOOD SWINGS DRIVES ME CRAZY...AND THEY BOTH SO DAMN SENSITIVE I LITERALLY GOT WATCH WHAT I SAY 2 THEM BOTH CAUSE IM SO DAMN BLUNT AND I STAY HURTING THEY FEELINGS...my cancer that I lives with he's a treetrunking emotional wreck clingy jealous and possessive one min he happy the next he sad and he also have his silent moments he always bringing up old butter he dwells on the past we barely agree on anything I do admit I'm very stubborn and spoil and set n my ways and he so stubborn..i really do love him...now my other cancer he's 10yrs younger then me I'm 35 and he 25...now with him its a sex thing ...now I don't call him or text him at all whenever we do something he initiate it so the other day we have sex and now he wants more then sex ...smh I'm so confused ...2 crabby crabs...don't know what 2 do

Damn I just read this that you wrote about

your Cancer(s) on another thread. Girl you

is MESSY! The fact that the 12+ Cancer wants

to keep you underwraps,muffle your Sagittarian

ways is the least of your problems lol.

lol...i know my hands is full please believe me...now my at home cancer moon is in scorpio and my other cancer moon is in leo...and omg i just had a virgo to i had to kick his lying ass off the team...lol...yes i am a mess...and i actually have 2 other cancer male friends not sexually but they want 2 be...i dont know what is with me and cancer men

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i read this article that said that a sag women only need a cancer man when shes lonely. this has been the case with me, i only give them the time of day when im bored. kinda like that with all the water signs.

Posted by aquansidenout
You need to be single...not only because you're feeling emotionally drained but because you're playing with someone's emotions. That is of course if the person whose the at home guy doesn't know he's being consistantly cheated on. That's such a hard thing to read because I couldn't imagine someone playing me like that.

I have tried to leave him numerous times...I'm not playing with his emotions i have told him many times how i feel and i dont want to b in a relationship...he dont want to let go...he's very boring point blank he's a home body im not....i tried it...sorry it's not for me...i get bored very easily..but i do love him...if he can bring that excitement back maybe things could change...i ask him all the time to go places with me he barely wants to go and then when he do go he's very antisocial he sits and stare at me all night...and then when we gets home he wants to question me about everyone he seen me talking to...and his mood swings drives me insane..HE'S NO ANGEL he is a handfull

I really do love him dont get me wrong he takes good care of me..lol.. when he's not mad at me...when I'm sick or feeling down he always there for me and comforts me and gives me words of encouragement thats probaly why im keeping him around...but he's no saint either...he done hurt me many times but i sucked it up..whats in the past is in the past thats my motto..the future what matters to me

Posted by everevolvingepithet
I don't think you can complain if you're doing as you please with your bit on the side anyways. It's not like you're not getting what you want to some degree or you wouldn't be doing it. Being single as suggested makes the most sense.

but im not complaining 🙂

Posted by Sutekh
bruh this whole thread is complaining LOL

LOL...no basicly I'm just stating this is why i do what i do...believe it or not i was faithful the first 6yrs until he start accusing me of things that i wasnt doing and then i caught him up 1 time...lol and that did it...but guys I'm definitely not complaining cause i know im having my cake and eating it to rite now...so stop it Sutekh...LOL

Posted by Sutekh
bruh this whole thread is complaining LOL

Agreed. Seemed like you wanted help or something... Guess not.. so then what is this thread for? Rambling?

Posted by aquansidenout
Did you cheat because he cheated or because he kept accusing you? If you cheated because he cheated the best revenge would of been to move on and let him know that for those 6 years he had a good faithful woman and now he's allowed for you to eventually find a new man to be faithful to in the future. Thatt's the best revenge you can give a cheater is not taking them back. He might not show that it hurt but behind close doors it would eat him alive.

No!!!when you constantly being accused for something you know your not doing (AND GOT PLENTY MEN TO CHOOSE FROM BUT I CHOSEN YOU) it drives you crazy and make you do it...i say well hell since im constantly being accused...fuck it imight as well do it...i did it...it is what it is....he still hanging around i dont have a gun to his head forcing him to stay with me...I'VE SHOWED HIM THE EXIT SIGN PLENTY TIMES HE CHOOSES NOT TO LEAVE...OH FUCKING WELL

Posted by Sutekh
Your cancer guy has to rough you up some and put you in your place.

oh he do...it actually turns me on when he puts his foot down...then the tone of his voice is so deep and strong when i hear that i know he means business...lol

Posted by happykitsune

Posted by Sutekh
bruh this whole thread is complaining LOL

Agreed. Seemed like you wanted help or something... Guess not.. so then what is this thread for? Rambling?

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Girl kick rocks🙂

Posted by SexySadge

Posted by happykitsune

Posted by Sutekh
bruh this whole thread is complaining LOL

Agreed. Seemed like you wanted help or something... Guess not.. so then what is this thread for? Rambling?

Girl kick rocks🙂

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Hey you're the one who posted it. I'm just wondering why you put up such a useless thread