@depressedarian
11 Years
Will he move on?
Tell him.
Ignoring is inhumane. Really it is. The truth will set you free.
You should 100% tell him or he might not get the message. I had (what I thought) was a one night stand with a Sag, he became extremely clingy and turned up at my house 3 times uninvited, he became friends with one of my friends (pretty sure just to see me). I didn't want to tell him to go away for some reason (which is weird because I'm not usually passive aggressive) instead I was just really off with him and quite mean to him actually, but he just didn't get the message, in fact the more I was mean to him the more he liked it I think. Anyway, eventually I was like DUDE GO AWAY and he did, and it was fine.
I guess I thought if I ignored the situation, it would go away. That's totally not the case... Tell him straight up, he'll be fine.
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This Sag guy really really likes me and I don't feel the same way. I ignore him bc I don't want to tell him that I want to move on. I think he's depressed too. I feel so so so bad but I really hate telling people I don't want to talk to them anymore. Someone please tell me that Sag guys move on fast.