Libra Scorpio - works out??

Hey guys,

So I’m a Scorpio from India but I currently live in Chile since the past 10 years. I have been dating this beautiful, energetic, affectionate and fun-loving Libra (shes Chilean) since the past 6-7 months.

We were doing great in the recent months but I don’t know sometimes what happend to this libra girl, she always wants to break up with me.

I have tried to convince her so many times and fixed our relationship but she seems to find a way to break up again.





At first she said I was not putting much initiative in the relationship to which she wanted to break up. So I sent her a piece of art and some more things to her house with a hand written letter. To which she got impressed and called me in to talk and we got back together.

So I started putting a lot more initiative in the relationship with the fear of not losing her again. To which she got tired and broke up with me again.

I really love this woman so much and I don’t know why she’s doing this again and again. So after she broke up with me the second time. I went to the park where she takes her dog for a walk. I got there uninvited with some chocolates and a handwritten letter. To which she got mad and said I should shouldn’t be disturbing her personal space. For me as Scorpio I am an all or nothing guy. I loved the affection she used to give me in our relationship. But I don’t know what happened she seems so uninterested. Also she told me that she’s still in love with her ex. It was totally hurtful to me.





I asked her if she still in love with her ex then why she insisted me to tell her that I love her. Because she used to get upset when I didn’t used to say I love you. Now once my feelings are integrated deeply into her, she doesn’t wants it anymore.

No wonder we Scorpios have trust issues.

Now after that on Saturday she messages me saying that if the guy who was in an accident was not me, because it looked like my car. (She sa they on news/social media). To which I responded “what do you care?”. She said she was just asking because she was worried and she blocked me again.

So I sent her a txt message that same day apologizing and saying that I am breaking up with her on good terms. I only have good memories and good times with her and rest everything I let go...





After this she unblocked me on whatsapp but hasn’t said a word since then. What should I do now?

Yes I understand that point of view.

So should I keep texting her or leave her all alone.

This girl really put my emotional stability off. Lol

Posted by Evilhunter

Yes I understand that point of view.

So should I keep texting her or leave her all alone.

This girl really put my emotional stability off. Lol

What part of she is still in love with her ex do you not understand?

Yes. Got it. Thanks!

It hurts though.

I have no idea. I’m Scorpio 3/11 and she’s libra 19/10

Until she’s over the ex, your best move is to leave her be. Let her make up her own mind and go about your life. You lived just fine before her and you can without. I know it sucks, but it will suck more 5 years down the line when this shit continues or gets worse. She doesn’t know how to communicate her feelings other than ultimatums it sounds like, which is a power play. The relationship should be equal not one person trying to get their way all the time. It means she’s not ready to be in a mature one right now. And she did tell you that so my advice is to listen and walk away. Hope she comes back to you but focus on working on yourself and you’ll be more attractive—a confident man is the best. A man who knows who he is and what he wants and doesn’t settle for less. Wish you the best! This sucks but I’ve been in her shoes and when you don’t listen to the clear cue she gives you, it’s all downhill. You have to respect her feelings if you want her to do the same.

Yes. Thanks for your advice. It’s true a relationship can not be one sided. The feeling has to be mutual. I have already started the process of moving on. I have started working out again which makes me feel so good. I just feel that I got played. I wish relationships were not so complicated.

Her being concerned for your wellbeing is just her being a decent human.

Just cause she doesn’t love you and has discovered she still has feelings for her ex doesn’t mean she doesn’t have love FOR you and was worried when she thought you were in a car crash.

For your own well being tell her you need space and cannot continue a friendship until you get past your feelings towards her. She should respect you being upfront.

Then put her on block and get on with your life.

Don’t put your life on hold waiting for her.