A-list arsehole.

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Libragirl
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I just have to vent, and Im sorry to all you nice scorpios out there.

The story is... i used to (i say 'used to' because this arsehole has taken me off the roster for no reason) work for this scorpio/scorpio team who have treated me like absolute butter.

Ok, this is the story. Scorpio woman moves here from interstate, ingratiates herself amoung my fellow co-workers through drugs. She tries to make friends with me, gets me into bed, although god knows how cos she's as ugly as hell. Jumps into bed naked with me. I do nothing cos I am not attracted to her. I am drunk but I decide to go to sleep (haha). The next day, everything's okay. I leave, we get on with out lives. Time goes by.

Emerge Arsehole. All of a sudden I am approached by another venue (I work in nightclubs), I say no. Eventually I say 'yes'. Arsehole appears, introduces himself, I get an immediate creepy vibe from him (the only reason i worked there is because this really nice girl approached me). Little did i know he used this girl to lure me in (to work). Anyway, as it turns out, i get sacked from my other job because i am working in the new venue. Conveniently (strangely) enough, I get offered more work from this new venue, so i don't worry about my other job, it's history. I continue to work in new venue, bring lots of people in etc... Things go on there, but i won't go into details. To cut a long story short, somehow drug dealer scorpio women finds her way there and hooks up with the arsehole creepy manager. Before long, they are in relationship and i get the boot.

To cut a long story short, this scorpio couple now run dance/rave parties in my city. I have been with them right from the start and now they decide to take me off the 'bill'. Scorpio women has been UP MY ARSE, out of guilt. Scorpio man still says hello to me and i tell him i am fine. He repulses me.

Meanwhile scorpio man had issued me with veiled threats such as "if i go and work at so and so then..." but he didn't actually say "you'd be sacked". He just tried to sabotage the competition.

Anyway, to cut a long story short, he is a low-life and she is not far behind. I am so glad to be rid of them, although i still have to work for her once a week.

I hate him so much. Please tell me there is such a thing as karma because i can't wait for it to raise its ugly head on him.
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Libragirl
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"You are at the point in your life were you should whack some people. If you do not have the ability to do it get someone to".

I wish i could whack this guy but he has worked his way into every facet of the scene i work in so if i whack him i have to quite half my jobs which will render my income almost worthless. Im thinking it may just be worth the effort though. You are right, i am at this point in my life where it is all falling apart around me. I have so much pressure, i feel like crying.
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jaya
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Okay you know what--I had written you a diplomatic response before, but I erased it to give you something real. Your first instinct is to probably harden up and render and solid, blood thirsty, ground shaking blow of justice to all those involved who've offended. It's okay and natural for you to want this..because your scales have been tipped, and it's totally okay to feel that way..
you may want to go to as far as unusually depths to even those scales out.. i'm identifying with your maddening need to do that..Injustice does make libs unquenchably blood thirsty and irrational, until the balance has been restored. I know that there is nothing that I can say to you that will make that need go away from your forevision, but I do want to suggest 1) talking it out rationally with someone further until the madness lowers to controllable levels. 2) Letting the anger subside.
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Candle Girl
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Wow Libragirl, sounds like you sure fell in the snake pit.
I like jaya's advice. When my Libra scales are tipped, I could do a Rambo impersonation. War Paint, Lay in wait in the bushes, find out people's weakness, then get em!! But hey it isn't worth all that because you know karma does come around to bite people. They may be doing really well today and tomorrow they could be in jail!!!
Stay cool Libragirl, you are best rid of the players!
Linda
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sloane
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AAAARRRGGGGHHHHHHHH!! I f'n hate this scenario becuase I have totally experienced this myself and wirh a Scorpio. OKay, first of all Libra Girl--you need to admit that you made a mistake by getting involved with this woman from the start--you Played along to her strings and she took you in but, you should of known that she was not to be trusted in the first place. She's an f'n junkie--they are ALL SCUMBAG LOSERS!! And yes, she and this f***up guy WILL GET THIERS! Everyone gets thier comeupance when they treat others like dirt. LEAVE HER AT ONCE. LEAVE HER HIGH AND DRY--THAT'S WHAT SHE DESERVES. You can find a BETTER job. Cuz she knows you're at her mercy. Avoid the scorpion sting.
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jaya
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"It's up to you to decide whether or not you will be apart of it."
you know.. I really I hadn't ruled out the possibilities of forging some new paths..in fact, I welcome and encourage new direction when all of the previous solutions have failed... we agree, and realize that as described, they seem a bit unreasonable, and may not have the same limits as I feel that lg has.. I really do feel like she knows limits..she's in control of herself and knows what she's doing and where she's going, from reading her previous posts, and that lg's got a pretty good handle on her life.. She'll be able to handle this one..even if it seems like a tough cookie..

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jaya
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ack..* (sighs) didn't mean to be so vague.. my bottom line is that we really don't know what these two are capable of, and how far they are willing to go to get where they want to be..we want her to be safe. Libragirl, I feel, can sense other people's limits, and we all are aware of our own limits (and by limits I mean..the point where we say- alright thanks..I think that's quite enough..sweet!).. I was responding to the aggression in one of the posts above... it's easier to think when we have a cool clear head... and Sloane, your right, walking away can be a great solution too! Either way..Libragirl, you are capable of dealing with this, and btw..let us know how it goes.. take care and be safe!
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Libragirl
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Hi guys, thanks alot for your post, very much appreciated.

She apologized to me which i was surprised about. I still haven't seen him which is just as well because i would probably rip his head off right now! The good thing however is that as the days go by i am not as angry with him. I just have to be careful not to let him do this to me again. He demands absolute loyalty but doesn't give it back in return. I have decided i might treat him as a kid cos that's how he acts 😉 I am still a bit cautious of them both, but it has taught me to be careful of my boundaries. I'll keep you updated. I've got a picture of him and me, i should try to put it on my profile.