Hi. I hope someone here can give me an advice because I'm going nuts trying to figure this guy out. I'm a Cancer and this Scorpio guy added me on Facebook one day out of nowhere. We have 1 mutual friend but we've never met. It all started when he liked a photo I was tagged in and then he added me as a friend. As soon as I accepted him, he started acting really affectionate and protective over me. He started literally chasing me like a cop!!!! hahahaha. For 5 months straight since we became friends, he has been liking EVERYTHING that I post on Facebook. Almost like a stalker!!! All my selfies, links, status, etc... He was very mysterious and I thought he had a big crush on me. Honestly, I felt appreciated and loved like never before!!!! But he hasn't started a conversation or made a move because I'm in a relationship and he knows this. All he has done is send many mixed signs that he likes me. He was BOLD enough to say that my boyfriend was a lucky guy. I can't have anything romantic with him since I have a boyfriend but I will love having him as a friend. Being a Cancer, I'm very shy and I don't have many close friends. And I appreciate this guy a lot because not everyone cares a lot about me like he does (he's very sweet!). The problem is that I don't know what happened because now he's acting like a jerk all of the sudden. The last time he talked to me, he was very caring. He had commented that he liked my name. That he thought it sounds very nice. And he also put a sad face because I posted that I was feeling down. So he showed that he cared about me. But after that for the first time he unexpectedly STOPPED LIKING MY STUFF. It's been a week since, he's acting as if I don't exist anymore. After 5 months of stalking me and liking my stuff non-stop!!!!!! It's literally breaking my heart!!! I feel angry and sad because I don't know if he only played with my feelings or if he was serious this whole time about caring for me. And I don't know what to do. Should I pretend that nothing happened and just go on with my life or be upset and confront him about it?? I don't think its fair that he acts like a guardian angel at the beginning and then stops and acts super cold. I don't want a friend who's going to be nice one day and cold the next day. I also want to add that he has MANY girls who chase him but I'm not one of them. I don't want to show that I'm desperate for his attention but I'm open for a friendship with him though. My boyfriend has many friends and I'm the opposite. I barely talk to people so I don't see anything wrong in having a good friend like him but he's attitude is starting to hurt me and I don't know if it's even worth it anymore. Maybe he's just being distant temporarily but I don't know if I should avoid him from now on and tell him to back off if he starts being nice again. I'm too sensitive and I don't want him to play with me or hurt me. I have thought about blocking him from Facebook so I don't have to deal with the typical Scorpio behavior but I really DO APPRECIATE this guy a lot!!! I just don't understand why he changed and why he first acted really sweet and now abruptly cold. Any advice on how I should act after this—
A Scorpio guy is breaking my heart!!!! Any advice would be appreciated.

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Posted by blackphaseIKR, it's like he didn't break your heart, he just stopped stroking your enormous, tiara infused, ego.
I literally read up to the part where you said he started getting really affectionate and protective and stopped. RUN! You don't even know this guy at all. I don't even want to read the rest.. but I saw mention that you had a boyfriend.. stop just stop.. I don't want to know the details, but this smells like A LOT of trouble.. especially for your boyfriend, whom if you care about you wouldn't even be talking to this guy.. -_-

Dammit @blackphase you read my mind!!!!

Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428
Yeah this book is too hot too handle. Wow and look he's helping you out with your current boyfriend because that your boyfriend now is way better than this new guy
But you actually like a guy who randomly updated and started to stalk you. That's freaking creeping. Reminds of a lot Netflix movies pertaining to creepy dudes and Amber Alert.

anymore. Maybe he's just being distant temporarily but I don't know if I should avoid him from now on and tell him to back off if he starts being nice again. I'm too sensitive and I don't want him to play with me
I had to delete most of your post in order to add my two cents worth. I almost thought you were a "teenager", but realized your year of birth 1986; you're if not, 30, you will be 30. You sound like this is "puppy love". You have a boyfriend; yet this guy treats you better than your boyfriend and it's just a CYBER friendship. Your man is "real" while this dude is again, CYBER.
So what if he stopped liking your stuff. Why do you need his approval? Maybe he's moving on with someone else (stalking as you called it). He's SCORPIO!
Haven't you felt his STINGER? Just imagine you're the crab.....he's got a hold on you and stung you with his stinger....you get it now? Move on.
🤗 cyber hug!
Love,
Eva
I had to delete most of your post in order to add my two cents worth. I almost thought you were a "teenager", but realized your year of birth 1986; you're if not, 30, you will be 30. You sound like this is "puppy love". You have a boyfriend; yet this guy treats you better than your boyfriend and it's just a CYBER friendship. Your man is "real" while this dude is again, CYBER.
So what if he stopped liking your stuff. Why do you need his approval? Maybe he's moving on with someone else (stalking as you called it). He's SCORPIO!
Haven't you felt his STINGER? Just imagine you're the crab.....he's got a hold on you and stung you with his stinger....you get it now? Move on.
🤗 cyber hug!
Love,
Eva

Posted by EvatheDivaNot all Scorpios created equal! LOL
anymore. Maybe he's just being distant temporarily but I don't know if I should avoid him from now on and tell him to back off if he starts being nice again. I'm too sensitive and I don't want him to play with me
I had to delete most of your post in order to add my two cents worth. I almost thought you were a "teenager", but realized your year of birth 1986; you're if not, 30, you will be 30. You sound like this is "puppy love". You have a boyfriend; yet this guy treats you better than your boyfriend and it's just a CYBER friendship. Your man is "real" while this dude is again, CYBER.
So what if he stopped liking your stuff. Why do you need his approval? Maybe he's moving on with someone else (stalking as you called it).
Haven't you felt his STINGER? Just imagine you're the crab.....he's got a hold on you and stung you with his stinger....you get it now? Move on.
🤗 cyber hug!
Love,
Eva
LMAO
You said
He is a SCORPIO like its a bad thing...LOL

Princess,
I had just changed my mind. You can't dump him because he dumped you.
What would you say if your boyfriend had a 'zodiak' on the side?
You need to dump your boyfriend first.
And start from beginning.
Someone brakes your heart while you are in relationships?
Read your post. It is an eye opener!
Kids...
I had just changed my mind. You can't dump him because he dumped you.
What would you say if your boyfriend had a 'zodiak' on the side?
You need to dump your boyfriend first.
And start from beginning.
Someone brakes your heart while you are in relationships?
Read your post. It is an eye opener!
Kids...

Posted by GennieYeah...like she had nothing better to do.
Dammit @blackphase you read my mind!!!!
She just spoke HER mind...and you had jumped onto bandwagon.

Posted by GemitatiWell, he HAS a stinger 😉 🤗 cyber hug!Posted by EvatheDivaNot all Scorpios created equal! LOL
anymore. Maybe he's just being distant temporarily but I don't know if I should avoid him from now on and tell him to back off if he starts being nice again. I'm too sensitive and I don't want him to play with me
I had to delete most of your post in order to add my two cents worth. I almost thought you were a "teenager", but realized your year of birth 1986; you're if not, 30, you will be 30. You sound like this is "puppy love". You have a boyfriend; yet this guy treats you better than your boyfriend and it's just a CYBER friendship. Your man is "real" while this dude is again, CYBER.
So what if he stopped liking your stuff. Why do you need his approval? Maybe he's moving on with someone else (stalking as you called it).
Haven't you felt his STINGER? Just imagine you're the crab.....he's got a hold on you and stung you with his stinger....you get it now? Move on.
🤗 cyber hug!
Love,
Eva
LMAO
You said
He is a SCORPIO like its a bad thing...LOLclick to expand
Love,
Eva

Posted by EvatheDivaApparently HER stinger doesn't sting in right places so she is still horny.Posted by GemitatiWell, he HAS a stinger 😉 🤗 cyber hug!Posted by EvatheDivaNot all Scorpios created equal! LOL
anymore. Maybe he's just being distant temporarily but I don't know if I should avoid him from now on and tell him to back off if he starts being nice again. I'm too sensitive and I don't want him to play with me
I had to delete most of your post in order to add my two cents worth. I almost thought you were a "teenager", but realized your year of birth 1986; you're if not, 30, you will be 30. You sound like this is "puppy love". You have a boyfriend; yet this guy treats you better than your boyfriend and it's just a CYBER friendship. Your man is "real" while this dude is again, CYBER.
So what if he stopped liking your stuff. Why do you need his approval? Maybe he's moving on with someone else (stalking as you called it).
Haven't you felt his STINGER? Just imagine you're the crab.....he's got a hold on you and stung you with his stinger....you get it now? Move on.
🤗 cyber hug!
Love,
Eva
LMAO
You said
He is a SCORPIO like its a bad thing...LOL
Love,
Eva
click to expand
I love your outlook on life. Hugs (cyber or not) 🙂
People are stupid. And I am one of THE people. So I can say things but
I accept things being saying about me without going crazy! LOL
Think you are as well...

You can't have two boyfriends. He got tired of waiting for you to be with him and he probably found someone else. No reason to be hurt. You have a bf....

Posted by GemitatiYep! As we get older, we get WISER! 🤗 cyber hug!Posted by EvatheDivaApparently HER stinger doesn't sting in right places so she is still horny.Posted by GemitatiWell, he HAS a stinger 😉 🤗 cyber hug!Posted by EvatheDivaNot all Scorpios created equal! LOL
anymore. Maybe he's just being distant temporarily but I don't know if I should avoid him from now on and tell him to back off if he starts being nice again. I'm too sensitive and I don't want him to play with me
I had to delete most of your post in order to add my two cents worth. I almost thought you were a "teenager", but realized your year of birth 1986; you're if not, 30, you will be 30. You sound like this is "puppy love". You have a boyfriend; yet this guy treats you better than your boyfriend and it's just a CYBER friendship. Your man is "real" while this dude is again, CYBER.
So what if he stopped liking your stuff. Why do you need his approval? Maybe he's moving on with someone else (stalking as you called it).
Haven't you felt his STINGER? Just imagine you're the crab.....he's got a hold on you and stung you with his stinger....you get it now? Move on.
🤗 cyber hug!
Love,
Eva
LMAO
You said
He is a SCORPIO like its a bad thing...LOL
Love,
Eva
I love your outlook on life. Hugs (cyber or not) 🙂
People are stupid. And I am one of THE people. So I can say things but
I accept things being saying about me without going crazy! LOL
Think you are as well...
click to expand
Love,
Eva

Posted by GemitatiAww still thirsty for a Scorpio, an evolved one wouldn't touch you with a rented dick.Posted by GennieYeah...like she had nothing better to do.
Dammit @blackphase you read my mind!!!!
She just spoke HER mind...and you had jumped onto bandwagon.
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Posted by GenniePosted by GemitatiPosted by GennieYeah...like she had nothing better to do.
Dammit @blackphase you read my mind!!!!
She just spoke HER mind...and you had jumped onto bandwagon.
Aww still thirsty for a Scorpio, an evolved one wouldn't touch you with a rented dick.click to expand
Oh yes he does! Lol
O

Posted by GemitatiPosted by GenniePosted by GemitatiPosted by GennieYeah...like she had nothing better to do.
Dammit @blackphase you read my mind!!!!
She just spoke HER mind...and you had jumped onto bandwagon.
Aww still thirsty for a Scorpio, an evolved one wouldn't touch you with a rented dick.
Oh yes he does! Lol
O
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He wanted to get into your head, now you cant stop wondering??
Well he has done what he set out to do.
You are with someone who he thinks could not be as good as him for you, its up to you, what you do about it x ??
Well he has done what he set out to do.
You are with someone who he thinks could not be as good as him for you, its up to you, what you do about it x ??

Tbh, he sounds a bit manipulative to me, ?

Posted by GennieHe DOES!Posted by GemitatiAww still thirsty for a Scorpio, an evolved one wouldn't touch you with a rented dick.Posted by GennieYeah...like she had nothing better to do.
Dammit @blackphase you read my mind!!!!
She just spoke HER mind...and you had jumped onto bandwagon.
click to expand
And I am telling you - you have to find one for yourself.
However I don't think you can.
I am pretty satisfied with men in my life.
It seems like you are not.
I don't have to go looking for people to insult.
Especially those who don't care about my opinion.
But you do honey. And you found ME!
But please, remember one thing...satisfied woman
never bites. She is just relaxed and happy.
Do you seem relaxed and happy? LOL NOT!
Go fish...not for Scorpios though. He will not stand
your acid attitude. He will sting you and not where you want to be stinged...
LOL

Posted by GemitatiHe touches you with a rented dick? Well, whatever floats your boat I guess 😕Posted by GennieHe DOES!Posted by GemitatiAww still thirsty for a Scorpio, an evolved one wouldn't touch you with a rented dick.Posted by GennieYeah...like she had nothing better to do.
Dammit @blackphase you read my mind!!!!
She just spoke HER mind...and you had jumped onto bandwagon.
And I am telling you - you have to find one for yourself.
However I don't think you can.
I am pretty satisfied with men in my life.
It seems like you are not.
I don't have to go looking for people to insult.
Especially those who don't care about my opinion.
But you do honey. And you found ME!
But please, remember one thing...satisfied woman
never bites. She is just relaxed and happy.
Do you seem relaxed and happy? LOL NOT!
Go fish...not for Scorpios though. He will not stand
your acid attitude. He will sting you and not where you want to be stinged...
LOL
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I'm not looking for men, I was looking for one man, singular. I don't pass myself around like a party favor.
I didn't find you, you popped up like a rodent from a hole and haven't shut up since. I get up in the morning for my coffee and I see you've quoted me out 2-3 times. Been like that for a couple of days.
Okay, I really don't know if I'm being immature or not, but let me explain you my situation. I really don't have friends at all. The only ones I have are a little fake or mean. I don't even consider them real friends. So I felt good that for the first time someone started being nice with me for no reason because this rarely happens. I don't like chasing after people begging them for affection and I like when things flow naturally. I have always been respectful of my boyfriend to the point that my life literally revolves around him. I don't have any guy friends AT ALL. But I don't think it's good for me to be anti-social and not meet people. What if I told you that my boyfriend chats with girls? Well, he does. He has female friends and he has told me that it's completely normal to talk to girls while being with me. So don't you think I have the right to make at least 1 friend, who happens to be nice with me? As I said, I don't like chasing after people so I was never seeking for this to happen. He just appeared out of nowhere and made me feel special. I don't know if it was an ego boost, but I just felt appreciated by someone and that's why I'm heart broken because a lot of people have turned me down and it's kind of mean that he acted nice and now he's ignoring me. Do you think I feel good seeing my boyfriend socializing with many people and I can't even talk to one guy who's friendly with me? I never said I wanted to cheat or anything. I just wanted a good friend but I think I'm going to end up blocking him after all. I hope you understand the reason why I said he broke my heart.

People are rarely nice to other people just because. Usually there is a feeling of rapport that boosts that reaction. The red flags on your posts are when you are effusive and saying things like "I felt loved like never before." Meanwhile the rest of us are looking at each other like "Doesn't she have a boyfriend? Why isn't she getting that from him?"
As to the rest about fake flakes, mean people and being anti-social.....If you're in high school, it sucks, but the good news is that it won't last through college. You can reinvent yourself if you so choose and develop different aspects of your personality.
IF you are in college, see the above paragraph.
If you are out of that age group and are like 28, then this may be an issue. Social anxiety, lack of direction, etc etc. Life coaching would be your best bet.
As to the rest about fake flakes, mean people and being anti-social.....If you're in high school, it sucks, but the good news is that it won't last through college. You can reinvent yourself if you so choose and develop different aspects of your personality.
IF you are in college, see the above paragraph.
If you are out of that age group and are like 28, then this may be an issue. Social anxiety, lack of direction, etc etc. Life coaching would be your best bet.

Posted by GennieTry to stop answering to me and see if I will call you once! No!Posted by GemitatiHe touches you with a rented dick? Well, whatever floats your boat I guess 😕Posted by GennieHe DOES!Posted by GemitatiAww still thirsty for a Scorpio, an evolved one wouldn't touch you with a rented dick.Posted by GennieYeah...like she had nothing better to do.
Dammit @blackphase you read my mind!!!!
She just spoke HER mind...and you had jumped onto bandwagon.
And I am telling you - you have to find one for yourself.
However I don't think you can.
I am pretty satisfied with men in my life.
It seems like you are not.
I don't have to go looking for people to insult.
Especially those who don't care about my opinion.
But you do honey. And you found ME!
But please, remember one thing...satisfied woman
never bites. She is just relaxed and happy.
Do you seem relaxed and happy? LOL NOT!
Go fish...not for Scorpios though. He will not stand
your acid attitude. He will sting you and not where you want to be stinged...
LOL
I'm not looking for men, I was looking for one man, singular. I don't pass myself around like a party favor.
I didn't find you, you popped up like a rodent from a hole and haven't shut up since. I get up in the morning for my coffee and I see you've quoted me out 2-3 times. Been like that for a couple of days.![]()
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Yeah, I'm in my 30's. And , it's embarrassing that I have this personality of not being able to control my emotions. I have always been very sensitive and I can get hurt very easily. I'm a typical Cancer!! hahaha and I hate it. I can cry over the most stupid things or get angry easily. And I also fall in love right away. This has been a problem all throughout my life and I've suffered a lot because of it. Because Cancers are very romantic and it's like we want to live in a fantasy but then we realize that the world sucks and we have to face reality. If I have to be honest, when my boyfriend talks to other girls, I feel like he doesn't love me with the same intensity that I do. I'm very deep when it comes to love and I like to make that person my priority. Because to me, he's the only man in my life but apparently I'm not the only girl in his life since he has the need to talk to other girls for some reason. I have allowed him to have female friends, but there comes a point when you get tired of giving 100% to that person and not receiving the same. So that's why I feel that my life should not be ONLY focused on my boyfriend as it has always been when his life is not all about me. That's why I kind of got happy with this Scorpio guy appeared and I thought it was my chance to make a friend who would appreciate me. Because I don't have much friends, as I had said before. But who knows.... I don't even know if this Scorpio guy is good after all. He seemed good until he started ignoring me. I guess I liked the idea of someone caring about me, since it's very rare but I have to open my eyes and face reality.

Posted by Princess1986You feel this way because you have created your entire world around your boyfriend. Who would you be, who would you know, what would you be doing without him? If you can't answer or arn't doing those things, you are effectively putting yourself in your own prison.
Yeah, I'm in my 30's. And , it's embarrassing that I have this personality of not being able to control my emotions. I have always been very sensitive and I can get hurt very easily. I'm a typical Cancer!! hahaha and I hate it. I can cry over the most stupid things or get angry easily. And I also fall in love right away. This has been a problem all throughout my life and I've suffered a lot because of it. Because Cancers are very romantic and it's like we want to live in a fantasy but then we realize that the world sucks and we have to face reality. If I have to be honest, when my boyfriend talks to other girls, I feel like he doesn't love me with the same intensity that I do. I'm very deep when it comes to love and I like to make that person my priority. Because to me, he's the only man in my life but apparently I'm not the only girl in his life since he has the need to talk to other girls for some reason. I have allowed him to have female friends, but there comes a point when you get tired of giving 100% to that person and not receiving the same. So that's why I feel that my life should not be ONLY focused on my boyfriend as it has always been when his life is not all about me. That's why I kind of got happy with this Scorpio guy appeared and I thought it was my chance to make a friend who would appreciate me. Because I don't have much friends, as I had said before. But who knows.... I don't even know if this Scorpio guy is good after all. He seemed good until he started ignoring me. I guess I liked the idea of someone caring about me, since it's very rare but I have to open my eyes and face reality.
Break out.

Posted by Princess1986
Yeah, I'm in my 30's. And , it's embarrassing that I have this personality of not being able to control my emotions. I have always been very sensitive and I can get hurt very easily. I'm a typical Cancer!! hahaha and I hate it. I can cry over the most stupid things or get angry easily. And I also fall in love right away. This has been a problem all throughout my life and I've suffered a lot because of it. Because Cancers are very romantic and it's like we want to live in a fantasy but then we realize that the world sucks and we have to face reality. If I have to be honest, when my boyfriend talks to other girls, I feel like he doesn't love me with the same intensity that I do. I'm very deep when it comes to love and I like to make that person my priority. Because to me, he's the only man in my life but apparently I'm not the only girl in his life since he has the need to talk to other girls for some reason. I have allowed him to have female friends, but there comes a point when you get tired of giving 100% to that person and not receiving the same. So that's why I feel that my life should not be ONLY focused on my boyfriend as it has always been when his life is not all about me. That's why I kind of got happy with this Scorpio guy appeared and I thought it was my chance to make a friend who would appreciate me. Because I don't have much friends, as I had said before. But who knows.... I don't even know if this Scorpio guy is good after all. He seemed good until he started ignoring me. I guess I liked the idea of someone caring about me, since it's very rare but I have to open my eyes and face reality.
Awww sweetie you sound lonely..I think you should try to keep yourself busy and find interesting ways to make you happy...then slowly socialize with people who are not interested in you on a romantic level. I alway say when you are lonely it's best to try to satisfied your needs alone first...so you can never actually feel alone because you can filled your own void. Think about some things you can do by yourself. You have to find your inner comfort . On the guy..it's a no. Remember that you don't no him like that . This man can be anybody but he is not the man you think he is because you don't no him. You don't even like him like that because you don't no who he is. Just step back from him. Also get rid of your mean ass friends. Try to think of the things that excite you. Challenge yourself to enjoy life alone.

I have a question Hun. I'm actually quite intrigued by this. What's your boyfriends sign? And if I'm reading this correctly, your boyfriend doesn't allow you to have guy friends or you don't allow yourself to have guy friends? If it's the second one (you don't allow yourself to have guy friends), is it because you want to treat your boyfriend with the same respect you want to be treated with? If so, does he know that you're holding back because of yourself, basically? Maybe you should talk to him. Because it seems like your putting in more than you should, or more than he's giving to you. This has nothing to do with the Scorp and more to do with the fact that you're very insecure right now and the way that your bf is treating you isn't enough so your looking for validation elsewhere. Did this man on Facebook truly break your heart? No. He broke your self esteem, which can feel like the same thing.

It's okay not to know exactly where your going In life, no matter what your age is. But what's not okay is standing at a standstill while life pasts you by. You need to do something about your confusion in life.
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