A scorpio wants to meet me, but wont say when?

Hello,

I would like to have the opinion of the scorpio men out there and anyone else who has any insight on the sorpio mans mind please 🙂. i have never known any scorpios, this is my first.

I am a capricorn by the way 🙂

4 weeks ago i was looking for old school friends on FB (facebook) i was looking for a fellow in particular who was in the same year level as i, James. I have not seen or spoken to him for 10 years.

Instead of James i come accross his younger brother Mick (a scorpio, nov 8th), who was a year level below us and who i had never spoken to. After introducing myself, i asked Mick if his brother had facebook. Mick replied that James did not. He asked James if he rememebred me, James apparently didnt, which i found strange as i used to see James almost everyday and he even asked what happened to me after high school on occasion to my friends.

Along with this, Mick said he asked James if he wanted my number, because i looked 'cute' in my profile picture. But James said no. So Mick instead asked me if i am single and suggested that we catch up sometime instead. I replied that i am single and asked him also if he was (you can never be sure) he stated that he would not have asked me if he was with someone else.

It has been almost 3 weeks, Mick has said he does not use facebook often, i seem to hear from him once a week, when i do he mentions that we will catch up soon. this week however i have not heard from him. I am happy to catch up with him and have told him to tell me when he would like to on two occasions. Till now he still hasnt indicated when, i emailed him once asking how he was over a week ago, he replied 3 days later metioning he has been busy with work, that was last weekend.

My questions is: Do you think he lied to me about asking his brother if he rememebred me? manipulated the situations so he could keep me to himself? Do scorpios suggest things like catch ups when they have no intention of doing so? Afetrall he has never met me, he doesent have to say this.

If you need come clarity of detail on the conversations please let me know, any insight would be appreciated 🙂

My apologies for the spelling too, I rushed this.

Posted by buttercupSG
i think you should talk to james directly. and if for some reason, there is no way for the muffled james to talk to you directly without going throu his micky mouse brother i'd say there are better things to do than wondering about the micky mouse brotherS.

lmao @ mickey mouse brother. Good one, buttercup.

LOL indeed mickey mouse.. any other ideas? Im just wanting to know if i should take this scorpios word and be patient... i never suggested catching up, he did all that, i just told him to let me know when he is free. he keeps saying we will catch up soon even though i dont actually ask him for a time...maybe i should?

I'm sure he had well intentions, but I don't think you are currently priority to him.

Also... doesn't sound like he is much interested in you.


I knew a guy like that. You never got a response faster than 3 days because he never checked his personal email account. Even after meeting him in person... his speed of response never changed.

Later I found out, he was interested in some gal at his workplace.

Don't waste your prescious time with idiots like that.

Thanks for that guys 🙂. Honestly i only want to meet him as a friend, i dont know him, never met him in person, only knew him by reputation. So any romantic notion isn really not on my list.

I have done some reading and found Scorpio men do dissapearing acts? and take a long time to get to know people? I do this myself, i dissapear on friends for weeks sometimes and find if they dont bug me i come back quickly, but if they pressure me i just want to stay away more. Silly as it sounds 🙂

dont worry buttercupSG, fwb is not my thing lol. im all for getting to know people as friends first before even considering getting serious, i need commitment🙂

He did warn me on more than one occasion that he doesent use facebook. he only has 7 friends on his friends list and has no activity at all. But the first weekend we started speaking i heard from him everyday over the entire weekend, after that though once a week and now not at all. oh well.

Agreed buttercupSG 🙂, you have to meet people to be sure.

He has told me he works at out local mall as a security guard, we also still live in the same suburb after all these years lol, haven't seen him or his bro once in the area in 10 years... which I guess shows I am even less of a priority, its not like he has to travel any great distance to find me lol... also mentioned he is not a computer person, this I know to be true as he was a very outdoors person in high school. A fanatical soccer player, its all they cared about and I don't remember them (him and his brother) having a single girlfriend in high school because of it... he is still a fanatical player and plays in the state league, coincidence is, the week they won I heard from him everyday, the last two weeks they have lost, not much to no contact lol

Thanks again for the insight; hopefully I will get a chance to actually make a choice on him if we ever meet up lol. Then again, a catch up could be a couple of months down the track, I don't see friends for months sometimes, and everyone has their own lives that take over lol
Who knows, I may completely dislike him! lol.

But it is nice to hear your Scorpio story, good to hear there are consistent men out there 🙂... I will keep the eye open for the passionate glance you mentioned 🙂

by the way, whats your sign? 🙂

Oh my! no wonder! lol.. you know what i like you too, i like that you are realisting but not in a put down way, you point out the positives as well 😄

Its funny you mention it but Mickey Mouse does have some earth in his chart:

SUN: Scorp
MOON: Sag
MERCURY: Scorp
VENUS: Virgo
MARS: Virgo


I agree so much with what you are saying, insecurities to me are so humbling, makes me want to encourage the person that they are still so lovable and special regarless 😄

Your scorp sounds so lovely, its truly so nice to hear that he accepts you for who and what you are 😄... i will try to send something funny to mickey mouse, just have to figure out what. I have been known to be very bubbly, i smile when there is nothing to smile about, but we cap girls are charming by nature 😄

I did have the theory that he is down because of his game not going so well, i honestly have a feeling its why he is single, he spends so much time on it. but thats fair enough, it is what he loves, loved it long before he ever spoke to me hehe

I meant realistic before, sorry 😛

hi Scorpio_chic 🙂

Im starting to get down to what it all means too lol, what is the significants of the sag moon? I generally dont have much in common with sag people 😢 lol

Posted by buttercupSG
In general, the personality of those whose Moon sign is in Sagittarius will absolutely adore the great outdoors. There is an immense love for the feeling of freedom here. Others perceive Sagittarius Moon indidividuals as active with a fondness for travel and sports...

That is soooo true of him, he is not an indoor person at all. Always on the go, never stays still and is sport crazy lol. (like my brother whos sun is in sag, doesent sit at a computer for weeks at a time lol)

Where did you find this description buttercup? its awesome! i would love to read what they say about other signs.

Venus is Virgo sounds very down to earth from what im reading 🙂 much like me, my venus is in Capricorn lol

Sorry i been away a while, had the fue still do but am getting better lol.

Well this will be the third week and havent heard back from Mick, so i guess its a no go. Strange fellow, hes been online to add friends a few times on facebook but never replied to my message about telling me when hes ready to catch up, maybe i worded it to forward, of well. Still havent met him but im a bit over the idea now.

Last thing he told me was we will catch up soon. must be a serial flirt or something lol. instigates the idea and never delivers.

Buttercup i did look up the info on that site (atrology-numerology), very accurate for me!! hehe Sun: capricorn, Moon: Taurus hehe, how have you been??

flu i meant lol

***UPDATE***

I met my Scorpio, eventually...and I haven't stopped smiling since 🙂

He contacted me that we needed to catch up, so we set a time for Sat night at 9:00.... Well Saturday came, I hadn't heard from him... I so I sent him a txt at 7:30 asking if we were still on..... He replied, telling me he would not make it back in time, apologising that he was at his friend??s house and wouldn't be home until midnight, but that he still wanted to meet eventually.... I was annoyed, he had known for 3 days that we were meeting and pulled out... so i replied to him 2 hours later, telling him "OK Mick, get home safe"...

Minutes before midnight I received a message from him, telling me he had arrived home, I replied with a simple smiley, I honestly didn't feel like speaking to him, I was still upset.... he then asked me if I would meet him now, quickly face to face close by? (We live in the same suburb). I told him I couldn't, it was late and that he could ring me instead. He said he couldn't, because everyone in the house was asleep, that it was a shame, that he would like to have seen me, hopeful that he would see me soon..

I told him he can ring me the next day before noon when I am free... said he couldn't do that either, that he is working all day and after had to be at his best friends house after...he then asked me to send him my picture....I hesitated, he suddenly sent me one of himself...I told him I only had a facebook one on the phone.... he asked me to take a new one and sent it to him, he hoped again that he would see me soon... so I sent one of myself half an hour later.

The next day, I was on my way to my friends, I was passing where he works at the local mall as security, I sent him a message saying I was dropping in quickly to pick something up, that perhaps I would see him there, he replied with XX.

So I went, I brought what I had to and when I walked out of the store I saw him ahead of me walking away, I messaged him to say I was behind him. He stopped and turned around, looking for me, I waved, we met.
He was honest, genuine and incredibly nervous 🙂... at 6'3 he was shuffling around me like a teenage boy, apologising for how busy the mall way, apologising that he didn't look his best and apologising for sweating as he had been on the go so much... he remembered everything I had told him in previous conversations and even brought up how much he liked my surname?? lol... all I did was stand there and smile

................cont

We spoke about little things here and there for only a few moments...........In the end, he had to get back to work.... but told me we still needed to catch up properly, IF i still wanted to 🙂....i told him yes and he told me he wont be in his uniform when we do, still nervous lol... so nervous he couldnt even verbalise goodbye, he just shuffled away.

The next day i sent him a message, telling him it was nice to see him and that he put a smile on my face 🙂...he replied with a smile and kisses..

i thought it was a sweet story to tell, if we do meet up again i dont know, all i know is he left me smiling even today and i would like to see him again.... 🙂

"My questions is: Do you think he lied to me about asking his brother if he rememebred me? manipulated the situations so he could keep me to himself?"



Keep you to himself? Are you joking or serious?

He is basically ignoring you right up until has to communicate with you because you insist.

Seriously dude .. fuck man

Well, the guy hadnt even met me before that... im surprised we met at all. If it were me and someone contatced me, i woud have just told them sorry dont know you, bye. 🙂... I never insisted on anything, i never even asked him to meet up, i didnt know him from a bar of soap either. That was his idea, and the when and where was also his idea. Nothing is ever cut and dry, if we meet again great, if not, thats also ok 🙂 i just thought i would share it, thats all.

"I never insisted on anything, i never even asked him to meet up, i didnt know him from a bar of soap either. That was his idea, and the when and where was also his idea."

I'm not talking about the original contact. I'm talking about how desperate you present yourself to him afterwards. Why would he want to keep you to himself when you are that easy to catch?

Listen to yourself below ....



"I am happy to catch up with him and have told him to tell me when he would like to on two occasions."

".. i emailed him once asking how he was over a week ago, he replied 3 days later metioning he has been busy with work, that was last weekend."

"Well this will be the third week and havent heard back from Mick, so i guess its a no go. Strange fellow, hes been online to add friends a few times on facebook but never replied to my message about telling me when hes ready to catch up .."

** Then you make sure to contact him to let him know you will come by his work to see him.






Seriously .... he doesn't make any efforts because he doesn't have to .. surly, you will throw yourself at him, just as we see above. I can clearly see that he only communicates with you when you insist, meaning you are ringing him, or emailing him, or going to his work ...

I don't know, maybe its a culture thing because certainly you're not an American woman. Maybe where you are from women chase the men down. I don't know .. what I do know though is that you are definitely chasing this man.

Stop it .. it makes you look desperate.

lol i will take your advice on board 🙂.

I dont think you read my whole thread by the way........And those emails, its called showing interest, playing too hard to get there are plenty other fish in the sea. Some men need it and he did.... just so you know i refused his first date suggestion and he had to suggest another. And his second one about meeting me in the middle on the night?... I outright refused him. My sister had to ask her now husband out the first time because he was shy, they have been married 24 years and have 3 children now and still look at eachother with puppydog eyes.

Honestly wishing you all the love and happiness in the world P-Angel, because im certain you have alot of love to give inside. And afterall, my situation wont change your life now will it? No need to be so upset, just dont look at this thread 🙂 All the best.

The man isn't shy ... he asked you out the first time he even knew you existed.


I'm not upset .. you are - hence: the existence of this thread. Don't attempt to distract me from point, you won't be successful, I promise you.


So then, if you are purposely refusing/rejecting him, and THEN chasing him .. then this means you are playing him, manipulating him to get him to come after you, so that you have the luxury of denying his advances.


What is it you are hoping to gain?

"And those emails, its called showing interest"



NO

Thats right, he did ask me out the first time...It was nice to have met you P-angel, as I said, all the best 🙂

It's called looking pathetic.

Your sugar on top has no effect .. however, you can continue if it makes you feel better. However, rest assured, it's only for you to "show" whatever it is you think you are showing me ... because I guarantee you that 99% of the females in here who will read this will agree .....


.... you ARE chasing a man, and this DOES make you look desperate.

You want this man?


Then pull your head out of your ass and listen, instead of trying to come up with sugar.



Get some pride and don't contact this man again.

I ianthefish, have we spoken before? i cant remember you sorry.

P-Angel, I do like this man, yes. Im not saying this to sugar anything. Understand i have someone telling me how pathatic i am in a forum for liking someone... So you know, i have already decided i will not contact him again, what i wanted was for us to meet in person, to get a feeling if we would like what we felt when we saw eachother because we never had, thats happened now... what happens from here is out of my hands, he is the man and its his perogative..... Its up to him now, if he wants to see me again is out of my control, thats why i said if we meet again great, if not then thats ok too and there will be nothing i can do about it.

did you reply to my thread at some point?

I just checked, yes! you sent me a message a while ago telling me to stop lurking lol.. i wasnt, i hadnt been on the forum for years, just came back now about the scorpio fellow... we talked about the pisces guy i knew.

ok then lol

you sure do have a pretty mouth ... boy