Any advice on this Scorpio situation, I messed up!

Guys, I have a problem. I met this girl in a club. A Scorpio, and I thought she was amazing, beautiful and great to talk too and probably the sexiest girl I’ve ever seen, I was very drunk and drinking with her all night till 6am. Next day I realised I didn’t have her number. And was wondering if she was soo nice, or was it the alcohol.

The week later, I was drunk and thought I’d go back to the club, it was a long shot, she wasn’t there, I was a bit disappointed. I drank by myself at the bar depressed for two hours and another girl (Libra) came over and asked what my problem was. I told her i met someone last week and I liked her but couldn’t find her, it was a drunken stupid conversation. We talked, and it turns out that her ex was sleeping with my ex from a while back (the Taurus, I remember posting about her on here, it explained some things). We couldn’t believe each other. She was friends with this ex but they turned enemies when she found out she was sleeping with her boyfriend.

I told the Libra about my ex from a month or so ago, that she was just using me for money, anyway she said her ex did the same to her and she bought him a car, then he got thrown in jail. We just had interesting stuff to talk about. It was weird how we knew the same people.

Anyway we arranged to help each other and keep each other sane. We arranged to meet the weekend after.

We go out, and drink. We go back to the club where we met. We get inside and the Libra goes to the bathroom.

But guess what? The girl I waited for was there! The Scorpio. She was actually there. I went over and she remembered me and she looked amazing, like a dream. I bought her a drink. Ok.. so I’m on a date kinda, or was it a friends thing because I wasn’t sure.

The Libra comes back from the bathroom and I tell her this is the girl I was waiting for last week. The Libra asks to go sit somewhere else away from the scorpio. So we do. I didn’t want an argument, realised I was in trouble now with both of them.

Then here’s where it gets tricky. The Libra tells me she’s done some cocaine. I tell her my ex did it and it was the reason for the mess up at the end, she tells me that she likes doing cocaine and having sex. Now, with my ex, she did the same, she’d do cocaine and the sex would be mental cos she’d be so horny or something.

I said I don’t really like it. We sit and drink. Then the Libra said she needs to go home. I went outside and put her in a taxi. I went back inside the club. I look for the Scorpio, I couldn't see her, so I sit at the bar by myself. She comes up straight away and says I was an idiot, I had a decision and I made the wrong decision. She storms off.

I went chasing her, I sat with her and told her I came back to find her, I waited for her. That I wanted to see her again but didn’t have her number. I bought a bottle of champagne for us, I was happy.

We talked till closing time again, she lives in the next town along for some reason, and she has two kids. I didn’t ask about the dad but wish I had. And I don’t know, it was good. I messaged her the next day just once and she replied.

Then, I start to think, maybe the right thing to do is stay with the Libra, who I sort of had a date with. We arranged to meet again and I thought, she doesn’t have kids and she is making more effort than the Scorpio to message me. And I want someone I can travel with, difficult if the Scorpio is a single mom with two kids.

Weekend after, I meet the Libra again, she is on coke already, I start to worry I’m making the same past mistakes. I don’t know why but we went back to the club, she was buying coke from someone at the club, so it’s why we ended up back there.

The Scorpio is there again. The Libra goes to buy her coke. I went to the Scorpio and buy her a drink and say I want to be with her, that this girl is just a friend and she’s on coke which I don’t like. Scorpio starts flirting, telling me I’ve made the right decision this time. Libra comes back and asks me to buy her a drink. I literally had the two either side both asking me what my problem is. I ordered a drink for both. The two argue, the Libra tells her to leave me alone. The Libra was psycho on her, Scorpio in shock.

Two hours later, Libra in bathroom, I go try and find the Scorpio, but her friends tell me she’s gone home.

I look at my phone and she’s called me a stupid man.

Next day I message her and tell her I want to see her, for food or coffee.

She replies and says she’s had a bad day, she’s upset and if I like her (as in the Libra) then I should ask her for dinner or food, not her.

Now I’m stuck.

I want the Libra as a friend like I thought we were for coffee and friend stuff, although she does look good in bed. I’m too old to chase sex now. The Scorpio is the most attractive woman I’ve ever met, but I don’t know either that well. I don’t care about kids. But now I think I’ve blown it with the Scorpio? Plus I feel a bit of game-playing from the Scorpio actually, the Libra is extremely honest.

The Scorpio message feels like a game? My ex before who did coke was Scorpio, she used to talk the same, to make me feel guilty to get a reaction. I haven’t been able to message Scorpio back, I’m thinking about being honest, but I think if I open up then I’ve lost her that way anyway. And in the mean time I have coffee planned with Libra, but she was kinda saying she was wrong to shout at Scorpio as we said we were friends at the start when we met.

Any advice?

You're a hot mess.

how about you just stop and leave both alone? who wants to be around a coke head? if scorp has two kids, why is she is the bar? unless they are older. you need to be honest. if Scorpio had you so giddy, you should have stuck to Scorpio without ever engaging with libra. stick to the one you slept with already.

but she's a coke head. sir, you just need to leave town

I haven't slept with either.

I thought I'd never see the Scorpio again.

My plan is tell the libra I can't be with anyone on coke.

And I do have respect for the single mom

It's why I ask here, I've blown It with the Scorpio because libra was bossy, but looking back I wouldn't have seen the Scorpio again if it wasn't for the libra maybe, so it's confusing.

This shit is bad. Real bad. And I knew, with all that drinking you do that your brain cells must be dying. You've proven me right. You're a mess TO BEGIN WITH. You wrote a whole book that speaks of your indecisiveness and ability to attract MESS. Get it together. A fucking coke-head bum and a high-strung bird (who argues w a girl over a man she barely knows 🤦. Then there's you. Yikes.

Posted by AriesJo

I haven't slept with either.

I thought I'd never see the Scorpio again.

My plan is tell the libra I can't be with anyone on coke.

And I do have respect for the single mom

It's why I ask here, I've blown It with the Scorpio because libra was bossy, but looking back I wouldn't have seen the Scorpio again if it wasn't for the libra maybe, so it's confusing.

then how TF do you know how libra looks good in bed?

can somebody please remove this trash off of our board please? quickly. before someone steps in it and smears it everywhere.

Stay home.