My bestfriend (Scorpio) expects me to videotape his cat even when we fight

This topic was created in the Relationships forum by nikkistar on Thursday, July 11, 2019 and has 26 replies.

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@nikkistar
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Hi. I just want an opinion because I don't know if my bestfriend is being a jerk. We live together and I videotape his cat everyday (except for the weekends). I also work full time.

When my bestfriend and I fight I'm not in the mood to videotape his cat. I can't pretend that I'm not mad at him.

Today my bestfriend started a fight when we got home from work over something insignificant so instead of going straight to the cat tree I went to my room to do something else. I was going to videotape Stubbs but I wanted to calm my anger a bit. Well he got more mad and told me that I'm expected to videotape Stubbs as soon as we get home from work because Stubbs is fiesty as hell.

So it doesn't matter if he starts a fight, I still have to videotape Stubbs.

I mean, if he's taping another video for Big Brother he can also get tablet to video or vocaroo himself but he doesn't think that way.

I just want to know if it's normal for me not to be in the mood for videotaping after we fight? And most of the time he starts the fights so I don't think it's fair to pretend there's nothing going on. I have emotions.

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Run while you can, next thing you know he'll expect you to cook for him.

Brilliant troll

Oh nice, thanks, but I didn't mean to troll. I just said that because I've noticed that after the video phase usually comes the cooking phase and then soon after that you may as well shit in a brook.

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I was referring to your username.

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Idk @nikkistar, cat isn’t guilty for the fights between humans! Are you saying you will take your frustration on innocent pet just because his owner is an ass? It’s sound like an animal cruelty to me. I had better vision of you. Very disappointing. 😪😪

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Posted by nikkistar

Hi. I just want an opinion because I don't know if my bestfriend is being a jerk. We live together and I videotape his cat everyday (except for the weekends). I also work full time.

When my bestfriend and I fight I'm not in the mood to videotape his cat. I can't pretend that I'm not mad at him.

Today my bestfriend started a fight when we got home from work over something insignificant so instead of going straight to the cat tree I went to my room to do something else. I was going to videotape Stubbs but I wanted to calm my anger a bit. Well he got more mad and told me that I'm expected to videotape Stubbs as soon as we get home from work because Stubbs is fiesty as hell.

So it doesn't matter if he starts a fight, I still have to videotape Stubbs.

I mean, if he's taping another video for Big Brother he can also get tablet to video or vocaroo himself but he doesn't think that way.

I just want to know if it's normal for me not to be in the mood for videotaping after we fight? And most of the time he starts the fights so I don't think it's fair to pretend there's nothing going on. I have emotions.

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Posted by nikkistar

Hi. I just want an opinion because I don't know if my bestfriend is being a jerk. We live together and I videotape his cat everyday (except for the weekends). I also work full time.

When my bestfriend and I fight I'm not in the mood to videotape his cat. I can't pretend that I'm not mad at him.

Today my bestfriend started a fight when we got home from work over something insignificant so instead of going straight to the cat tree I went to my room to do something else. I was going to videotape Stubbs but I wanted to calm my anger a bit. Well he got more mad and told me that I'm expected to videotape Stubbs as soon as we get home from work because Stubbs is fiesty as hell.

So it doesn't matter if he starts a fight, I still have to videotape Stubbs.

I mean, if he's taping another video for Big Brother he can also get tablet to video or vocaroo himself but he doesn't think that way.

I just want to know if it's normal for me not to be in the mood for videotaping after we fight? And most of the time he starts the fights so I don't think it's fair to pretend there's nothing going on. I have emotions.

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Me or Stubbs?

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Posted by nikkistar

Hi. I just want an opinion because I don't know if my bestfriend is being a jerk. We live together and I videotape his cat everyday (except for the weekends). I also work full time.

When my bestfriend and I fight I'm not in the mood to videotape his cat. I can't pretend that I'm not mad at him.

Today my bestfriend started a fight when we got home from work over something insignificant so instead of going straight to the cat tree I went to my room to do something else. I was going to videotape Stubbs but I wanted to calm my anger a bit. Well he got more mad and told me that I'm expected to videotape Stubbs as soon as we get home from work because Stubbs is fiesty as hell.

So it doesn't matter if he starts a fight, I still have to videotape Stubbs.

I mean, if he's taping another video for Big Brother he can also get tablet to video or vocaroo himself but he doesn't think that way.

I just want to know if it's normal for me not to be in the mood for videotaping after we fight? And most of the time he starts the fights so I don't think it's fair to pretend there's nothing going on. I have emotions.

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Me or Stubbs?

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Nikki 🙂

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Posted by Pandora101
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Posted by nikkistar

Hi. I just want an opinion because I don't know if my bestfriend is being a jerk. We live together and I videotape his cat everyday (except for the weekends). I also work full time.

When my bestfriend and I fight I'm not in the mood to videotape his cat. I can't pretend that I'm not mad at him.

Today my bestfriend started a fight when we got home from work over something insignificant so instead of going straight to the cat tree I went to my room to do something else. I was going to videotape Stubbs but I wanted to calm my anger a bit. Well he got more mad and told me that I'm expected to videotape Stubbs as soon as we get home from work because Stubbs is fiesty as hell.

So it doesn't matter if he starts a fight, I still have to videotape Stubbs.

I mean, if he's taping another video for Big Brother he can also get tablet to video or vocaroo himself but he doesn't think that way.

I just want to know if it's normal for me not to be in the mood for videotaping after we fight? And most of the time he starts the fights so I don't think it's fair to pretend there's nothing going on. I have emotions.

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perfection 🙂

Me or Stubbs?

Nikki 🙂

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