@thecrazyariestaurus
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Scorpio saying I love you
Why are you over thinking this still??
Posted by SeaLionWhy are you over thinking this still??
Because all I do is overthink 😂😭
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Taurus if you feel the same you better tell him too
No I say what I mean
He told me he loved me, but I was in shock so all I said was “wait, did you just say that?!” And he just laughed and changed the subject. Tried getting him to repeat but he wouldn’t lol he just jokingly kept saying “ I didn’t say anything” or “I said I love your hair” 🤦🏻♀️
Posted by SilveradoPosted by thecrazyariestaurusPosted by ImpulsvWhat am I missing
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Taurus if you feel the same you better tell him too
No I say what I mean
He told me he loved me, but I was in shock so all I said was “wait, did you just say that?!” And he just laughed and changed the subject. Tried getting him to repeat but he wouldn’t lol he just jokingly kept saying “ I didn’t say anything” or “I said I love your hair” 🤦🏻♀️
You hurt his feelings.
if you feel the same way you have a limited amount of time to reciprocate. You're beginning to lose him.
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Fuck 🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️ I was thinking this too. Cuz he was really trying to avoid it. Ugh I’m so bad with saying I love you. I was hoping he’d say it again so I could say it back
Posted by SilveradoPosted by thecrazyariestaurusPosted by SilveradoPosted by thecrazyariestaurusPosted by ImpulsvWhat am I missing
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Taurus if you feel the same you better tell him too
No I say what I mean
He told me he loved me, but I was in shock so all I said was “wait, did you just say that?!” And he just laughed and changed the subject. Tried getting him to repeat but he wouldn’t lol he just jokingly kept saying “ I didn’t say anything” or “I said I love your hair” 🤦🏻♀️
You hurt his feelings.
if you feel the same way you have a limited amount of time to reciprocate. You're beginning to lose him.
Fuck 🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️ I was thinking this too. Cuz he was really trying to avoid it. Ugh I’m so bad with saying I love you. I was hoping he’d say it again so I could say it back
He's not going to say it again because he doesn't feel secure anymore. You hesitated and that cuts deep.
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Shit 😭 I figured because if someone did that to me I’d act the same way. I was just so thrown off and not expecting it that that’s what I said. I do love him. How do you think I should tell him?
Posted by SilveradoOh, one other thing: DON'T TELL HIM VIA FUCKING TEXT EITHER! 🤬
This is one of those things you have to say in person. No phone calls, no text messages with heart emojis, just you and him alone. No BS.
YES I AGREE!!! I hate talking about serious topics via text. Of course one of my friends suggested this and I said HELL NO! Lol
Posted by ImpulsvPosted by thecrazyariestaurusPosted by SilveradoPosted by thecrazyariestaurusPosted by ImpulsvWhat am I missing
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Taurus if you feel the same you better tell him too
No I say what I mean
He told me he loved me, but I was in shock so all I said was “wait, did you just say that?!” And he just laughed and changed the subject. Tried getting him to repeat but he wouldn’t lol he just jokingly kept saying “ I didn’t say anything” or “I said I love your hair” 🤦🏻♀️
You hurt his feelings.
if you feel the same way you have a limited amount of time to reciprocate. You're beginning to lose him.
Fuck 🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️ I was thinking this too. Cuz he was really trying to avoid it. Ugh I’m so bad with saying I love you. I was hoping he’d say it again so I could say it back
Don’t wait till he says it again. Just look into his eyescareees his hair n say
I love you too
With a big smile
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Ahhh gotta work up the courage to do it 😩 I’ll do it when I see him again
Posted by SilveradoPosted by thecrazyariestaurusPosted by SilveradoPosted by thecrazyariestaurusPosted by SilveradoPosted by thecrazyariestaurusPosted by ImpulsvWhat am I missing
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Taurus if you feel the same you better tell him too
No I say what I mean
He told me he loved me, but I was in shock so all I said was “wait, did you just say that?!” And he just laughed and changed the subject. Tried getting him to repeat but he wouldn’t lol he just jokingly kept saying “ I didn’t say anything” or “I said I love your hair” 🤦🏻♀️
You hurt his feelings.
if you feel the same way you have a limited amount of time to reciprocate. You're beginning to lose him.
Fuck 🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️ I was thinking this too. Cuz he was really trying to avoid it. Ugh I’m so bad with saying I love you. I was hoping he’d say it again so I could say it back
He's not going to say it again because he doesn't feel secure anymore. You hesitated and that cuts deep.
Shit 😭 I figured because if someone did that to me I’d act the same way. I was just so thrown off and not expecting it that that’s what I said. I do love him. How do you think I should tell him?
You know him best. You know when it's a good time to say it and you better mean it if you do or he will see right through you. You only get to fuck this up one time.
Good luck, hopefully he's a forgiving guy. And you won't know if he does unless he says it one more time unforced.
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Thank you! We’ll see what happens. 😭
Posted by MareInfamePosted by thecrazyariestaurusPosted by SilveradoPosted by thecrazyariestaurusPosted by SilveradoPosted by thecrazyariestaurusPosted by ImpulsvWhat am I missing
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Taurus if you feel the same you better tell him too
No I say what I mean
He told me he loved me, but I was in shock so all I said was “wait, did you just say that?!” And he just laughed and changed the subject. Tried getting him to repeat but he wouldn’t lol he just jokingly kept saying “ I didn’t say anything” or “I said I love your hair” 🤦🏻♀️
You hurt his feelings.
if you feel the same way you have a limited amount of time to reciprocate. You're beginning to lose him.
Fuck 🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️ I was thinking this too. Cuz he was really trying to avoid it. Ugh I’m so bad with saying I love you. I was hoping he’d say it again so I could say it back
He's not going to say it again because he doesn't feel secure anymore. You hesitated and that cuts deep.
Shit 😭 I figured because if someone did that to me I’d act the same way. I was just so thrown off and not expecting it that that’s what I said. I do love him. How do you think I should tell him?
You would act the same way if done to you, you feel the same way about loving him and yet you did NOTHING?
I don’t understand how you could have that awareness and still decide to keep him in the dark as to how you feel. That isn’t very loving.
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Like I said he really threw me off. Doesn’t mean I don’t feel the same, but I was just really caught off guard. I’m gonna tell him once I see him because I refuse to do it over the phone.
Haha, I remember those days when the Scorpio back than would randomly slip out, "I love you," then pretend it never happened the next day.
His excuse was either one of this:
"I was tired"
"I don't remember this"
"I dont know what you're talking about"
"Could we not talk about this?"
Good God the pressure in this thread 😬
Posted by EchoHaha, I remember those days when the Scorpio back than would randomly slip out, "I love you," then pretend it never happened the next day.
His excuse was either one of this:
"I was tired"
"I don't remember this"
"I dont know what you're talking about"
"Could we not talk about this?"
What did you do after he said it? Did you say it back?
Posted by thecrazyariestaurusPosted by EchoHaha, I remember those days when the Scorpio back than would randomly slip out, "I love you," then pretend it never happened the next day.
His excuse was either one of this:
"I was tired"
"I don't remember this"
"I dont know what you're talking about"
"Could we not talk about this?"
What did you do after he said it? Did you say it back?
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Not right away. Cause I was trying to figure out if he was serious or toying with my feelings.
Posted by EchoPosted by thecrazyariestaurusPosted by EchoHaha, I remember those days when the Scorpio back than would randomly slip out, "I love you," then pretend it never happened the next day.
His excuse was either one of this:
"I was tired"
"I don't remember this"
"I dont know what you're talking about"
"Could we not talk about this?"
What did you do after he said it? Did you say it back?
Not right away. Cause I was trying to figure out if he was serious or toying with my feelings.
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I just laugh when I read your post because he said all those excuses, except “I was tired” 😂 I regret not saying it back
Posted by thecrazyariestaurusPosted by EchoPosted by thecrazyariestaurusPosted by EchoHaha, I remember those days when the Scorpio back than would randomly slip out, "I love you," then pretend it never happened the next day.
His excuse was either one of this:
"I was tired"
"I don't remember this"
"I dont know what you're talking about"
"Could we not talk about this?"
What did you do after he said it? Did you say it back?
Not right away. Cause I was trying to figure out if he was serious or toying with my feelings.
I just laugh when I read your post because he said all those excuses, except “I was tired” 😂 I regret not saying it back
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Why thou?
And yeah, till this day I think he is still toying with my feelings. Cause right now we are fwb and I dont believe a damn thing he says when he said, "I miss you a lot when we havent talk for 2 months and a half."
"I have feelings for you and I'm scared to fall for you."
And a lot more, he said that when he was drunk
Posted by thecrazyariestaurusHave you ever slipped up or got so caught up in the moment and told the person you’re dating you love them? Did you mean it? Regret it? Etc.
My Scorpio girlfriend has said it when someone said it to her but she hasn't meant it. 😑😑😑 She struggles with not giving people what they want, she is a huge people pleaser.
As a Scorpio moon, I don't throw that word around. I can't speak for other Scorpio moons.
hell no. it takes a lot for me to even like ppl. I don't use the love word. only to my husband. even with him it took a while to say.
Posted by emeraldgemOMG this thread! Gonna say it to my Cancer guy this weekend. I've pretty much said it without saying it.....like....."Do you know how I feel about you?" and telling him I'm serious about him, etc. But I want to have that moment, that hair-caressing, look deep in the eyes and just say those words.........I can't keep it held back any more. Now his reaction? No idea - he goes slower than me and I would hope he would be on board but I can't be sure.
Good luck to you 🙌🏼 Hope his reaction goes how you want it to! Still haven’t told my Scorp I love him. I didn’t feel like the timing was right when I saw him this weekend. My mind has been preoccupied with some serious shit lol
Posted by ImpulsvOp your pregnant by him? Say it already lol
Loll we shall see on Friday when I test 😅 stay tuned 👀
Posted by emeraldgemSo here's the report: we broke up. I should be texting this on the "Ghosting" Forum though. He was gone about 10 days on vacation (and texting me throughout), supposed to come back Saturday (yesterday) afternoon. He asked me what time I was busy until - I told him 2:00. Then I hear nothing. At 2:30 I text to ask him where he's at. Instead of coming to my place, he went to the office......?! He texts, "What? Thought you were busy so came here." Did he not read my texts at all? Guess not. When I said I'd been waiting for him and that he never told me about plans to go to the office." Nada....nothing.....I'm like WTF is going on here? Tried to call, he won't pick up and won't answer texts either. After almost 4 months and it's going down like this? Usually I don't get blindsided like this.....but I'm in shock. Everything up to this point was going well - he texts were sweet and caring and our sexual chemistry was blazing. This was my first Cancer guy......and probably my last. I don't get it.
I feel like He’ll be back. Cancers get butt hurt easily, push people away, then they come back. That’s me as a cancer moon lol
Posted by emeraldgemSo here's the report: we broke up. I should be texting this on the "Ghosting" Forum though. He was gone about 10 days on vacation (and texting me throughout), supposed to come back Saturday (yesterday) afternoon. He asked me what time I was busy until - I told him 2:00. Then I hear nothing. At 2:30 I text to ask him where he's at. Instead of coming to my place, he went to the office......?! He texts, "What? Thought you were busy so came here." Did he not read my texts at all? Guess not. When I said I'd been waiting for him and that he never told me about plans to go to the office." Nada....nothing.....I'm like WTF is going on here? Tried to call, he won't pick up and won't answer texts either. After almost 4 months and it's going down like this? Usually I don't get blindsided like this.....but I'm in shock. Everything up to this point was going well - he texts were sweet and caring and our sexual chemistry was blazing. This was my first Cancer guy......and probably my last. I don't get it.
This is classic cancer man shenanigans. You probably accidently hurt his feelings by breathing the wrong way and instead of addressing it like a grown up, he's being a spiteful lil passive-aggressive a** baby. 😄 In other words, he's punishing you. He will probably be back in a couple months time with some "I still love you" bullshit. 🙄🙄
UPDATE: Well everyone, I finally told him. We got into a fight last night at our friends bday party, and I stormed off and he came looking for me. I started crying that’s why I wanted to be alone and we talked about everything. And he asked why I was so hurt and said “is it cause you’re madly in love with me” jokingly. And I said that’s exactly why. I’m in love with you. And he said “and why wouldn’t you tell me this? Wth you should’ve told me”. We were good by the end of the night and he told me he loved me and I said it back. This wasn’t exactly how I was expecting it to go but whatever at least he knows now lol
Posted by Phantom_DangusPosted by thecrazyariestaurusUPDATE: Well everyone, I finally told him. We got into a fight last night at our friends bday party, and I stormed off and he came looking for me. I started crying that’s why I wanted to be alone and we talked about everything. And he asked why I was so hurt and said “is it cause you’re madly in love with me” jokingly. And I said that’s exactly why. I’m in love with you. And he said “and why wouldn’t you tell me this? Wth you should’ve told me”. We were good by the end of the night and he told me he loved me and I said it back. This wasn’t exactly how I was expecting it to go but whatever at least he knows now lol
Ridiculous, dramatic, and adorable. Congratulations. 🙂
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Haha mostly dramatic 😂 thank you! 😁
Posted by SilveradoPosted by thecrazyariestaurusPosted by ImpulsvWhat am I missing
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Taurus if you feel the same you better tell him too
No I say what I mean
He told me he loved me, but I was in shock so all I said was “wait, did you just say that?!” And he just laughed and changed the subject. Tried getting him to repeat but he wouldn’t lol he just jokingly kept saying “ I didn’t say anything” or “I said I love your hair” 🤦🏻♀️
You hurt his feelings.
if you feel the same way you have a limited amount of time to reciprocate. You're beginning to lose him.
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Who needs weak ass man like that who must have words to he said?
What if woman is with you but doesn’t say it...is this a reason for leaving?
Wait...you love her don’t you?
How about keep on working on rships until she will fall for you definitely?
Jeez! Those weak ass lovers!!!
And yes I made Scorpio say he loves me. Doesn’t mean shit...
Posted by thecrazyariestaurusPosted by SilveradoPosted by thecrazyariestaurusPosted by SilveradoPosted by thecrazyariestaurusPosted by ImpulsvWhat am I missing
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Taurus if you feel the same you better tell him too
No I say what I mean
He told me he loved me, but I was in shock so all I said was “wait, did you just say that?!” And he just laughed and changed the subject. Tried getting him to repeat but he wouldn’t lol he just jokingly kept saying “ I didn’t say anything” or “I said I love your hair” 🤦🏻♀️
You hurt his feelings.
if you feel the same way you have a limited amount of time to reciprocate. You're beginning to lose him.
Fuck 🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️ I was thinking this too. Cuz he was really trying to avoid it. Ugh I’m so bad with saying I love you. I was hoping he’d say it again so I could say it back
He's not going to say it again because he doesn't feel secure anymore. You hesitated and that cuts deep.
Shit 😭 I figured because if someone did that to me I’d act the same way. I was just so thrown off and not expecting it that that’s what I said. I do love him. How do you think I should tell him?
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HOW do you twll him?
By moving your lips and pronouncing the words...🤦♀️
Posted by SilveradoOh, one other thing: DON'T TELL HIM VIA FUCKING TEXT EITHER! 🤬
This is one of those things you have to say in person. No phone calls, no text messages with heart emojis, just you and him alone. No BS.
What a drama King!!! Really?
Posted by emeraldgemMoral of the story? It NEVER goes the way you want/think it will go.
Haha yesss
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Have you ever slipped up or got so caught up in the moment and told the person you’re dating you love them? Did you mean it? Regret it? Etc.