Aqua on Scorp board? - WTH

I avoid intimate relations with Scorpios at all cost because the thought of possessiveness and jealousy. but I just recently realized that I have a lot of Scorpio friends who are real people. Outspoken speak their minds kind of people but at the same time they have this mystery about themselves that makes me wonder who you scorps really are. And I just met this libra with a scorpio venus. Just don't really know where I'm going with this...I just want to be careful not to get caught up in the scorpion rage. LOL

He's 50 and admit he has had to get over that temper and jealousy.